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Arthema wrote:
I'm so sorry you have to go through this
you deserve so much better and I wish that it could be easier for you to say bye bye to that bitch
wow

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Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
I'm so sorry you have to go through this
you deserve so much better and I wish that it could be easier for you to say bye bye to that bitch
wow

I'm just feeling alone I guess I don't have many ppl I talk to

I'm too forgiving, I'm willing to talk to him and give him another chance

But I'm going to be upfront shit has gotta change

It's not like I'm expecting him to be with me every waking moment, it's good for us to have friends and hobbies outside of each other

Just... don't be so distant what the hell

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Versailles wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
I'm so sorry you have to go through this
you deserve so much better and I wish that it could be easier for you to say bye bye to that bitch
wow

I'm just feeling alone I guess I don't have many ppl I talk to

I'm too forgiving, I'm willing to talk to him and give him another chance

But I'm going to be upfront shit has gotta change

It's not like I'm expecting him to be with me every waking moment, it's good for us to have friends and hobbies outside of each other

Just... don't be so distant what the hell

It's healthy to vent n you can let it out here. Yeah you shouldn't put up with that behaviour.
Hope you figure out how to deal with the situation and hopefully solve it.
I get anxiety if i haven't heard from bf in two days, can't imagine how you felt after a whole week. You deserve a healthy n respecting relationship bby.

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Anachronism wrote:

MossPiglet wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
I'm so sorry you have to go through this
you deserve so much better and I wish that it could be easier for you to say bye bye to that bitch
wow

I'm just feeling alone I guess I don't have many ppl I talk to

I'm too forgiving, I'm willing to talk to him and give him another chance

But I'm going to be upfront shit has gotta change

It's not like I'm expecting him to be with me every waking moment, it's good for us to have friends and hobbies outside of each other

Just... don't be so distant what the hell

It's healthy to vent n you can let it out here. Yeah you shouldn't put up with that behaviour.
Hope you figure out how to deal with the situation and hopefully solve it.
I get anxiety if i haven't heard from bf in two days, can't imagine how you felt after a whole week. You deserve a healthy n respecting relationship bby.

I get distant myself

I myself ghosted him 4 a week early when we were dating cuz I was unsure about some of his choices and had to think things through until I decided to continue on (I obviously did)

But it's been nearly a year... it's not the early stages anymore

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Arthema wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
I'm so sorry you have to go through this
you deserve so much better and I wish that it could be easier for you to say bye bye to that bitch
wow

I'm just feeling alone I guess I don't have many ppl I talk to

I'm too forgiving, I'm willing to talk to him and give him another chance

But I'm going to be upfront shit has gotta change

It's not like I'm expecting him to be with me every waking moment, it's good for us to have friends and hobbies outside of each other

Just... don't be so distant what the hell

You can always vent and write it here, I might not be online all the time but if you need a shoulder I can lend one for sure.
I really understand this situation as I not so long ago got out of something similar..
and you're right, it is good to have a life besides being with your s\o and focus on your friends and yourself the most, but damn you've been a year together already, right?

not saying that it should get more serious but like come on, he could at least update you, so you won't worry, instead of straight-up ghosting you, a little reminder that he just needs some time, and that you shouldn't worry too much since everything's alright.

I just hope you'll manage to resolve this situation and will get the best outcome out of it for yourself, yes change your attitude towards this and be upfront, communication is so so SO important and I can't stress it enough since I almost moved in with a prick I would probably hate right now, despite being together for 5 years, so think about it again if things that would raise a red flag like this happened already,

and again, you really deserve so much better, a healthy balanced, and loving relationship.

