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TW - Fake friends
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Saekki wrote:
i had a best friend from kindergarten up to 7th grade

we were kinda different cause her family was wealthier and she was an only child while my family was kinda poor and i had a little brother, and it was really noticeable that she was spoiled rotten
so everytime we played at hers she would give me the least pretty doll or i would sit and watch her play on her computer 

we were both picked on by our classmates but it was mostly me bc she wasn't as "nerdy" as i was, but when we started like 6th grade she began to hang out with these ppl and they didn't bully her as much anymore, of course they still bullied me and she did nothing about it

in 7th grade they still bullied me but now she almost only hung out with them and always left me alone on school breaks, at this time i started to get extremely depressed cause i had no other friends 
and one day, right before french class, i just snapped at her in front of everyone and said smth like if she was just gonna leave me alone all the time to hang out with the ppl who bullied me then she can leave me the f alone , cause she was still tryna suck up to me bc i was better at school than her and she always asked what we had for homework
she started crying and whining but i just felt that she could go f herself cause i didn't care anymore

cue me being depressed af for my whole 8th year and ppl being hesitant to approach me cause i was always pissed
Dang the way she left u the ugliest doll and shit like that sounds soooo psycho to me omfg. 

I can understand when someone wants to have the best but I find it very psycho if someone is just satisfied when u have the worst and she gets a self estem boost from that. 
Date: 27-08-2020 18:06
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Fayy wrote:
ouch wrote:
Nobody
Nobody? No fake friends?
No
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:07
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Caramelia wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Fayy wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i cant its triggering 
Oh, sorry
I can put a TW in the title :c
dont omggggg its just trying to remember the experience to tell it that is bleghghghghghghh
ooooh, I see 
Yeah, stories like these are fucking hard on the mind. So don't force yourself or anything, but it's always nice to just get shit out and rant a lil about it. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:08
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Caramelia wrote:
ouch wrote:
Fayy wrote:
ouch wrote:
Nobody
Nobody? No fake friends?
No
u lucky
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:08
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Caramelia wrote:
callum wrote:
never had fake friends, y'all gotta be more careful 
You're one of the lucky ones
It's so easy to pose as a good friend even though you're not though. And for people who are in a position where a friend would be more than lovely, it's super hard to know the bad from the good. You just want to see the good in everyone, u kno? 
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:10
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Marlene wrote:
I gotta say thanks for making this thread because I've really been feeling like talking about this other than with my friends and classmates who found out about it.
Thank you!!
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:10
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Fayy wrote:
callum wrote:
never had fake friends, y'all gotta be more careful 
You're one of the lucky ones
It's so easy to pose as a good friend even though you're not though. And for people who are in a position where a friend would be more than lovely, it's super hard to know the bad from the good. You just want to see the good in everyone, u kno? 
Date: 27-08-2020 18:12
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Having fake friends has not always something to do with naivety.
People are creative.
Date: 27-08-2020 18:13
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Marlene wrote:
Cheetos wrote:
Having fake friends has not always something to do with naivety.
People are creative.
LMAOAOAOO I-
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:13
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Parasite wrote:
Oh boy

I was best friends with a girl online for around 5 years.(Not a VP user)
I thought we were really close, but things changed this year apparently.
She'd constantly tell me we'd come out on top, because we always got through a lot of shit together.
Meet a new group of people and she slowly starts drifting away from me and turns into a shitty person.
They kept going to her about little issues they had with me instead of either having her actually come to me about it or just growing a pair and coming to me about it themselves.
Once she does finally come to me about those things she plays it off as if it's nothing and gets mad at the end when I "didn't change/didn't take it seriously" despite apologizing to the group at that time and saying I would be focusing on myself and working on those issues.

