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hmm wrote:
and since we were also kind of on the topic of social media i think everyone should delete it today delete instagram delete twitter delete tiktok. but i don't even do that but everyone Should still do it so we can begin to come back to reality as a collective x
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Date: 11-07-2026 22:33
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hmm wrote:
can u change the thread title so more people express their opinions i'm #Curious
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Date: 11-07-2026 22:34
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Hauru wrote:
hmm wrote:
i was too vague i can't be arsed to be more concrete sorry. i hate men too but i fear some of these radfems are venting out their own personal frustrations rather than it being related to the patriarchy itself, which i of course completely understand
yea i get that and i agree just in general everything on social media is so blown out of proportion real people in real life dont act like that and i feel like most of these takes would simply have no substance if you talk to someone about itĀ 
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Date: 11-07-2026 22:57
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hmm wrote:
Hauru wrote:
hmm wrote:
i was too vague i can't be arsed to be more concrete sorry. i hate men too but i fear some of these radfems are venting out their own personal frustrations rather than it being related to the patriarchy itself, which i of course completely understand
yea i get that and i agree just in general everything on social media is so blown out of proportion real people in real life dont act like that and i feel like most of these takes would simply have no substance if you talk to someone about itĀ 
the algorithm favours the bad stuff because it brings more engagement. people just need to go experience things for themselves and yes that will bring bad things too but there's also good in it. not to tinfoil but it's eerie how tiktok tries to create an echo chamber of bad stuff for your algorithm once you consume anything related to a more serious topicĀ 
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Date: 11-07-2026 23:25
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hmm wrote:
that being said, 98% of the men i've known in real life were sleazebags EEIJEJEKĀ  Ā and weirdly enough some had a kind side to them even though they were still Gross in some ways. there's nuance i Guess? maybe people just perceive things from a "is this a person i can have a romantic relationship with?" lense too much
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Date: 11-07-2026 23:27
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Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
social media is getting too much into purity culture with not allowing women to show any skin in any form of media they try to make it into a feminism issue and yes oversexualization of women in media is def a problem but its a very thin line between allowing women to represent themselves as they want and people trying to police what they wear or how women should look to be considered "respectable"
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
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Date: 11-07-2026 23:39
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hmm wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
social media is getting too much into purity culture with not allowing women to show any skin in any form of media they try to make it into a feminism issue and yes oversexualization of women in media is def a problem but its a very thin line between allowing women to represent themselves as they want and people trying to police what they wear or how women should look to be considered "respectable"
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i think i'm deviating from it a bitĀ  but euhejieekieji


some of the things women have to conform to are genuinely just a survival thing and fighting it Feels too hardĀ Ā like some can get away with being unshaven, but for women who are more hairy it's not easy to just rebel and not shave. like sure you can agree with the principle of not shaving to not reinforce beauty standards, but actually stepping outside unshaven knowing full well you will get judged is a different thing, or (i hope it doesn't come across the wrong way) even seeing it in person can be surprising because it is out of the norm as we know it

often you just have to conform to make life a little bit easier and it sucks of course because if you apply that to everything, the argument starts to become less and less valid. for many it's hard to achieve the level of confidence needed to "rebel"
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Date: 11-07-2026 23:48
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Hauru wrote:
hmm wrote:
that being said, 98% of the men i've known in real life were sleazebags EEIJEJEKĀ  Ā and weirdly enough some had a kind side to them even though they were still Gross in some ways. there's nuance i Guess? maybe people just perceive things from a "is this a person i can have a romantic relationship with?" lense too much
oh yea i still dislike men but i do have some male friends and they are normal so theres def a problem with people viewing anything and everything from a "romantic" pov likeeeee can we all just chill for a minnn living in a world full of people who NEED to be in a relationship bcs they dont have any hobbies is so exhausting
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Date: 11-07-2026 23:56
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Hauru wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
social media is getting too much into purity culture with not allowing women to show any skin in any form of media they try to make it into a feminism issue and yes oversexualization of women in media is def a problem but its a very thin line between allowing women to represent themselves as they want and people trying to police what they wear or how women should look to be considered "respectable"
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i saw that too i cant talk bcs i lasered my body LMFAO i do think shaving and stuff can be part of the patriachy but beauty standards will exist even outside of that. I think i look prettier without my hair but i also didnt care that much if my legs were unshaved. Its all about your mindset and being discredited as a feminist bcs you SHAVE is literally an insane chronically online take even though i understand where its coming from
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Date: 11-07-2026 23:59
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hmm wrote:
Hauru wrote:
hmm wrote:
that being said, 98% of the men i've known in real life were sleazebags EEIJEJEKĀ  Ā and weirdly enough some had a kind side to them even though they were still Gross in some ways. there's nuance i Guess? maybe people just perceive things from a "is this a person i can have a romantic relationship with?" lense too much
oh yea i still dislike men but i do have some male friends and they are normal so theres def a problem with people viewing anything and everything from a "romantic" pov likeeeee can we all just chill for a minnn living in a world full of people who NEED to be in a relationship bcs they dont have any hobbies is so exhausting
it's terrible and maybe it's a distorted perspective but i feel like a lot of people have been conditioned to socialize with romance in mind. Like let's just Be Friends don't be strange now

