Heaven wrote:Puftoss wrote:Heaven wrote:
ahhhh.. if that makes someone bi? uh that is a bit complicated bc wouldn't that be transphobic in a way? i'm 2 dumb to elaborate but u kno what i mean
i kno what u mean but thats why we call trans woman trans-woman is it not?
i feel like im 2 tired to have these type of discussions lol
honestly i've never understood why trans people call themselves "trans [gender]" , i guess if they're not yet passing they're making it clear that they're not what they "seem".. but if they are passing there's no reason to use that label

nonetheless i think that sexuality is the attraction to gender rite? not necessarily the sex
if i was dating someone who calls themselves just a man but is a trans man i'd not be ok with that. yes i am dicksexual. i want no surprises