kruspersille wrote:i feel like every time i mention something here it sounds like very minuscule things but i swear they happen so frequent that it still really hurts !!!
so at 11 i ask in groupchat if anyone wants to grab a beer w me this afternoon, and we land on a specific bar (time has not been established yet but its also early in the day still and keep in mind i asked abt afternoon)
i check back in groupchat around 14:30 cause i see ive been tagged, and prior to the @ someone else asked if anyone wanted to join her for beers tonight and everyone who said yes to join me says they want to join her (which in itself is fine she could literally just join our plans) BUT THEY MAKE NEW PLANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111 she asks anyone wanan join me for beer? they say yes. She says "x bar?" (which is a different bar than the one we already chose!!!!!) they say okay! so then this person says "okay then ittl be x bar at 19!" and they go "agreed!" and tag me
??????? wym ?????????? literally wym u change both time (again i had not gotten to the point of planning specific time yet but to me afternoon is mayb 17 not 19........) and place of my already established plans with you ??????
and this obviously upsets me so i go mute rest of the day until i go "rip afternoon-(name of already established plans bar)" at 17 as a passive aggressive comment to try n get them to realise i think it was mega shitty of them to do that, and the girl who made the new plans goes "que?" `???????

so one of them goes "oh, but we can still go to original bar lets meet there instead at 19 then" n at this point im over it so i do not respond to any more n they tag me n call me n send my roomie msg asking if im home (my roomie is on my side she has all the insider info of how theyve been towards me so she just sent me screenshot lol) so i finally sent my friend msg that i am not coming because i think it was super shitty what they did (switching out already established plans, MY plans, when someone else asked)
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????? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 how old are they because this is super weird and immature behavior.... how hard is it to just say "oh yea marianne asked earlier, we're going to this place, u should join" and then decide on a time together 💀💀
if i were you i would also feel really disregarded and trampled on.. how didn't even one of them bring up like "oh but what about the plans we already made" im scratchin my head rn