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Am i stupid for being upset?
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Medusa wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
ruiner wrote:
does he n his ex live far away from each other too? 

uhm anyways i would be super upset, like... i had a long distance relationship too and i my bf hadn't prioritized me idk if it would have worked out. also the whole ex thing would fuck me up, but i'm also kinda jealous of my bfs exes ://
She lives in Gothenburg and he in Stockholm. HOWEVER, since his family and a lot of his other friends also lives in Gothenburg he visits her city for a min. of 4 days every month.

I've never been the jealous type but this is starting to bug me. I would love to meet her since it would feel more okay if I knew how she was as a person but it's just never been a good time.. :/ 
and i dont mean this in a bad way but cmon

at least ask if u can go with him to see her then
u dont have plans, and they dont have a good reason to be just the two of them 
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Date: 10-09-2020 11:10
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Sofia wrote:
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I have a long distance relationship, and if he did that to me I'd be PISSED! Especially if you dont get to see him that often. He should prioritize you for sure. Did he ask you if it was ok or did he just tell you he was doing that instead? That doesnt sound healthy to me. 
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Date: 10-09-2020 11:11
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Emo wrote:
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I'd be upset too. If you already have plans you can't just cancel because you make other plans unless those other plans are very important.
I'm all in for my partner having freedom to do what he wants too, but it's just rude cancelling like that.
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Date: 10-09-2020 11:12
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Sofia wrote:
you gotta prioritise each other in the relationship rather than outside people, in this case his ex. i don't think it's right for him to go "that far" just to see her. it's good they're friends and all but it's damaging your relationship. he needs to understand that you come first rather than her, or something is really wrong. i don't think it's okay to hang out "as much" as he does with her when he can't find time to see you. i'd be hella pissed and i understand why you feel the way you do
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Date: 10-09-2020 11:14
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Bimbo wrote:
I'd say have a conversation about it first, and after that get upset or not. Getting upset now won't solve anything, and will only make things worse. I think people in this thread are overreacting a little bit. Talk about it first, then feel your feelings.
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Date: 10-09-2020 11:24
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DaddyIssues wrote:
I wrote: "Have had a really shitty week and really been looking forward to being held by you. I know we didn't write it in stone that we had to do something and you do ofc what you want to do. I just won't be able to come to you for at least 2 weeks so would have been nice to see each other for even just a little while"

I've now been left on read for 30min 
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Date: 10-09-2020 13:09
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DaddyIssues wrote:
VanityVogue wrote:
I'd say have a conversation about it first, and after that get upset or not. Getting upset now won't solve anything, and will only make things worse. I think people in this thread are overreacting a little bit. Talk about it first, then feel your feelings.
True. Maybe weird to get upset over something that he might not even know I'm upset about
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Date: 10-09-2020 13:10
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Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
I wrote: "Have had a really shitty week and really been looking forward to being held by you. I know we didn't write it in stone that we had to do something and you do ofc what you want to do. I just won't be able to come to you for at least 2 weeks so would have been nice to see each other for even just a little while"

I've now been left on read for 30min 
you did the right thing by telling him, if he didn't know he wouldn't understand why you were hurt by his actions ofc
any updates on the situation? 
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Date: 10-09-2020 13:33
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DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
I wrote: "Have had a really shitty week and really been looking forward to being held by you. I know we didn't write it in stone that we had to do something and you do ofc what you want to do. I just won't be able to come to you for at least 2 weeks so would have been nice to see each other for even just a little while"

I've now been left on read for 30min 
you did the right thing by telling him, if he didn't know he wouldn't understand why you were hurt by his actions ofc
any updates on the situation? 
He still have not answered (but he is at work, so not that weird). But u think that what i wrote sounded ok? Not to cold or bitchy?
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Date: 10-09-2020 13:53
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Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
I wrote: "Have had a really shitty week and really been looking forward to being held by you. I know we didn't write it in stone that we had to do something and you do ofc what you want to do. I just won't be able to come to you for at least 2 weeks so would have been nice to see each other for even just a little while"

I've now been left on read for 30min 
you did the right thing by telling him, if he didn't know he wouldn't understand why you were hurt by his actions ofc
any updates on the situation? 
He still have not answered (but he is at work, so not that weird). But u think that what i wrote sounded ok? Not to cold or bitchy?
it didn't sound cold or bitchy don't worry, i think he's just working and will reply once he's finished. but i'm glad you told him about how you felt before getting upset. i think it was a good way of handling the situation 
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Date: 10-09-2020 13:56
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DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
you did the right thing by telling him, if he didn't know he wouldn't understand why you were hurt by his actions ofc
any updates on the situation? 
He still have not answered (but he is at work, so not that weird). But u think that what i wrote sounded ok? Not to cold or bitchy?
it didn't sound cold or bitchy don't worry, i think he's just working and will reply once he's finished. but i'm glad you told him about how you felt before getting upset. i think it was a good way of handling the situation 
He wrote back now.

He asked if he could help me in any way to feel better and that he was gonna check if he could make it possible to see each other before sooner c:
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Date: 10-09-2020 15:39
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Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
He still have not answered (but he is at work, so not that weird). But u think that what i wrote sounded ok? Not to cold or bitchy?
it didn't sound cold or bitchy don't worry, i think he's just working and will reply once he's finished. but i'm glad you told him about how you felt before getting upset. i think it was a good way of handling the situation 
He wrote back now.

He asked if he could help me in any way to feel better and that he was gonna check if he could make it possible to see each other before sooner c:
I'm glad you guys figured it out. You deserve the best!  😤❤
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Date: 10-09-2020 16:46
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DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
it didn't sound cold or bitchy don't worry, i think he's just working and will reply once he's finished. but i'm glad you told him about how you felt before getting upset. i think it was a good way of handling the situation 
He wrote back now.

He asked if he could help me in any way to feel better and that he was gonna check if he could make it possible to see each other before sooner c:
I'm glad you guys figured it out. You deserve the best!  😤❤
haha thanks. He however said now that he can't change anything, but but... He tried at least
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Date: 10-09-2020 19:53
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Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
He wrote back now.

He asked if he could help me in any way to feel better and that he was gonna check if he could make it possible to see each other before sooner c:
I'm glad you guys figured it out. You deserve the best!  😤❤
haha thanks. He however said now that he can't change anything, but but... He tried at least
he can't come see you for a bit? /:
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Date: 10-09-2020 20:24
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DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
DaddyIssues wrote:
Sofia wrote:
I'm glad you guys figured it out. You deserve the best!  😤❤
haha thanks. He however said now that he can't change anything, but but... He tried at least
he can't come see you for a bit? /:
apparently not... sad
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Date: 11-09-2020 10:44
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