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wug wrote:

bones wrote:
fat ppl face daily casually open hostility but ppl are just "worried about health" lol right

same energy as "i'll pray for you" ngl

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remains wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:
it's not "body positivity" to encourage fat people to be fat and unhealthy

maybe ur a little confused but telling ppl not to hate and harm themselves isnt "encouraging" to be fat

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bones wrote:
whhy is there a reaction in the first place
why cant fat or obese people just exist without harassment or someone """worried""" about their health

yes it is weird because there is a lot of visible unhealthy traits that are caused by unhealthy habits but no one lifts a finger

idk if thats what u mean but this reminds me of ppl who r like "omg shes so fat" and then go intermittent fast for 16 hours.. a lot of projecting lol

Well l didn't mean it like that but rather like how you can tell if someone has unhealthy habits they are left alone but obese people are always okay to bash on because "it is in the worry of the general health" when people don't bat an eye to an alcoholic nor even better someone crying

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What is itt
Ive seen it twice now here

i have no idea

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Azriel wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Azriel wrote:
What is itt
Ive seen it twice now here

urban dictionary is available in the netherlands as well

Im lazy

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Snusmumrikken wrote:

bones wrote:
fat ppl face daily casually open hostility but ppl are just "worried about health" lol right

same energy as "i'll pray for you" ngl

"god ur so fucking fat, but im just worried for you.. but you look really disgusting sorry, but again im just worried bc its really unhealthy"

i honestly in the middle with this though, or maybe not in the spectrum of this discussion at all

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Alam wrote:

Koolaid wrote:

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there are always going to be similarities but to make comparisons like that is still harmful. ethnicity is not the same as transsexuality.

How is it different in the regard you're discussing? I'm not being annoying, I'm genuinely curious.

my question asks that some trans women 1) want to be seen as women but also want people to acknowledge that 2) trans women are at a higher risk of hate crime (amongst others)

but women of color are not concerned about (1). they are concerned about (2). so it's a false equivalence because not the same set of statements hold.

They are though, they want to be acknowledged as normal people and as equals, I don't get your argument.

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Slave2Master wrote:

bones wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:
it's not "body positivity" to encourage fat people to be fat and unhealthy

maybe ur a little confused but telling ppl not to hate and harm themselves isnt "encouraging" to be fat

the only body positivity i'm familiar with are obese women showing off their stretch marks and back rolls on social media not gonna lie.

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remains wrote:

Heaven wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

bones wrote:
fat ppl face daily casually open hostility but ppl are just "worried about health" lol right

same energy as "i'll pray for you" ngl

"god ur so fucking fat, but im just worried for you.. but you look really disgusting sorry, but again im just worried bc its really unhealthy"

i honestly in the middle with this though, or maybe not in the spectrum of this discussion at all

"maybe you shouldnt eat that" like??? are you telling a person to starve themselves? for "health" ??

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Absinthe wrote:

Heaven wrote:

Absinthe wrote:
yes it is weird because there is a lot of visible unhealthy traits that are caused by unhealthy habits but no one lifts a finger

idk if thats what u mean but this reminds me of ppl who r like "omg shes so fat" and then go intermittent fast for 16 hours.. a lot of projecting lol

Well l didn't mean it like that but rather like how you can tell is some has some unhealthy habits they are left alone but obese people are always okay to bash on because it is in the worry of the general health when people don't bat an eye to an alcoholic nor even better someone crying

oh this is very true lmao.. people only comment on what bothers them personally.. this applies to anything tho

me being against someone being drunk too often bc im projecting about my alcoholic mom rip

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remains wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:

bones wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:
it's not "body positivity" to encourage fat people to be fat and unhealthy

maybe ur a little confused but telling ppl not to hate and harm themselves isnt "encouraging" to be fat

the only body positivity i'm familiar with are obese women showing off their stretch marks and back rolls on social media not gonna lie.

then why are you bothered

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Koolaid wrote:

bones wrote:

Koolaid wrote:

Alam wrote:
How is it different in the regard you're discussing? I'm not being annoying, I'm genuinely curious.

my question asks that some trans women 1) want to be seen as women but also want people to acknowledge that 2) trans women are at a higher risk of hate crime (amongst others)

but women of color are not concerned about (1). they are concerned about (2). so it's a false equivalence because not the same set of statements hold.

1 and 2 do not contradict each other because trans women are women

okay let's make the preposition that trans women = women, then what does (2) mean? trans women are at a higher risk of hate crime than women. because then that isn't possible if trans women = women

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bones wrote:

Heaven wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
same energy as "i'll pray for you" ngl

"god ur so fucking fat, but im just worried for you.. but you look really disgusting sorry, but again im just worried bc its really unhealthy"

i honestly in the middle with this though, or maybe not in the spectrum of this discussion at all

"maybe you shouldnt eat that" like??? are you telling a person to starve themselves? for "health" ??

i will say that if the person is aiming to lose weight it is recommended they decrease their calorie intake but if the person has no intention of that at all i think the other party should just shut up and keep it to themselves..

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Slave2Master wrote:

bones wrote:

Slave2Master wrote:
it's not "body positivity" to encourage fat people to be fat and unhealthy

maybe ur a little confused but telling ppl not to hate and harm themselves isnt "encouraging" to be fat

the only body positivity i'm familiar with are obese women showing off their stretch marks and back rolls on social media not gonna lie.

i have stretch marks and cellulite but im not obese am i bothering u bruv wtf

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remains wrote:

Koolaid wrote:

bones wrote:

Koolaid wrote:
my question asks that some trans women 1) want to be seen as women but also want people to acknowledge that 2) trans women are at a higher risk of hate crime (amongst others)

but women of color are not concerned about (1). they are concerned about (2). so it's a false equivalence because not the same set of statements hold.

1 and 2 do not contradict each other because trans women are women

okay let's make the preposition that trans women = women, then what does (2) mean? trans women are at a higher risk of hate crime than women. because then that isn't possible if trans women = women

trans women are women with a specific life experience and are at a threat of violence because of other people do not percieve them as women
it's very simple idk why you cant see that