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Heartbroken wrote:
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yeah, for sure! 
it's just been very annoying being online and seeing the entire discourse bc nothing is good enough for them lmao. bc one thing me and many others apperantly shave for is bc the hair bothers us, like its a sensory issue when it for example rubs against your pants, and people are being whiney and lowkey probably a little ableist abt it and dismissing it, saying shit like "oh then why dont you shave your head" and thinking its some sort of gotcha moment  can't women just live, man
right that can be a perfectly valid reason too

i don't shave unless i'm showing my legs or armpits HUEZHEIEHUJ because the re-growth period IS  a sensory nightmare for me so (also my skin is way too sensitive to keep constant maintenance up). i guess it can go both ways
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hmm wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
hmm wrote:
yeah, for sure! 
it's just been very annoying being online and seeing the entire discourse bc nothing is good enough for them lmao. bc one thing me and many others apperantly shave for is bc the hair bothers us, like its a sensory issue when it for example rubs against your pants, and people are being whiney and lowkey probably a little ableist abt it and dismissing it, saying shit like "oh then why dont you shave your head" and thinking its some sort of gotcha moment  can't women just live, man
right that can be a perfectly valid reason too

i don't shave unless i'm showing my legs or armpits HUEZHEIEHUJ because the re-growth period IS  a sensory nightmare for me so (also my skin is way too sensitive to keep constant maintenance up). i guess it can go both ways
makes sense!!
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Hauru wrote:
hmm wrote:
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the last couple days i've gotten so many people looking down on women who shave and discrediting their reasons and like saying you can't be a proper feminist if you shave and im so tired of it bc like. what happened to our body our choice? very annoyink

idk if this even belongs as a response to this but i feel it comes into kinda same territory
i think i'm deviating from it a bit  but euhejieekieji


some of the things women have to conform to are genuinely just a survival thing and fighting it Feels too hard  like some can get away with being unshaven, but for women who are more hairy it's not easy to just rebel and not shave. like sure you can agree with the principle of not shaving to not reinforce beauty standards, but actually stepping outside unshaven knowing full well you will get judged is a different thing, or (i hope it doesn't come across the wrong way) even seeing it in person can be surprising because it is out of the norm as we know it

often you just have to conform to make life a little bit easier and it sucks of course because if you apply that to everything, the argument starts to become less and less valid. for many it's hard to achieve the level of confidence needed to "rebel"
right conforming is the right word. Women get bullied for almost anything, let us have a little bit of peace of mind. Dismanteling the patriarchy doesnt happen overnight and i feel like it has already gotten better in terms of acceptance but still... we gotta protect ourselves as well to live a "normal" life with as little stress as possible.
i feel like it gets better and worse in waves, much like everything else within that realm of discussion (e.g. politics...), which shows that yeah a revolution cannot take place as quickly as we wish it would, but the fact that more and more women have started to think of these things more critically is at least a step in the right direction, like at least the discussion is actually taking place now.

but yeah, there's unfortunately still many norms that people feel they have no choice but to conform to (and at times people still feel extremely alienated because they Quite Literally Cannot Do That = e.g. autism), but as you said there have been some positive shifts...

like on tiktok at least people are starting to call out things like desiring very specific facial features, procedures, beauty concerns, etc. etc. for being completely nonsensical. not shit like body hair, but like... "Guys my philtrum is too longgg :/// "   jeuhejiej
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hmm wrote:
Hauru wrote:
hmm wrote:
i think i'm deviating from it a bit  but euhejieekieji


some of the things women have to conform to are genuinely just a survival thing and fighting it Feels too hard  like some can get away with being unshaven, but for women who are more hairy it's not easy to just rebel and not shave. like sure you can agree with the principle of not shaving to not reinforce beauty standards, but actually stepping outside unshaven knowing full well you will get judged is a different thing, or (i hope it doesn't come across the wrong way) even seeing it in person can be surprising because it is out of the norm as we know it

often you just have to conform to make life a little bit easier and it sucks of course because if you apply that to everything, the argument starts to become less and less valid. for many it's hard to achieve the level of confidence needed to "rebel"
right conforming is the right word. Women get bullied for almost anything, let us have a little bit of peace of mind. Dismanteling the patriarchy doesnt happen overnight and i feel like it has already gotten better in terms of acceptance but still... we gotta protect ourselves as well to live a "normal" life with as little stress as possible.
i feel like it gets better and worse in waves, much like everything else within that realm of discussion (e.g. politics...), which shows that yeah a revolution cannot take place as quickly as we wish it would, but the fact that more and more women have started to think of these things more critically is at least a step in the right direction, like at least the discussion is actually taking place now.

but yeah, there's unfortunately still many norms that people feel they have no choice but to conform to (and at times people still feel extremely alienated because they Quite Literally Cannot Do That = e.g. autism), but as you said there have been some positive shifts...

like on tiktok at least people are starting to call out things like desiring very specific facial features, procedures, beauty concerns, etc. etc. for being completely nonsensical. not shit like body hair, but like... "Guys my philtrum is too longgg :/// "   jeuhejiej
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but very correct take of you hmm i didnt expect anything less from you
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Hauru wrote:
but very correct take of you hmm i didnt expect anything less from you
omg Thank you   i'm Honoured. let's minimize our cortisol levels together or something like that
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hauru what is ur current fav asmr genre 
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hmm wrote:
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but very correct take of you hmm i didnt expect anything less from you
omg Thank you   i'm Honoured. let's minimize our cortisol levels together or something like that
yes very maxilla or something like that
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bexxi wrote:
hauru what is ur current fav asmr genre 
it has always been like story times but my favorite is when people are reading a book or flip through a magazine with soft whispering but too much breathing is a no no i also like very slow crinkling of plastic bags what about you bexxi
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBS1chqCFr8&list=PL4_wa0JdOTDPPy4USqZS_Zu5Bu1j-3BaF&index=356 there is that one german asmr creator she has such a calming voice but i still think unintentional asmr is the best like those people who recorded tutorials back in 2015 on the like sims mods folder or whatever
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logged into MSP just now 
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Hauru wrote:
logged into MSP just now 
are u rich
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hauru were u a ts3 or a ts2 player
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hmm wrote:
hauru were u a ts3 or a ts2 player
both actually i have an older sister so we used to play sims2 a lot and i remember always getting pregnant
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hmm wrote:
Hauru wrote:
logged into MSP just now 
are u rich
are you not rich
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