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GenderTeam wrote:
disintegration wrote:
they/them because the others make my skin crawl. 
I hate German because what are my options? It? 
omg in finland literally everybody says it abt everybody
its not proper grammar but it’s like the spoken.. language.. idk
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wug wrote:
disintegration wrote:
they/them because the others make my skin crawl. 
I hate German because what are my options? It? 
Do you know if there are any conscious effort conducted to create or discover a neutral pronoun in German? I know that Swedish and more recently Norwegian is looking to borrow hän/hen from Finnish to achieve this. It's naturally more easy in these languages as you have han/hon and han/hun, so hen is kinda a middle-ground there, although I must say that phonologically I find hin more appropriate for my dialect than hen. 
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BloomCissi wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
BloomCissi wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
>: (
This is more like me saying this to myself, but it goes for the both of us... I still haven't done anything. 
I'm reading through the sources of a paper I intend to use as source to find more sources for my paper so it looks like I have done something 
That's literally what I would do for that kind of assignment.
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wug wrote:
BloomCissi wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
BloomCissi wrote:
This is more like me saying this to myself, but it goes for the both of us... I still haven't done anything. 
I'm reading through the sources of a paper I intend to use as source to find more sources for my paper so it looks like I have done something 
That's literally what I would do for that kind of assignment.
Lmao great minds think alike
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Kofod wrote:
Hmm when I'm not present I don't actually care too much, because I simply won't hear it. I'm not really identifying myself as anything in particular so I guess that's partly why.

However if you are to use pronouns for me, in front of me, please use he/him. She/her pronouns makes me feel uncomfortable when I hear it used for me - Which is probably due to some past issues I've had with my whole gender identity situation.
Even worse than using wrong pronounce at my presence is calling me a litteral woman, girl etc. I guess it just makes me comfortable to a degree where I don't feel comfortable in my own body anymore - For whatever reason.

I do also accept any gender neutral pronounce, but they/them is easier to wrap my mind around.
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ellem wrote:
She her right now, used to go by he him but since the world is complicated and I’m very lazy I don’t want to explain that I don’t really identify with being a girl but I’m no boyish person either so eh, I’m just taking the easy way out and skipping being asked a million questions, and now days I don’t have the energy to care what people call me anymore so it doesn’t bother me too much either :-pp
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
she/her bcuz thats what society has bn using for me since i was born N it doesnt feel uncomfortable/i dont mind soooooo
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
i rly dno what it means to 'feel' female tho like i think abt this all the time i wonder if i would identify as a woman if i hadnt been raised as one like . is there something intrinsic abt 'womanhood'. i dno. the topic confuses meh a lot
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Snusmumrikken wrote:
disintegration wrote:
they/them because the others make my skin crawl. 
I hate German because what are my options? It? 
Do you know if there are any conscious effort conducted to create or discover a neutral pronoun in German? I know that Swedish and more recently Norwegian is looking to borrow hän/hen from Finnish to achieve this. It's naturally more easy in these languages as you have han/hon and han/hun, so hen is kinda a middle-ground there, although I must say that phonologically I find hin more appropriate for my dialect than hen. 
There are efforts but they are disorganized and the words they came up for so far are pretty stupid 
Date: 10-11-2020 00:20
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uhyre wrote:
i dont have any, i use any and all, the logic being that im so uncomfortable being referred to as anything at all that i literally doesnt matter what it is, itll always be 100% discomfort. i can tell when someone refers to me a certain way just to piss me off and it does piss me off, but beyond that its all the same. ill always feel like a clown worm on the inside no matter what im referred to as

specific gendered words are another thing tho but that wasnt the question
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Claire wrote:
sorry for being terfy uwu vp i know you hate it but i literally don't have prefered pronouns. i mean i literally don't care. if someone used male pronouns for me they'd probably look hella stupid or just confuse people but you know what you do you i'm not gonna tell you what to say go ahead i guess its not a problem to me. 
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wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
disintegration wrote:
they/them because the others make my skin crawl. 
I hate German because what are my options? It? 
Do you know if there are any conscious effort conducted to create or discover a neutral pronoun in German? I know that Swedish and more recently Norwegian is looking to borrow hän/hen from Finnish to achieve this. It's naturally more easy in these languages as you have han/hon and han/hun, so hen is kinda a middle-ground there, although I must say that phonologically I find hin more appropriate for my dialect than hen. 
There are efforts but they are disorganized and the words they came up for so far are pretty stupid 
Like one word is literally blub.... I can't 

So far dey/denen/deren is the least stupid sounding one

Edit: if you want to look at the mess

nibi.space/pronomen
Date: 10-11-2020 00:23 | Times changed: 1
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Claire wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Ppl on reddit always call me he and I'm like OK slightly better than she but not much

Maybe I should stop posting on the mushroom and woodworking sub 

i get called he on reddit too and my username literally has 'claire' in it like that reads female but people on reddit always always assume theyre talking to a male and like so do i tbh aside from certain subreddits.
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December wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
i rly dno what it means to 'feel' female tho like i think abt this all the time i wonder if i would identify as a woman if i hadnt been raised as one like . is there something intrinsic abt 'womanhood'. i dno. the topic confuses meh a lot
tbh that's something i think about a lot too like how can one feel like one gender idk but i feel comfortable the way people has always called me but idk why cuz what does it mean to be female really
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Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Ppl on reddit always call me he and I'm like OK slightly better than she but not much

Maybe I should stop posting on the mushroom and woodworking sub 

i get called he on reddit too and my username literally has 'claire' in it like that reads female but people on reddit always always assume theyre talking to a male and like so do i tbh aside from certain subreddits.
here on vp we have gendered avatars so i feel comfortable defaulting to what i see until im told otherwise but on a site like reddit the default is male. which is a wholeass thing to unpack about male being the default human in our society. or maybe its a hangover from the early internet where there really were many more males than females on discussion forums.
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