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Nioruo
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Nioruo wrote:

Suchomimus wrote:

Sylvan wrote:
Not hating every picture you took must be wild

the secret is not taking any pictures

this 100% this is why there's very little pics of me throughout the past 10 years, especially family photos.

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Sylvan wrote:

Nioruo wrote:

Suchomimus wrote:

Sylvan wrote:
Not hating every picture you took must be wild

the secret is not taking any pictures

this 100% this is why there's very little pics of me throughout the past 10 years, especially family photos.

yeah but that's just sad, you don't preserve your own history because you hate looking at yourself so much

Nioruo
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Nioruo wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

Nioruo wrote:
I imagine it also comes with a lot of fears though and creeps. Like I'm already afraid to walk alone when it's late, that AND BEING PRETTY nah fuck that. I might as well drop dead it's like you'd be wearing a siren on your damn head. Attention 24/7, less privacy. nah nah nah

bold of you to assume that an ugly afab person would be left alone by creeps

nah ik you wont be, I've experienced it but I imagine it could be 10 times worse if you're conventionally attractive. I guess I'm tryna say that it's harder to blend in and become invisible.

Nioruo
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Nioruo wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

Nioruo wrote:

Suchomimus wrote:
the secret is not taking any pictures

this 100% this is why there's very little pics of me throughout the past 10 years, especially family photos.

yeah but that's just sad, you don't preserve your own history because you hate looking at yourself so much

hmmm idk if it's about hating looking at myself. It used to be I guess. Well everyone has their good angles and all that ofc I mostly hate pictures others take of me these days lol except my sister but she rarely takes pics of me. Other than that I do enjoy the pictures of when I was younger so maybe time softens things.

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wug wrote:

bunnyfoofoo wrote:
Dude
every one of you are beautiful
you are good looking
you have nice bodies (idk if you do THIS--> but exercise and eating a healthy meal is the best way)

you are all loved
I should tell you more

I just don't wanna be annoying

<3
Love

you haven't seen me so you have no idea what you are talking about i look like i live in the sewage and eat babies

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Sylvan wrote:

Maxolotl wrote:

bunnyfoofoo wrote:
Dude
every one of you are beautiful
you are good looking
you have nice bodies (idk if you do THIS--> but exercise and eating a healthy meal is the best way)

you are all loved
I should tell you more

I just don't wanna be annoying

<3
Love

you haven't seen me so you have no idea what you are talking about i look like i live in the sewage and eat babies

toxic positivity

Nioruo
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Nioruo wrote:

bunnyfoofoo wrote:
Dude
every one of you are beautiful
you are good looking
you have nice bodies (idk if you do THIS--> but exercise and eating a healthy meal is the best way)

you are all loved
I should tell you more

I just don't wanna be annoying

<3
Love

Love the positivity

and yeah exercise and diet are key really. I started to get that shit back on track again this year and it does so much for your mental.

Nioruo
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Nioruo wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

Maxolotl wrote:

bunnyfoofoo wrote:
Dude
every one of you are beautiful
you are good looking
you have nice bodies (idk if you do THIS--> but exercise and eating a healthy meal is the best way)

you are all loved
I should tell you more

I just don't wanna be annoying

<3
Love

you haven't seen me so you have no idea what you are talking about i look like i live in the sewage and eat babies

toxic positivity

I guess it's only toxic if it refuses to acknowledge that there are ppl struggling with this and that a comment wont change things. Throwing it out there isn't really though. I dont see them putting down anyone for feeling this way so idk to each their own.

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wug wrote:

Nioruo wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

Maxolotl wrote:
you haven't seen me so you have no idea what you are talking about i look like i live in the sewage and eat babies

toxic positivity

I guess it's only toxic if it refuses to acknowledge that there are ppl struggling with this and that a comment wont change things. Throwing it out there isn't really though. I dont see them putting down anyone for feeling this way so idk to each their own.

Compliments or positivity are both worthless if you don't know what you are talking about

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ouch wrote:
I would be even more a whore and hyper fem

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ouch wrote:

Maxolotl wrote:

Nioruo wrote:

Sylvan wrote:
toxic positivity

I guess it's only toxic if it refuses to acknowledge that there are ppl struggling with this and that a comment wont change things. Throwing it out there isn't really though. I dont see them putting down anyone for feeling this way so idk to each their own.

Compliments or positivity are both worthless if you don't know what you are talking about

Some ppl r ugly but thats ok yes lol

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wug wrote:

ouch wrote:

Maxolotl wrote:

Nioruo wrote:
I guess it's only toxic if it refuses to acknowledge that there are ppl struggling with this and that a comment wont change things. Throwing it out there isn't really though. I dont see them putting down anyone for feeling this way so idk to each their own.

Compliments or positivity are both worthless if you don't know what you are talking about

Some ppl r ugly but thats ok yes lol

I'm fine with being ugly and I'm not going to accept people claiming I'm not because it's simply a lie

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hungover wrote:
I imagine what life would be like if I was skinny and confident. <3

Nioruo
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Nioruo wrote:

Maxolotl wrote:

Nioruo wrote:

Sylvan wrote:
toxic positivity

I guess it's only toxic if it refuses to acknowledge that there are ppl struggling with this and that a comment wont change things. Throwing it out there isn't really though. I dont see them putting down anyone for feeling this way so idk to each their own.

Compliments or positivity are both worthless if you don't know what you are talking about

yes and no, depends on who you're talking to. For some ppl positivity and compliments help, for others it has the opposite affect. Seeing what you guys are writing rn while I'm writing this I also wanna add that ofc it's ok to not be "attractive" and be ugly and all that. You dont need to accept the compliment either. We dont need to beautiful and all that shit really but I think it's ok if you wanna at least try to compliment ppl.

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wug wrote:

Nioruo wrote:

Maxolotl wrote:

Nioruo wrote:
I guess it's only toxic if it refuses to acknowledge that there are ppl struggling with this and that a comment wont change things. Throwing it out there isn't really though. I dont see them putting down anyone for feeling this way so idk to each their own.

Compliments or positivity are both worthless if you don't know what you are talking about

yes and no, depends on who you're talking to. For some ppl positivity and compliments help, for others it has the opposite affect. Seeing what you guys are writing rn while I'm writing this I also wanna add that ofc it's ok to not be "attractive" and be ugly and all that. You dont need to accept the compliment either. We dont need to beautiful and all that shit really but I think it's ok if you wanna at least try to compliment ppl.

Yeah but you can't compliment people based on nothing, then it's worth nothing. It's like as if I go like oh you have such a lovely voice but I've never heard it. Makes no sense.