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kagura wrote:

Clegane wrote:
This is it guys!

This morning i kept thinking "what if I was wrong? What if I imagined it? What if it wasn't what I thought it was?" and I even caught myself thinking "I can't call him out, I'll ruin his Saturday meet up plans that he's looking forward to"

Like bitch?? Why do I care about that?

I just wanted to confirm it to me again
So I grabbed his iPad (he has his phone at work right now) and looked through his gallery
Sure enough there were some pictures

Then I looked at this recently deleted photos
And found screenshots of their chat, planing a meet up, nudes etc etc

And honestly I can't lie to myself anymore
This is a cheater
This guy broke my trust
This guy will do it again in the future

So I might ruin what we had
I might crush my fantasy
I might feel like shit in a moment, i already do

But I am calling him out right now

you haven't ruined anything, he has

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Sylvan wrote:

Clegane wrote:
This is it guys!

This morning i kept thinking "what if I was wrong? What if I imagined it? What if it wasn't what I thought it was?" and I even caught myself thinking "I can't call him out, I'll ruin his Saturday meet up plans that he's looking forward to"

Like bitch?? Why do I care about that?

I just wanted to confirm it to me again
So I grabbed his iPad (he has his phone at work right now) and looked through his gallery
Sure enough there were some pictures

Then I looked at this recently deleted photos
And found screenshots of their chat, planing a meet up, nudes etc etc

And honestly I can't lie to myself anymore
This is a cheater
This guy broke my trust
This guy will do it again in the future

So I might ruin what we had
I might crush my fantasy
I might feel like shit in a moment, i already do

But I am calling him out right now

The fact that he hid it in plain sight tells you that he's either

- very very stupid

or
-doesn't care if you find out because the relationship isn't important to him/he thinks you forgive him and won't leave him/ he actually hopes you find out and end it.

Sorry for the harsh words but you deserve better than this man.

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Clegane wrote:
His answer btw:

Well many questions, little answers.
I love you. I respect you and obviously I am with you and not with anybody else.
I am not a very subtle Person and not known for wise decision making etc.
I am not trying to be subtle as there was technically and emotionally nothing real to hide.
Guess I fucked it up - couldn’t even tell you a reason or cause….
And I certainly did not intend to hurt you as you are as important to me as I said and thought.

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Barbarella wrote:

Sometimes you just gotta....

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Barbarella wrote:

Clegane wrote:
His answer btw:

Well many questions, little answers.
I love you. I respect you and obviously I am with you and not with anybody else.
I am not a very subtle Person and not known for wise decision making etc.
I am not trying to be subtle as there was technically and emotionally nothing real to hide.
Guess I fucked it up - couldn’t even tell you a reason or cause….
And I certainly did not intend to hurt you as you are as important to me as I said and thought.

This makes me wanna puke

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Barbarella wrote:

Clegane wrote:
His answer btw:

Well many questions, little answers.
I love you. I respect you and obviously I am with you and not with anybody else.
I am not a very subtle Person and not known for wise decision making etc.
I am not trying to be subtle as there was technically and emotionally nothing real to hide.
Guess I fucked it up - couldn’t even tell you a reason or cause….
And I certainly did not intend to hurt you as you are as important to me as I said and thought.

This makes me wanna puke

can we just shift a sec tho and make a note that cheating isn't just breaking trust, but also putting the sexual health of someone you supposedly care about at risk

men are so fucking thoughtless on this front - condoms don't prevent HPV, there's no test for it in men, and it can cause cancer in women.

I have not patience for that heartless bullshit from men.

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remains wrote:

Clegane wrote:
His answer btw:

Well many questions, little answers.
I love you. I respect you and obviously I am with you and not with anybody else.
I am not a very subtle Person and not known for wise decision making etc.
I am not trying to be subtle as there was technically and emotionally nothing real to hide.
Guess I fucked it up - couldn’t even tell you a reason or cause….
And I certainly did not intend to hurt you as you are as important to me as I said and thought.

"with you and not with anybody else" = the cheating was just sexual while you get all the emotional baggage
"wise decision making" "guess i fucked it up" = made the decision to flirt, sext and cheat continuously multiple times
"did not intend to hurt you" = never meant for you to find out so I could keep the secret relationship going until i got bored of it and possibly found another woman to cheat with

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Sylvan wrote:

Clegane wrote:
His answer btw:

Well many questions, little answers.
I love you. I respect you and obviously I am with you and not with anybody else.
I am not a very subtle Person and not known for wise decision making etc.
I am not trying to be subtle as there was technically and emotionally nothing real to hide.
Guess I fucked it up - couldn’t even tell you a reason or cause….
And I certainly did not intend to hurt you as you are as important to me as I said and thought.

This is such a bullshit answer like you don't cheat without a reason

He did hurt you, what did this clown think was gonna happen, like???

Sorry I'm a bit speechless rn. Did he even say he is sorry???

