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Gilmore
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Gilmore wrote:

Absinthe wrote:

Gilmore wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
i have friends

I don't and that's the point

l think you are making it look worse than it is
sure there is some who
you know, went off
it is vp after all

Sorry I'm still too much of a pussy since nowadays I feel like if I say the wrong thing everyone will hate me

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wug wrote:

Heaven wrote:

Cheetos wrote:
Unpopular opinion:

some peep's optimism is more like stupidity or and wishful thinking
optimism is not inevitably ,,the right mindset"

i think people have to find the right balance between being optimistic and giving up on seeing things on a better light.. they should be realistically determined to see things change for the better.. not be like "i am gonna be rich!!" (altho some people say those affirmations to themselves bc the more exaggerated the better.. don't ask me to elaborate, affirmations is a lot to explain lol)

people think i'm a pessimist which honestly amuses me

Alam
World famous

Alam wrote:

devilcake wrote:
every time i read acab i read assigned cop at birth

I chuckled

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wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Heaven wrote:

Cheetos wrote:
Unpopular opinion:

some peep's optimism is more like stupidity or and wishful thinking
optimism is not inevitably ,,the right mindset"

i think people have to find the right balance between being optimistic and giving up on seeing things on a better light.. they should be realistically determined to see things change for the better.. not be like "i am gonna be rich!!" (altho some people say those affirmations to themselves bc the more exaggerated the better.. don't ask me to elaborate, affirmations is a lot to explain lol)

people think i'm a pessimist which honestly amuses me

i dont think ur a pessimist ur just .. default realistic mayb

MasileinDE
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MasileinDE wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:

Alam wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:
i don't think you chose to be one but i don't think you were born as one either.. again, sexual feelings and desiers develop later and it's not as simple as having a gay gene that automatically makes you gay from birth

So is being hetero social rather than biological too?

i think the difference is that we are biologically programmed to produce offspring so i don't see that as the same thing as homosexuality

well someone programmed me wrong, because I have a womb and the most useless ovaries in human history, because I can't produce children (literally, I'm infertile)

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devilcake wrote:

Heaven wrote:

devilcake wrote:

ouch wrote:
Depends if they have dysphoria or not

enbies w/o dysphoria are just as valid as those w/o tbh

i guess i agree to an extent, i don't care if people have dysphoria or not (i do agree that if you do not have dysphoria you are at a higher risk of realizing you made the mistake of being trans, but you live however u want rly..)

I mean i suppose but there's nothing wrong with thinking ur one thing then realizing it wasn't the case so i don't think thats a super big issue

sometimes im a bit like, if non-dysphoric people talk over ppl with dysphoria about shit that makes them uncomfy i'm a bit like okay that's over-stepping but idk, i think that is gonna be an un-popular opninion in some circles in itself lol

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wug wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:

Alam wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:
i don't think you chose to be one but i don't think you were born as one either.. again, sexual feelings and desiers develop later and it's not as simple as having a gay gene that automatically makes you gay from birth

So is being hetero social rather than biological too?

i think the difference is that we are biologically programmed to produce offspring so i don't see that as the same thing as homosexuality

don't you think it's a chance that nature is currently working on reducing the number of offspring

MasileinDE
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MasileinDE wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Heaven wrote:

Cheetos wrote:
Unpopular opinion:

some peep's optimism is more like stupidity or and wishful thinking
optimism is not inevitably ,,the right mindset"

i think people have to find the right balance between being optimistic and giving up on seeing things on a better light.. they should be realistically determined to see things change for the better.. not be like "i am gonna be rich!!" (altho some people say those affirmations to themselves bc the more exaggerated the better.. don't ask me to elaborate, affirmations is a lot to explain lol)

people think i'm a pessimist which honestly amuses me

I get told that so often too and I don't even feel like I'm that pessimistic??

Private
International star

wug wrote:

Heaven wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Heaven wrote:
i think people have to find the right balance between being optimistic and giving up on seeing things on a better light.. they should be realistically determined to see things change for the better.. not be like "i am gonna be rich!!" (altho some people say those affirmations to themselves bc the more exaggerated the better.. don't ask me to elaborate, affirmations is a lot to explain lol)

people think i'm a pessimist which honestly amuses me

i dont think ur a pessimist ur just .. default realistic mayb

which is what my psychologist said

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Limbs wrote:
being fat is fine
yes it's a health risk but socially and looks-wise it's fine, and also people don't owe u health, mind ur own business

i won't elaborate or engage in debate regarding this goodbye

Alam
World famous

Alam wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:

Alam wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:
i don't think you chose to be one but i don't think you were born as one either.. again, sexual feelings and desiers develop later and it's not as simple as having a gay gene that automatically makes you gay from birth

So is being hetero social rather than biological too?

i think the difference is that we are biologically programmed to produce offspring so i don't see that as the same thing as homosexuality

That's why I referenced the theory about homosexuality being integral to evolution. Again, I'm not smart enough to explain it but you should definitely research it.

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devilcake wrote:

Heaven wrote:

devilcake wrote:
enbies w/o dysphoria are just as valid as those w/o tbh

i guess i agree to an extent, i don't care if people have dysphoria or not (i do agree that if you do not have dysphoria you are at a higher risk of realizing you made the mistake of being trans, but you live however u want rly..)

I mean i suppose but there's nothing wrong with thinking ur one thing then realizing it wasn't the case so i don't think thats a super big issue

sometimes im a bit like, if non-dysphoric people talk over ppl with dysphoria about shit that makes them uncomfy i'm a bit like okay that's over-stepping but idk, i think that is gonna be an un-popular opninion in some circles in itself lol

thats true i agree, i just hope that no one starts transitioning and realizes this later because it will be a hassle for them, not for me.. it's a lot to go through

and yes i kind of agree even tho i understood like 50% lamamjrie

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wug wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Heaven wrote:
i think people have to find the right balance between being optimistic and giving up on seeing things on a better light.. they should be realistically determined to see things change for the better.. not be like "i am gonna be rich!!" (altho some people say those affirmations to themselves bc the more exaggerated the better.. don't ask me to elaborate, affirmations is a lot to explain lol)

people think i'm a pessimist which honestly amuses me

I get told that so often too and I don't even feel like I'm that pessimistic??

some people: everything i am uncomfortable with is people being negative or pessimistic

for instance, when i said to my mother i don't think society will be normal until 2022 on the very earliest and she said i was negative
ok then

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wug wrote:

Limbs wrote:
being fat is fine
yes it's a health risk but socially and looks-wise it's fine, and also people don't owe u health, mind ur own business

i won't elaborate or engage in debate regarding this goodbye

yes

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ouch wrote:

Heaven wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Heaven wrote:
i guess i agree to an extent, i don't care if people have dysphoria or not (i do agree that if you do not have dysphoria you are at a higher risk of realizing you made the mistake of being trans, but you live however u want rly..)

I mean i suppose but there's nothing wrong with thinking ur one thing then realizing it wasn't the case so i don't think thats a super big issue

sometimes im a bit like, if non-dysphoric people talk over ppl with dysphoria about shit that makes them uncomfy i'm a bit like okay that's over-stepping but idk, i think that is gonna be an un-popular opninion in some circles in itself lol

thats true i agree, i just hope that no one starts transitioning and realizes this later because it will be a hassle for them, not for me.. it's a lot to go through

and yes i kind of agree even tho i understood like 50% lamamjrie

Why transition if they don't have dysphoria in the first place
what r u gonna transition