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GvcciGoddess wrote:
pull a jodi arias on him

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Versailles wrote:

GvcciGoddess wrote:
pull a jodi arias on him

LOL I support that too

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

GvcciGoddess wrote:
pull a jodi arias on him

Nah I'm tame, wildest thing I'd do is have a lesbian affair w/ my coworker

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:
I'm so sorry you have to go through this
you deserve so much better and I wish that it could be easier for you to say bye bye to that bitch
wow

I'm just feeling alone I guess I don't have many ppl I talk to

I'm too forgiving, I'm willing to talk to him and give him another chance

But I'm going to be upfront shit has gotta change

It's not like I'm expecting him to be with me every waking moment, it's good for us to have friends and hobbies outside of each other

Just... don't be so distant what the hell

You can always vent and write it here, I might not be online all the time but if you need a shoulder I can lend one for sure.
I really understand this situation as I not so long ago got out of something similar..
and you're right, it is good to have a life besides being with your s\o and focus on your friends and yourself the most, but damn you've been a year together already, right?

not saying that it should get more serious but like come on, he could at least update you, so you won't worry, instead of straight-up ghosting you, a little reminder that he just needs some time, and that you shouldn't worry too much since everything's alright.

I just hope you'll manage to resolve this situation and will get the best outcome out of it for yourself, yes change your attitude towards this and be upfront, communication is so so SO important and I can't stress it enough since I almost moved in with a prick I would probably hate right now, despite being together for 5 years, so think about it again if things that would raise a red flag like this happened already,

and again, you really deserve so much better, a healthy balanced, and loving relationship.

Ty for all the kind word and the time it took to type that.

What made you not move in with that dude? I am starting to worry if moving in with him is a good idea now, but I'm broke and desperate.

Idk I have a lot to sort out and think about right now

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Anachronism wrote:
Also I still am worried about him, for a lot of reasons I dont want to get into

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Versailles wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

GvcciGoddess wrote:
pull a jodi arias on him

Nah I'm tame, wildest thing I'd do is have a lesbian affair w/ my coworker

oh my god

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Versailles wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
Also I still am worried about him, for a lot of reasons I dont want to get into

ya I see, it's not black n white but still should'va being on point with you what's going on/or atleast say why he needs time idk. Hope u figure out n get to talk about it.

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h0use0fcards wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Claire wrote:
this man is not sane

Yeah hes done stuff b4 where he like... gets called into work and 4gets to tell me when we were supposed to hang out

Like I am so confused if hes being flaky and weird again or if hes losing interest wtf

why would you date a guy who doesnt even care enough to tell you when you guys were gonna hang out what

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h0use0fcards wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

GvcciGoddess wrote:
pull a jodi arias on him

Nah I'm tame, wildest thing I'd do is have a lesbian affair w/ my coworker

LMFAOOO

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Arthema wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Abby wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
I'm just feeling alone I guess I don't have many ppl I talk to

I'm too forgiving, I'm willing to talk to him and give him another chance

But I'm going to be upfront shit has gotta change

It's not like I'm expecting him to be with me every waking moment, it's good for us to have friends and hobbies outside of each other

Just... don't be so distant what the hell

You can always vent and write it here, I might not be online all the time but if you need a shoulder I can lend one for sure.
I really understand this situation as I not so long ago got out of something similar..
and you're right, it is good to have a life besides being with your s\o and focus on your friends and yourself the most, but damn you've been a year together already, right?

not saying that it should get more serious but like come on, he could at least update you, so you won't worry, instead of straight-up ghosting you, a little reminder that he just needs some time, and that you shouldn't worry too much since everything's alright.

I just hope you'll manage to resolve this situation and will get the best outcome out of it for yourself, yes change your attitude towards this and be upfront, communication is so so SO important and I can't stress it enough since I almost moved in with a prick I would probably hate right now, despite being together for 5 years, so think about it again if things that would raise a red flag like this happened already,

and again, you really deserve so much better, a healthy balanced, and loving relationship.

Ty for all the kind word and the time it took to type that.

What made you not move in with that dude? I am starting to worry if moving in with him is a good idea now, but I'm broke and desperate.

Idk I have a lot to sort out and think about right now

of course, want to help as much as I can in a situation like this

and well he started acting the same, distant, cold? went out more with his friends and barely gave me anytime or considered that I also have to give him my time instead of doing other things,
so I really didn't like his attitude and thought how bad it would be if we would move in together, so I told him I want to hold this off.
before we broke up it just got ugly so fast so we took this 1-week trip and at the end, he was like "yeah this is not working"
then he found another girl in 2 weeks
block lolol

not saying you should really break up from him but... just warning you to look for those small little signs, because they can tell you a LOT

consider this that maybe really moving in with him won't be the best idea as.. well
things can go bad really fast