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"I just can't find a guy...."
BoPeep
Streetmusician



BoPeep wrote:
Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
those are buzzwords used in places like reddit and 4chan where incels spread toxic messages about relationships. the main message of using these words in these context is that nothing can be changed about a person, relationships are inherently unfair, and the only way to be successful in love is to follow a rigid set of rules that will allow you to manipulate others into a relationship to get what you want from them. a healthy relationship is not easy. thats why it's always gotta be more important than looking good. Also I get tired of toxic men saying things are objective fact. literally perpetuating the idea that men are smarter, more logical than women, also part of incel culture.
Fuck ben Shapiro for propagating those buzzwords like am I right?

Just because you say something is an objective fact doesn't mean it is
right now im obsessed with ben shapiro and his wife's dry ass p-word 

his flow is unmatched
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:00
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Now that I've finally caught up w/ this thread who wants a hot take
I'm listening



I actually agree w/ op. Too bad it was written by an incel who blames women 4 the reason he's single. 

Like, lol @ girls who are like, "men suck, wish I was gay!" as if dating women is any easier. It's reasonable to be jaded about the positions of power men hold, but I give men credit cuz I think feeling defeated by them just makes them win? No how about demand better if u really wanna fuck the system 
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:08
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:


Daniel put it best. 

"This is a promise with a catch. Only if you're looking will it find you, cuz true love is searching too. How will it recognize you if you dont step out into the light, the light?" 

Word. R.I.P. 
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:16
BoPeep
Streetmusician



BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Now that I've finally caught up w/ this thread who wants a hot take
I'm listening



I actually agree w/ op. Too bad it was written by an incel who blames women 4 the reason he's single. 

Like, lol @ girls who are like, "men suck, wish I was gay!" as if dating women is any easier. It's reasonable to be jaded about the positions of power men hold, but I give men credit cuz I think feeling defeated by them just makes them win? No how about demand better if u really wanna fuck the system 
yea I mean I think the op statement isn't wrong but it depends on how you wanna read it. Cause it's true that if you wanna be in a relationship you have to be open minded but that doesn't mean being with anyone who asks which is how a lot of ppl ultimately feel about it. Dating is hard and awkward in general and there's no real rules to anything but just try telling that to people who have been listening to incel talking points for however long, they will simply refuse to believe that.
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:20
Private
Princess of Pop



Arthema wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
I'm listening



I actually agree w/ op. Too bad it was written by an incel who blames women 4 the reason he's single. 

Like, lol @ girls who are like, "men suck, wish I was gay!" as if dating women is any easier. It's reasonable to be jaded about the positions of power men hold, but I give men credit cuz I think feeling defeated by them just makes them win? No how about demand better if u really wanna fuck the system 
yea I mean I think the op statement isn't wrong but it depends on how you wanna read it. Cause it's true that if you wanna be in a relationship you have to be open minded but that doesn't mean being with anyone who asks which is how a lot of ppl ultimately feel about it. Dating is hard and awkward in general and there's no real rules to anything but just try telling that to people who have been listening to incel talking points for however long, they will simply refuse to believe that.
yeeessss

AND they take effort!! small things! people never realize it but it's the small things that can make it work if you're compatible in a way
but ye coroni and all rn, so take care of yourself first

and about incel part rlly there's nothing to listen to them with their reasonings, 
they can say all they want that bohoo girls won't date me at all but in the end it's those incels that complain all day that they themselves will have standards, even if they're simple,
bitches be complaining about the thing that they themselves do (not everyone ofc but a LOT of cases r like this)
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:27
Anachronism
National Star



Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
I'm listening



I actually agree w/ op. Too bad it was written by an incel who blames women 4 the reason he's single. 

Like, lol @ girls who are like, "men suck, wish I was gay!" as if dating women is any easier. It's reasonable to be jaded about the positions of power men hold, but I give men credit cuz I think feeling defeated by them just makes them win? No how about demand better if u really wanna fuck the system 
yea I mean I think the op statement isn't wrong but it depends on how you wanna read it. Cause it's true that if you wanna be in a relationship you have to be open minded but that doesn't mean being with anyone who asks which is how a lot of ppl ultimately feel about it. Dating is hard and awkward in general and there's no real rules to anything but just try telling that to people who have been listening to incel talking points for however long, they will simply refuse to believe that.
Oh I'm pretty sure op and I have different takes on that statement LOL, p sure he means dating whoever asked as u described, good way to put it. Male entitlement is gross

Just wanted to comment cuz it seems a lot of women like to view themselves as perpetual victims as opposed to freeing themselves from the chains of victimhood (Tori Amos has talked about this). I don't think defeatist attitudes help. How low of an opinion of yourself and other women do you have to have to think men cant treat women right? Saying "All men are assholes" doesnt solve the problem. 
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:28
BoPeep
Streetmusician



BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:



I actually agree w/ op. Too bad it was written by an incel who blames women 4 the reason he's single. 