but i guess something something loneliness epidemic so people are trying not to fall victim to that
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Date: 12-07-2026 00:00
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hmm wrote:
Hauru wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
social media is getting too much into purity culture with not allowing women to show any skin in any form of media they try to make it into a feminism issue and yes oversexualization of women in media is def a problem but its a very thin line between allowing women to represent themselves as they want and people trying to police what they wear or how women should look to be considered "respectable"
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i saw that too i cant talk bcs i lasered my body LMFAO i do think shaving and stuff can be part of the patriachy but beauty standards will exist even outside of that. I think i look prettier without my hair but i also didnt care that much if my legs were unshaved. Its all about your mindset and being discredited as a feminist bcs you SHAVE is literally an insane chronically online take even though i understand where its coming from
you lasered your body isn't that insanely expensive?!?!?!!
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Heartbroken wrote:
hmm wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
social media is getting too much into purity culture with not allowing women to show any skin in any form of media they try to make it into a feminism issue and yes oversexualization of women in media is def a problem but its a very thin line between allowing women to represent themselves as they want and people trying to police what they wear or how women should look to be considered "respectable"
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i think i'm deviating from it a bitĀ  but euhejieekieji


some of the things women have to conform to are genuinely just a survival thing and fighting it Feels too hardĀ Ā like some can get away with being unshaven, but for women who are more hairy it's not easy to just rebel and not shave. like sure you can agree with the principle of not shaving to not reinforce beauty standards, but actually stepping outside unshaven knowing full well you will get judged is a different thing, or (i hope it doesn't come across the wrong way) even seeing it in person can be surprising because it is out of the norm as we know it

often you just have to conform to make life a little bit easier and it sucks of course because if you apply that to everything, the argument starts to become less and less valid. for many it's hard to achieve the level of confidence needed to "rebel"
yeah, for sure!Ā 
it's just been very annoying being online and seeing the entire discourse bc nothing is good enough for them lmao. bc one thing me and many others apperantly shave for is bc the hair bothers us, like its a sensory issue when it for example rubs against your pants, and people are being whiney and lowkey probably a little ableist abt it and dismissing it, saying shit like "oh then why dont you shave your head" and thinking its some sort of gotcha momentĀ Ā can't women just live, man
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Date: 12-07-2026 00:00
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Hauru wrote:
hmm wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
social media is getting too much into purity culture with not allowing women to show any skin in any form of media they try to make it into a feminism issue and yes oversexualization of women in media is def a problem but its a very thin line between allowing women to represent themselves as they want and people trying to police what they wear or how women should look to be considered "respectable"
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i think i'm deviating from it a bitĀ  but euhejieekieji


some of the things women have to conform to are genuinely just a survival thing and fighting it Feels too hardĀ Ā like some can get away with being unshaven, but for women who are more hairy it's not easy to just rebel and not shave. like sure you can agree with the principle of not shaving to not reinforce beauty standards, but actually stepping outside unshaven knowing full well you will get judged is a different thing, or (i hope it doesn't come across the wrong way) even seeing it in person can be surprising because it is out of the norm as we know it

often you just have to conform to make life a little bit easier and it sucks of course because if you apply that to everything, the argument starts to become less and less valid. for many it's hard to achieve the level of confidence needed to "rebel"
right conforming is the right word. Women get bullied for almost anything, let us have a little bit of peace of mind. Dismanteling the patriarchy doesnt happen overnight and i feel like it has already gotten better in terms of acceptance but still... we gotta protect ourselves as well to live a "normal" life with as little stress as possible.
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Date: 12-07-2026 00:01
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Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
Hauru wrote:
social media is getting too much into purity culture with not allowing women to show any skin in any form of media they try to make it into a feminism issue and yes oversexualization of women in media is def a problem but its a very thin line between allowing women to represent themselves as they want and people trying to police what they wear or how women should look to be considered "respectable"
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i saw that too i cant talk bcs i lasered my body LMFAO i do think shaving and stuff can be part of the patriachy but beauty standards will exist even outside of that. I think i look prettier without my hair but i also didnt care that much if my legs were unshaved. Its all about your mindset and being discredited as a feminist bcs you SHAVE is literally an insane chronically online take even though i understand where its coming from
yuhhh. i think you can aknowledge that it started because of the patriarchy and also shave for yourself, i feel those things can co-exist but *shrug*
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Hauru wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
hmm wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i think i'm deviating from it a bitĀ  but euhejieekieji


some of the things women have to conform to are genuinely just a survival thing and fighting it Feels too hardĀ Ā like some can get away with being unshaven, but for women who are more hairy it's not easy to just rebel and not shave. like sure you can agree with the principle of not shaving to not reinforce beauty standards, but actually stepping outside unshaven knowing full well you will get judged is a different thing, or (i hope it doesn't come across the wrong way) even seeing it in person can be surprising because it is out of the norm as we know it

often you just have to conform to make life a little bit easier and it sucks of course because if you apply that to everything, the argument starts to become less and less valid. for many it's hard to achieve the level of confidence needed to "rebel"
yeah, for sure!Ā 
it's just been very annoying being online and seeing the entire discourse bc nothing is good enough for them lmao. bc one thing me and many others apperantly shave for is bc the hair bothers us, like its a sensory issue when it for example rubs against your pants, and people are being whiney and lowkey probably a little ableist abt it and dismissing it, saying shit like "oh then why dont you shave your head" and thinking its some sort of gotcha momentĀ Ā can't women just live, man
you literally cant make it right online people will always find a reason to hate on you its just that everyone has a very different opinion and likes to defend it to have moral highground. They might not even follow these principles themselves
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