You have not yet responded to the forum.

Here you will find the last 3 forum topics
you have posted a comment on.
+ add shout
Elisia
added a bunch of stuff to the mp
0 | 0 | 0 | 0
0%
To join the forums you need to be logged in.

Click here to register your own account for free and I will personally explain to you how you can start getting your own fans and, making popdollars.
> Close
Helper
Forum
Startalk
Blog statistics
Friends management



Topics   Messages
9 of the 24 stars earned

Forum

General < General First | Previous | Page: | Next | Last
TW | what is the difference between body chec
Private
Popstar



Koolaid wrote:
ouch wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
but like whats the difference between a thin person showing off their body and a person who is thing because of an ed showing off their body is the question and the answer is we cant really know because were not doctors lmfao like in a case like cooney its obvious that something is wrong but in many cases the public is simply not ever going to know where the line is drawn imo.
i think a lot of the times it's also mislabeled as body checking. as that is only for people with an ED. and you can't just assume that from most people. i feel like there are def healthy skinny people who show off their body for attention, but also often that people are projecting their own insecurities by accusing body checking when it's not
Almost everyone body checks, ed or not, just not on the internet or to the extremes 
ohh alright. but then again, isn't body checking more something you do out of insecurity rather than "oh look how skinny i am"?
17
Posts: 14620
Date: 11-08-2021 00:03
Private
World Famous



Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
i think a lot of the times it's also mislabeled as body checking. as that is only for people with an ED. and you can't just assume that from most people. i feel like there are def healthy skinny people who show off their body for attention, but also often that people are projecting their own insecurities
but also like disordered eating is actually like extremely common in our culture.  i've seen estimates as high as like 9% of all americans will have an ED within their lifetime
i can see that, i think a lot of people have unhealthy relationship with food. for ezample, feeling good when you're hungry? or like the feeling of hunger feels like an accomplishment? yeah that's disordered eating. a lot of gymbros also have ed with the way they are obsessively tracking their calorie intake but they will never admit that
ive been self diagnosing myself with adhd these days based on the relatability of the memes and i saw this and i was like 'oh fuck thats me wow ok' like im not like seeing a fat person in the mirror like they say ED is like but my eating is absolutely disordered. i wonder if the percentages are even higher than the highest estimates honestly. 
21
Posts: 55744
Date: 11-08-2021 00:03
Private
International Star



uhyre wrote:
ouch wrote:
uhyre wrote:
ouch wrote:
The dress hella sexy tho I want it, das why I saved it lmfao 

i like the art style of the print but i dont think simply wearinG a dress makes it worhy of being an outfit video
Hello she has shoes on wym !! Dress, tights, shoes. Outfito smh -_-

me on veepee
17
Posts: 28887
Date: 11-08-2021 00:03
Private
Popstar



Koolaid wrote:
also what do you guys think about people working out just to lose weight? and not for health reasons? is that necessarily fatphobic? i saw this tiktok of a trainer who said she wouldn't help people reach aesthetic goals anymore (like fat booty, thin stomach) but just work on health related reasons.

idk i feel like we're all a bit fatphobic. its a bit like racism or sexism
17
Posts: 14620
Date: 11-08-2021 00:05
Heist
National Star



heist wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
heist wrote:
yeah this is howi feel basically

it's all a trick of the hand nobody actually cares about these girls with eds they just don't want to see thin people (which is fine but you can scroll away rather than projecting on to random girls and women) 

there's something about nietzsche in here maybe 
i like... dont care about eugenia cooney's health for example but i do care about the health of the millions of girls who watch her and also i dont want to see her gross body it's disturbing and grotesque.
not to say like 'skinny people are gross' like i literally weighed less than a hundred pounds for most of my adult life but at a certain point its gross and like scary to look at.
oh yeah i mean when it’s severely severely obvious that someone is skinny because they’re ill and it’s known that the illness is an ED and not like cancer sure, i understand a public health concern

but the way the body checking accusations manifest on tiktok it’s like literally just random young girls who pop up on your fyp that you know nothing about and more often than not it’s not about being “thin” but about adhering to current body standards like someone like @loserthrift who is thin but trans and doesn’t really have curves will not be accused of body checking while obviously showing off her body in an outfit video, but random girls with like extreme hourglass shapes who aren’t necessarily “sickly thin” will be crucified for wearing a crop top
17
Posts: 2105
Date: 11-08-2021 00:06
Private
World Famous



Claire wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
also what do you guys think about people working out just to lose weight? and not for health reasons? is that necessarily fatphobic? i saw this tiktok of a trainer who said she wouldn't help people reach aesthetic goals anymore (like fat booty, thin stomach) but just work on health related reasons.

idk i feel like we're all a bit fatphobic. its a bit like racism or sexism

i mean i know im fatphobic for sure but youre probably right that its like a cultural thing like racism and sexism and idk lgbtqphobes too like an inescapable part of all of us
21
Posts: 55744
Date: 11-08-2021 00:06
Private
Popstar



ouch wrote:
Here too, like uh, I never ever see healthy weight ppl do this. N its always the tiny swirls n leg up like WHY! Anyways. Its weird. If they just put regular content it would b fine but ita just. Yes. At least theres proper outfits this time
vm.tiktok.com/ZMdoWcFoc/
16
Posts: 95651
Date: 11-08-2021 00:07
Private
Popstar



ouch wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
also what do you guys think about people working out just to lose weight? and not for health reasons? is that necessarily fatphobic? i saw this tiktok of a trainer who said she wouldn't help people reach aesthetic goals anymore (like fat booty, thin stomach) but just work on health related reasons.