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Clegane wrote:
I just met to talk with him in person

First there was awkward silence for a loong time
Then he tried to talk himself out of it always mentioning "he doenst know what I know"

And when I asked if he's at least sorry he said "not as much as I am supposed to be"

I am so so so done and disappointed and sad today
This dude teleported me straight to the way I felt when I was at my worst

@disintegration

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Claire wrote:

Barbarella wrote:

Clegane wrote:
His answer btw:

Well many questions, little answers.
I love you. I respect you and obviously I am with you and not with anybody else.
I am not a very subtle Person and not known for wise decision making etc.
I am not trying to be subtle as there was technically and emotionally nothing real to hide.
Guess I fucked it up - couldn’t even tell you a reason or cause….
And I certainly did not intend to hurt you as you are as important to me as I said and thought.

This makes me wanna puke

can we just shift a sec tho and make a note that cheating isn't just breaking trust, but also putting the sexual health of someone you supposedly care about at risk

men are so fucking thoughtless on this front - condoms don't prevent HPV, there's no test for it in men, and it can cause cancer in women.

I have not patience for that heartless bullshit from men.

this is my whole thing about cheating is like its literally dangerous. like you have literally opened me up to risk of fucking dying from fucking aids or someshit like fuck off.

like its an emotional betrayal and that sucks but when i got cheated on the thing i was most fucked up about was actually herpes lol. like i knew the chick he cheated with and people used to like- i know this doesnt make me looks good but she was well known to be slutty and people would like 'joke' that she had herpes and i was TERRIFIED that i was gonna live with that for the rest of my life because of OTHER PEOPLE being promiscuous and dude was onlly my second sex partner like that shit aint fair

like no i didnt have any stds after the whole thing was said and done but shit that shit was scary

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Claire wrote:

Barbarella wrote:

Barbarella wrote:
This makes me wanna puke

can we just shift a sec tho and make a note that cheating isn't just breaking trust, but also putting the sexual health of someone you supposedly care about at risk

men are so fucking thoughtless on this front - condoms don't prevent HPV, there's no test for it in men, and it can cause cancer in women.

I have not patience for that heartless bullshit from men.

this is my whole thing about cheating is like its literally dangerous. like you have literally opened me up to risk of fucking dying from fucking aids or someshit like fuck off.

like its an emotional betrayal and that sucks but when i got cheated on the thing i was most fucked up about was actually herpes lol. like i knew the chick he cheated with and people used to like- i know this doesnt make me looks good but she was well known to be slutty and people would like 'joke' that she had herpes and i was TERRIFIED that i was gonna live with that for the rest of my life because of OTHER PEOPLE being promiscuous and dude was onlly my second sex partner like that shit aint fair

like no i didnt have any stds after the whole thing was said and done but shit that shit was scary

like if a man cheats on you he is honestly saying he doesnt care if you die he doesnt care if you get sick

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Barbarella wrote:

Claire wrote:

Barbarella wrote:

Barbarella wrote:
This makes me wanna puke

can we just shift a sec tho and make a note that cheating isn't just breaking trust, but also putting the sexual health of someone you supposedly care about at risk

men are so fucking thoughtless on this front - condoms don't prevent HPV, there's no test for it in men, and it can cause cancer in women.

I have not patience for that heartless bullshit from men.

this is my whole thing about cheating is like its literally dangerous. like you have literally opened me up to risk of fucking dying from fucking aids or someshit like fuck off.

like its an emotional betrayal and that sucks but when i got cheated on the thing i was most fucked up about was actually herpes lol. like i knew the chick he cheated with and people used to like- i know this doesnt make me looks good but she was well known to be slutty and people would like 'joke' that she had herpes and i was TERRIFIED that i was gonna live with that for the rest of my life because of OTHER PEOPLE being promiscuous and dude was onlly my second sex partner like that shit aint fair

like no i didnt have any stds after the whole thing was said and done but shit that shit was scary

for. fucking. real. !

I mean its not like ppl with hpv or herpes are dirty or whatever, that's not where I'm going with it, like, I'd say a good chunk of the population has it without even knowing it
but when you're in a monogamous relationship you've formed an agreement and have made your sexual health choices based on it!

shit like that can lay dormant and not even show up on a test for literal years
fuck cheaters for that reason alone
they do not care about your health and safety above getting their dick wet

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Sylvan wrote:

Clegane wrote:
I just met to talk with him in person

First there was awkward silence for a loong time
Then he tried to talk himself out of it always mentioning "he doenst know what I know"

And when I asked if he's at least sorry he said "not as much as I am supposed to be"

I am so so so done and disappointed and sad today
This dude teleported me straight to the way I felt when I was at my worst

@disintegration

I'm so so sorry
Please take care of yourself!

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Barbarella wrote:
Sometimes you just gotta....

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meilin wrote:

Clegane wrote:
I just met to talk with him in person

First there was awkward silence for a loong time
Then he tried to talk himself out of it always mentioning "he doenst know what I know"

And when I asked if he's at least sorry he said "not as much as I am supposed to be"

I am so so so done and disappointed and sad today
This dude teleported me straight to the way I felt when I was at my worst

@disintegration

fucking yikes. he really doesn't give a shit about you