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Timebomb
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Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:

yellowcard wrote:
why are you Jealous on people who are sick all the time
being sick is not fun

I'm jealous of people not having to do anything for four or five days in a row WITHOUT having to waste their vacation on it once or twice a year, and I'd gladly pay for getting it by being ill.

I'm sorry but it's not like being ill is nice or something to enjoy
If you enjoy being ill you're not really ill tbh

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yellowcard wrote:

Aves wrote:

scoff wrote:

Aves wrote:
Then don't.

I won't.

Well, don't complain?

I think you don't need 4 days off, you need professional help. It sounds like you are on the edge of a breakdown.

This

Timebomb
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Timebomb wrote:
By the way, you have to stop thinking about other people judging you. You do you! I know it's hard, but there's nothing wrong with taking a long weekend off or so just to have some me time and relax and recharge. You don't have to be ill to take care of your mental health. If you keep thinking about other people's opinion before you can make a decision for yourself, this life is going to be a big struggle for you.

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scoff wrote:

Plastique wrote:

Limbs wrote:

Plastique wrote:

@Plastique excuse you, you're calling Scoff disrespectful and then do this?? you're the one being mean and disrespectful here

What? This topic is just screaming for attention sorry dear

You know what? Wanting or demanding attention is something I don't see as wrong. We all need attention, some more, some less. I happen to be the kind of person that needs A LOT of attention, and especially when not feeling well mentally.

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scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:

yellowcard wrote:
why are you Jealous on people who are sick all the time
being sick is not fun

I'm jealous of people not having to do anything for four or five days in a row WITHOUT having to waste their vacation on it once or twice a year, and I'd gladly pay for getting it by being ill.

I'm sorry but it's not like being ill is nice or something to enjoy
If you enjoy being ill you're not really ill tbh

I'd rather have to sit down after two steps due to dizziness than doing things that need done right now. I've been that dizzy, so I definitely know what it's like.

Timebomb
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Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:

Plastique wrote:

Limbs wrote:
@Plastique excuse you, you're calling Scoff disrespectful and then do this?? you're the one being mean and disrespectful here

What? This topic is just screaming for attention sorry dear

You know what? Wanting or demanding attention is something I don't see as wrong. We all need attention, some more, some less. I happen to be the kind of person that needs A LOT of attention, and especially when not feeling well mentally.

I think you need attention of yourself then, not of some random people on the internet who don't know you.

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scoff wrote:

Plastique wrote:

Limbs wrote:

Plastique wrote:

@Plastique excuse you, you're calling Scoff disrespectful and then do this?? you're the one being mean and disrespectful here

What? This topic is just screaming for attention sorry dear

EVERY normal person has to do the things she's complaining about, so if you're tired, go take some days off, take rest and stop complaining about it

I can't take a few days rest because since I have no real reason, people will get mad at me and right now I'm not in a position where I can take that at all.

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scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:

Plastique wrote:
What? This topic is just screaming for attention sorry dear

You know what? Wanting or demanding attention is something I don't see as wrong. We all need attention, some more, some less. I happen to be the kind of person that needs A LOT of attention, and especially when not feeling well mentally.

I think you need attention of yourself then, not of some random people on the internet who don't know you.

I already give myself way too much attention. I need someone else's attention now.

Timebomb
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Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:
You know what? Wanting or demanding attention is something I don't see as wrong. We all need attention, some more, some less. I happen to be the kind of person that needs A LOT of attention, and especially when not feeling well mentally.

I think you need attention of yourself then, not of some random people on the internet who don't know you.

I already give myself way too much attention. I need someone else's attention now.

But what is it you need exactly? Someone telling you it's okay to take some days off for your mental health? Because it is. Or you can talk to a professional about your thoughts and issues and maybe he or she can help you to be nicer to yourself. I know out of experience that being so hard on yourself all the time is not going to help you.

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Plastique
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Plastique wrote:

scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:
I'm jealous of people not having to do anything for four or five days in a row WITHOUT having to waste their vacation on it once or twice a year, and I'd gladly pay for getting it by being ill.

I'm sorry but it's not like being ill is nice or something to enjoy
If you enjoy being ill you're not really ill tbh

I'd rather have to sit down after two steps due to dizziness than doing things that need done right now. I've been that dizzy, so I definitely know what it's like.

I can't believe you're saying things like this omg, I'm outta here, my brain is starting to hurt

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scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:
I think you need attention of yourself then, not of some random people on the internet who don't know you.

I already give myself way too much attention. I need someone else's attention now.

But what is it you need exactly? Someone telling you it's okay to take some days off for your mental health? Because it is. Or you can talk to a professional about your thoughts and issues and maybe he or she can help you to be nicer to yourself. I know out of experience that being so hard on yourself all the time is not going to help you.

I need insurance that it's ok to take days off EVEN if bf happens to be ill at the exact same time that I NEED those days off. Even if that means the apartment becoming a mess and us living off of sandwiches for three days. But people don't think it IS ok. No one does, and especially not bf.

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scoff wrote:

Plastique wrote:

scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:
I'm sorry but it's not like being ill is nice or something to enjoy
If you enjoy being ill you're not really ill tbh

I'd rather have to sit down after two steps due to dizziness than doing things that need done right now. I've been that dizzy, so I definitely know what it's like.

I can't believe you're saying things like this omg, I'm outta here, my brain is starting to hurt

Ok? It's my genuine feeling and opinion, but sure. I'm just being a disrespectful asshole, as usual.

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uhyre wrote:
honestly, if u need days off then u need days off. i dont like the whole "u need to have the flue to be sick" thing, its ridiculous, taking care of exhaustion and mental health IS watching out for ur own health. yeah itll probably be inconvenient for the both of u if no one does anything, but when has feeling bad ever been convenient

if u need the days off, then u need the days off

Timebomb
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Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:

Timebomb wrote:

scoff wrote:
I already give myself way too much attention. I need someone else's attention now.

But what is it you need exactly? Someone telling you it's okay to take some days off for your mental health? Because it is. Or you can talk to a professional about your thoughts and issues and maybe he or she can help you to be nicer to yourself. I know out of experience that being so hard on yourself all the time is not going to help you.

I need insurance that it's ok to take days off EVEN if bf happens to be ill at the exact same time that I NEED those days off. Even if that means the apartment becoming a mess and us living off of sandwiches for three days. But people don't think it IS ok. No one does, and especially not bf.

I think it's okay tbh. And maybe you don't have to lay down all day to feel better. I honestly don't think it will. Even when I'm really ill, I still have to clean the house a little. I just take breaks and relax in the meantime. I also think you and your bf might need to communicate more about this. You're obviously not well (sorry) so even though it's not physical and something other people can see, it's still there. He needs to understand that.