idk i feel like we're all a bit fatphobic. its a bit like racism or sexism
If that is fatphobia, I am fatphobic. Like honestly lmfao, wth
16
Posts: 95651
Date: 11-08-2021 00:08
Account deleted




wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Am I old because I dont know what that means
Date: 11-08-2021 00:09
Private
World Famous



Claire wrote:
heist wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
i like... dont care about eugenia cooney's health for example but i do care about the health of the millions of girls who watch her and also i dont want to see her gross body it's disturbing and grotesque.
not to say like 'skinny people are gross' like i literally weighed less than a hundred pounds for most of my adult life but at a certain point its gross and like scary to look at.
oh yeah i mean when it’s severely severely obvious that someone is skinny because they’re ill and it’s known that the illness is an ED and not like cancer sure, i understand a public health concern

but the way the body checking accusations manifest on tiktok it’s like literally just random young girls who pop up on your fyp that you know nothing about and more often than not it’s not about being “thin” but about adhering to current body standards like someone like @loserthrift who is thin but trans and doesn’t really have curves will not be accused of body checking while obviously showing off her ody in an outfit video, but random girls with like extreme hourglass shapes who aren’t necessarily “sickly thin” will be crucified for wearing a crop top
like i could see people like saying that about me when i was younger like accusing me of this body checking but idk i was too thin and i just liked my body it wasnt like i was like miss cooney needs attention for the weight she lost it was just 'wow im cute look how cute i am' and i happened to be too thin too. people used to ssay all kinds of mean shit to me about thin i was and i couldnt do anything about it. i literally made my self sick a couple times like over eating to try and make the bullying stop lol.
21
Posts: 55744
Date: 11-08-2021 00:10
Private
World Famous



Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
heist wrote:
Claire wrote:
not to say like 'skinny people are gross' like i literally weighed less than a hundred pounds for most of my adult life but at a certain point its gross and like scary to look at.
oh yeah i mean when it’s severely severely obvious that someone is skinny because they’re ill and it’s known that the illness is an ED and not like cancer sure, i understand a public health concern

but the way the body checking accusations manifest on tiktok it’s like literally just random young girls who pop up on your fyp that you know nothing about and more often than not it’s not about being “thin” but about adhering to current body standards like someone like @loserthrift who is thin but trans and doesn’t really have curves will not be accused of body checking while obviously showing off her ody in an outfit video, but random girls with like extreme hourglass shapes who aren’t necessarily “sickly thin” will be crucified for wearing a crop top
like i could see people like saying that about me when i was younger like accusing me of this body checking but idk i was too thin and i just liked my body it wasnt like i was like miss cooney needs attention for the weight she lost it was just 'wow im cute look how cute i am' and i happened to be too thin too. people used to ssay all kinds of mean shit to me about thin i was and i couldnt do anything about it. i literally made my self sick a couple times like over eating to try and make the bullying stop lol.
and like isnt that also disordered eating lmfao 
21
Posts: 55744
Date: 11-08-2021 00:11
Private
International Star



uhyre wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
also what do you guys think about people working out just to lose weight? and not for health reasons? is that necessarily fatphobic? i saw this tiktok of a trainer who said she wouldn't help people reach aesthetic goals anymore (like fat booty, thin stomach) but just work on health related reasons.

idk i feel like we're all a bit fatphobic. its a bit like racism or sexism

im less concerned about what people do for and to themselves if its for personal reasons compared to like ideals they inadvertently push onto others. if u wanna work out to get skinny legs or to grow an ass its none of my business regardless
i completely get where someone is coming from if they dont want to help people work out just for beauty standard reasons if thats not something they believe in and i imagine ppl passionate about health and working out would have more reason than anyone to draw an actual line there

most ppl i know who work out do it literally just for aesthetic and i personally just do not believe in weight and aesthetic correlating at all, ig, id like to work out so my joints can bear more weight but like i dont give a shit about actual weight. like why bother
17
Posts: 28887
Date: 11-08-2021 00:11
Private
Popstar



Koolaid wrote:
ouch wrote:
Here too, like uh, I never ever see healthy weight ppl do this. N its always the tiny swirls n leg up like WHY! Anyways. Its weird. If they just put regular content it would b fine but ita just. Yes. At least theres proper outfits this time
vm.tiktok.com/ZMdoWcFoc/
i honestly don't find this type of skinny beautiful
17
Posts: 14620
Date: 11-08-2021 00:11
Private
Popstar



Koolaid wrote:
ouch wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
also what do you guys think about people working out just to lose weight? and not for health reasons? is that necessarily fatphobic? i saw this tiktok of a trainer who said she wouldn't help people reach aesthetic goals anymore (like fat booty, thin stomach) but just work on health related reasons.

idk i feel like we're all a bit fatphobic. its a bit like racism or sexism
If that is fatphobia, I am fatphobic. Like honestly lmfao, wth
i think we all are a bit
17
Posts: 14620
Date: 11-08-2021 00:12
Private
Popstar



ouch wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
ouch wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
also what do you guys think about people working out just to lose weight? and not for health reasons? is that necessarily fatphobic? i saw this tiktok of a trainer who said she wouldn't help people reach aesthetic goals anymore (like fat booty, thin stomach) but just work on health related reasons.

idk i feel like we're all a bit fatphobic. its a bit like racism or sexism
If that is fatphobia, I am fatphobic. Like honestly lmfao, wth
i think we all are a bit
Yes but I just ?? Just cus u like being skinny urself, doesn't mean u look down upon bigger ppl. Weird. Everybody should just strive to be their best self n whatever bla bla bla. Unlike what fat activists will tell u
16
Posts: 95651
Date: 11-08-2021 00:13
Post comment
Post Comment
To load new posts: activated
First | Previous | Page: | Next | Last
© 2024 Terms of Use