Like, lol @ girls who are like, "men suck, wish I was gay!" as if dating women is any easier. It's reasonable to be jaded about the positions of power men hold, but I give men credit cuz I think feeling defeated by them just makes them win? No how about demand better if u really wanna fuck the system 
yea I mean I think the op statement isn't wrong but it depends on how you wanna read it. Cause it's true that if you wanna be in a relationship you have to be open minded but that doesn't mean being with anyone who asks which is how a lot of ppl ultimately feel about it. Dating is hard and awkward in general and there's no real rules to anything but just try telling that to people who have been listening to incel talking points for however long, they will simply refuse to believe that.
Oh I'm pretty sure op and I have different takes on that statement LOL, p sure he means dating whoever asked as u described, good way to put it. Male entitlement is gross

Just wanted to comment cuz it seems a lot of women like to view themselves as perpetual victims as opposed to freeing themselves from the chains of victimhood (Tori Amos has talked about this). I don't think defeatist attitudes help. How low of an opinion of yourself and other women do you have to have to think men cant treat women right? Saying "All men are assholes" doesnt solve the problem. 
yes and it's especially sad because I can understand the anger and frustration of it but when you are so overcome by anger it alienates you from other people and eventually these women end up on the same side as incels which I don't know if they even realize. 
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Posts: 31
Date: 18-08-2020 00:32
BoPeep
Streetmusician



BoPeep wrote:
Abby wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:



I actually agree w/ op. Too bad it was written by an incel who blames women 4 the reason he's single. 

Like, lol @ girls who are like, "men suck, wish I was gay!" as if dating women is any easier. It's reasonable to be jaded about the positions of power men hold, but I give men credit cuz I think feeling defeated by them just makes them win? No how about demand better if u really wanna fuck the system 
yea I mean I think the op statement isn't wrong but it depends on how you wanna read it. Cause it's true that if you wanna be in a relationship you have to be open minded but that doesn't mean being with anyone who asks which is how a lot of ppl ultimately feel about it. Dating is hard and awkward in general and there's no real rules to anything but just try telling that to people who have been listening to incel talking points for however long, they will simply refuse to believe that.
yeeessss

AND they take effort!! small things! people never realize it but it's the small things that can make it work if you're compatible in a way
but ye coroni and all rn, so take care of yourself first

and about incel part rlly there's nothing to listen to them with their reasonings, 
they can say all they want that bohoo girls won't date me at all but in the end it's those incels that complain all day that they themselves will have standards, even if they're simple,
bitches be complaining about the thing that they themselves do (not everyone ofc but a LOT of cases r like this)
totally and on the other hand it is often the small things that make relationships end too. Like so many people say "irl I'm so nice but ppl still don't want to date me, I'm not doing anything wrong I'm just ugly" but there have been COUNTLESS times I wanted to be around someone until they talked over me, refused to listen to what I wanna talk about, only focus on my looks, etc. and then got mad when I didn't wanna be with them. This goes for friendships AND dating. And most of those cases I just do the slow fade away and I'm sure from their perspective they did nothing wrong and it was some superficial reason.
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:38
Anachronism
National Star



Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
BoPeep wrote:
yea I mean I think the op statement isn't wrong but it depends on how you wanna read it. Cause it's true that if you wanna be in a relationship you have to be open minded but that doesn't mean being with anyone who asks which is how a lot of ppl ultimately feel about it. Dating is hard and awkward in general and there's no real rules to anything but just try telling that to people who have been listening to incel talking points for however long, they will simply refuse to believe that.
Oh I'm pretty sure op and I have different takes on that statement LOL, p sure he means dating whoever asked as u described, good way to put it. Male entitlement is gross

Just wanted to comment cuz it seems a lot of women like to view themselves as perpetual victims as opposed to freeing themselves from the chains of victimhood (Tori Amos has talked about this). I don't think defeatist attitudes help. How low of an opinion of yourself and other women do you have to have to think men cant treat women right? Saying "All men are assholes" doesnt solve the problem. 
yes and it's especially sad because I can understand the anger and frustration of it but when you are so overcome by anger it alienates you from other people and eventually these women end up on the same side as incels which I don't know if they even realize. 
Great point. Agree. 

Talked to a guy who wasnt technically an incel cuz he wasnt a virgin, but he sure had incel sympathies and talked like one whenever he got rejected. Think he was more MGTOW. Anyway, I pointed out he sounded just like the misandrist radical feminists who think men will only ever victimize women unless women become lesbians and separate and free themselves from men. Considering he was always bitchin' about those types of feminists, he did not take that well. 

Fortunately those types of feminists are a minority. So are incels and the MGTOW 
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Date: 18-08-2020 00:42 | Times changed: 1
Private
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Bc the girls u want are like 14 commander they want to find a guy their own age
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Date: 18-08-2020 10:09
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
Bc the girls u want are like 14 commander they want to find a guy their own age
Omfg I'm dead
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Date: 18-08-2020 10:12
Private
Princess of Pop



Arthema wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
Bc the girls u want are like 14 commander they want to find a guy their own age
Haaaaa amazing
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Date: 18-08-2020 10:12
Private
National Star



GvcciGoddess wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
Bc the girls u want are like 14 commander they want to find a guy their own age
Omfg I'm dead
Someone had to say it
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Date: 18-08-2020 10:12
Bloodflowers
Popstar



Bloodflowers wrote:
Villere wrote:
people have too high standards 
But rlly there's nothing wrong with that because it's not like u HAVE to date people
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Date: 18-08-2020 10:16
Private
Princess of Pop



Arthema wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Villere wrote:
people have too high standards 
But rlly there's nothing wrong with that because it's not like u HAVE to date people
facts
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Date: 18-08-2020 10:18
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