Heartbroken wrote:beegoesbzz wrote:
In my opinion, when you are in a relationship, you are supposed to prioritize your partner. How do I know that my partner is serious about me if they are running off with their "opposite gender friends" while I'm here being responsible planning our future together?
It's fine if you want to be in your 40s still friends with a bunch of people, just messing around, but I'm not interested in that and that doesn't make me a bad person or deserving of criticism.
you know there's such a thing as platonic right
I would feel disrespected if somebody of my opposite sex told me they just wanted to be friends.
I would never accept that kind of treatment.