Anachronism wrote:
men who freak out over pubic hair are typically immature.
I get being bothered by a full bush but some guys are afraid of stubble lol
Idk I'd prefer a bush to a rash tbh (which is why I don't shave anymore). Guys are weird.
Epoch wrote:
my skin is way too sensitive for more than just a trim sometimes, so whoever i date learns to deal lmao. i get really bad rashes and razor bumps and no no it isn't fun
Anachronism wrote:
You're really lucky he was ok w/ you not shaving! That's extremely rare.
It's so hypocritical of men to expect you to be hairless AND tolerate their hair to boot. It's very risky to wax your bikini regions yet women are viewed as unruly and unkempt if they don't and men are viewed as "gay" unless it's for practical purposes like swimming. Should I risk infections just to be "aesthetically pleasing?" Fucking patriarchy.
Epoch wrote:
I don't really care.
My ex was and still is really, really insecure about his body hair. Enough to the point where (if tmi about sexual lives freaks you out DO NOT READ THIS) he wouldn't let me blow him or take his shirt off or anything and it was actually really, really sad. So basically I learned not to judge because insecurity is not something to play with and yeah. Plus he never expected me to shave or anything so it would be really unfair to ask him to like wtf
I don't really care.
My ex was and still is really, really insecure about his body hair. Enough to the point where (if tmi about sexual lives freaks you out DO NOT READ THIS) he wouldn't let me blow him or take his shirt off or anything and it was actually really, really sad. So basically I learned not to judge because insecurity is not something to play with and yeah. Plus he never expected me to shave or anything so it would be really unfair to ask him to like wtf
You're really lucky he was ok w/ you not shaving! That's extremely rare.
It's so hypocritical of men to expect you to be hairless AND tolerate their hair to boot. It's very risky to wax your bikini regions yet women are viewed as unruly and unkempt if they don't and men are viewed as "gay" unless it's for practical purposes like swimming. Should I risk infections just to be "aesthetically pleasing?" Fucking patriarchy.
my skin is way too sensitive for more than just a trim sometimes, so whoever i date learns to deal lmao. i get really bad rashes and razor bumps and no no it isn't fun

men who freak out over pubic hair are typically immature.
I get being bothered by a full bush but some guys are afraid of stubble lol
Idk I'd prefer a bush to a rash tbh (which is why I don't shave anymore). Guys are weird.