kalypso wrote:Crawk wrote:kalypso wrote:
oh yeah i have been so many times in and out at the local authority(?) being asked if i want to live with my dad, cause they say you """"""actually can choose""""""" when ur under 18, but reality is you seriously dont have a say before you're 18. everytime she's like this im always reconsidering if i should contact him, cause i'm pretty sure he still lives in the same country as me (i dont have contact with him at all + the only reason i ever said no to have contact with him, was literally bc my mom wouldn't let me). But that's so good for you!! i'm glad to hear that
same ouff,, it sucked so much because i knew i had no right and no say in the decisions being made
i remember my dad not us wanting to see our mom n he tried to convince the social service that he was a good father but they quickly turned him down because he didn't allow them to coming to visit so that they could prove that the home was approved for us living there
but they fucked up in other areas instead so it was quite wild for like 9 years
thank u!!
and i hope things will get better for u 2, it's very tiring to keep up with a person, and ever worse a parent like that < / 3 all the strength to u rly !!
the social authority is SHIIIIIITTTTT jesus, my mom was never like this when i was a child, the reason she is like this today is honestly bc i think she has ptsd (she talked with a therapist about this, who was the one to even bring it up, not me or her), but i have been sent away before when i was small, cause some from our family reported her and the social authority just blindly believed the family member. like right away just sent away, ehh what about investigate before? like maybe i remember wrong on how she was, but there was no investigating. I have NO memory of how long i was there, but i ended up moving back into my moms, cause like ... they had no reason to do that back then.
Thank you, i know it will, i know i will move, if not before, when i start study and honestly this is probably just pushing me to do it sooner
sorry to hear < / 3 that's just very disgusting of them to just make decisions with any so what investigation into it