I had a discord server I made just for the group and when things started to come to an end her and one of the girls there only could come at me with attacks and then later claimed I was the one doing so lmfao.
Transferred ownership to the only girl I didn't have issues with and left and then my ex best friend decided to confront me in dms.
I tried to be rational about things and just explain to her how I was feeling and she threw insult after insult then said I was the one doing that again. 
After having more time to process things and think I realized just how toxic she was and how all she did
was push blame on me for every fault of hers so I decided to end it with a message being more honest
than I was the night before (I felt the need to be careful of my words previously) and told her I was done and would be completely removing her.
She got angry at that so I ended up having to block her.
Later on she's tried starting drama with me twice and has tried telling people I still talk to that they shouldn't talk to me. Childish asf.
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:15
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Caramelia wrote:
supervillain wrote:
uuuuhhhhh lessee
i bought her stuff worth 80€ (which is a lot when ur 15) and she never paid it back, she never helped me with things she promised to, she lowkey sexually assaulted me and manipulated me n convinced me i was more mentally ill than i was, that she could physically abuse me because "she had DID" (she didnt lol) and she ditched me completely for a new friend group because she wasn't attracted to me any longer and instead had a crush on one of the new people

and now she's afraid of me for some reason idk things be wild
Loooool, the fucking excuses she had. 
What the fuck was her problem. Your mental illness is for you to handle. The fact that she made it out to be and convinced you that it was worse than it was?? WTF. So she did all "that" (whatever the fuck that was supposed to be) just because she had a crush on you? Crazy bitch. You're the one who has a reason to be scared, not the other way around. She's prolly just scared because she knows what she did was wrong. What a coward. I hope you found better friends or at least will. Nobody deserves to be fucked around with like that. That's just too much. Thank fuck she decided to ditch you, sorry not sorry, but it sounds like you will/are a thousand times better without her. Even with new friends or not. Anything is better than that. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:20
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Marlene wrote:
Absinthe wrote:
Marlene wrote:
she would manipulate guys who liked her into sleeping with her then she dropped them and she would call guys who would want to sleep with her disgusting only to end up sleeping with them and call them disgusting again and slept with them one more time and so the evil circle continues lol
I just... Sigh. Holy shit my guy. 
yes and this ruined my picture on what my now boyfriend really wants from me..
he liked her and he took the opportunity to sleep with her because he got it but also because he liked her.
So idk how to look at him and the sleeping part it makes you wonder what he really wants tho but i think its okay it has almost been 2 months and he isn't as desperate as he was in the beginning and hes ok with waiting
l guess bringing it up could help if it starts to bother.
Date: 27-08-2020 18:22
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Marlene wrote:
Absinthe wrote:
Marlene wrote:
Absinthe wrote:
I just... Sigh. Holy shit my guy. 
yes and this ruined my picture on what my now boyfriend really wants from me..
he liked her and he took the opportunity to sleep with her because he got it but also because he liked her.
So idk how to look at him and the sleeping part it makes you wonder what he really wants tho but i think its okay it has almost been 2 months and he isn't as desperate as he was in the beginning and hes ok with waiting
l guess bringing it up could help if it starts to bother.
it does bother me a lot actually since it has affected my relationship even before we got together^^
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:23
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Caramelia wrote:
Marlene wrote:
Fayy wrote:
Marlene wrote:
she would manipulate guys who liked her into sleeping with her then she dropped them and she would call guys who would want to sleep with her disgusting only to end up sleeping with them and call them disgusting again and slept with them one more time and so the evil circle continues lol
Sounds like she has/had some serious self-esteem issues. It's such a fucking shame when people let it go so far that it starts to affect other people around them. And actions just speak so much louder than words, the fact that she slept with your crush, just shows how little respect she had for you. What a total bitch. That's overstepping a very thick boundary and 10 more. Geez. She really didn't deserve you. 
She does and i really tried to help her i even got along with her sister we both tried to help her.
I can't say anything about the "sleeping with my crush" part because I did not tell her because I didn't want anyone to know at the time, so it would be wrong of me for saying anything about that but the point was that she sort of, imo did manipulate him and he ended up crying because of it once i found out.
Oh, yeah I see then. Still really shitty of her. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 18:24
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Marlene wrote:
Absinthe wrote:
Marlene wrote:
yes and this ruined my picture on what my now boyfriend really wants from me..
he liked her and he took the opportunity to sleep with her because he got it but also because he liked her.
So idk how to look at him and the sleeping part it makes you wonder what he really wants tho but i think its okay it has almost been 2 months and he isn't as desperate as he was in the beginning and hes ok with waiting
l guess bringing it up could help if it starts to bother.
it does bother me a lot actually since it has affected my relationship even before we got together^^
Maybe you should then bring it up when you feel like it or the time is right. l'm just saying this on my personal experience but you shouldn't wait until it explodes out of you because then it can be a bit messy.
Date: 27-08-2020 18:26
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