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the further this thread goes, the more it sounds like internalized homophobia/biphobia.

But if saying you are straight but still being attracted to women makes you most comfortable, who can stop you? The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Date: 21-03-2021 19:31
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Aarada wrote:
NOface wrote:
Can I ask, why are you so reluctant to the idea you might be bi?
I don't have a good answer to give you. I've just been raised very "traditionally", I've never been around gay people. I've only dated guys. It wouldn't feel right to call myself anything other than straight. Perhaps I'm not used to it but, it just feels creepy like "how can I even think about being with a woman when I've only ever been with men", it doesn't add up in my head 
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:32
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I’m straight and I don’t fantasize about it 🤔
ive thought about what my life would look like if I was, but I haven’t had any sexual fantasies towards my own gender 
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:33 | Times changed: 1
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Melk wrote:
i think many ppl r actually bi without realizing it bc of the idea that u have to be 50/50 attracted to both OR must be more attracted to the same sex. when in reality it's just not how it's work. 

u can be bi w a preference for men and bi w a preference for women and so on. 

i also think that some ppl just don't want to explore their interest in the same sex bc "why would you make it harder for urself when u could just date men?" 
Socially, I have a preference for men. Like I can't imagine myself going outside holding hands with a girl in public or anything like that. But in my head it's probably 50/50 what I like romantically/sexually. Again, that's in my mind only.

The more I think about it the more confused I get.
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:34
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I will say tho I find my own gender(female) to be incredibly beautiful and fascinating, but not in a way where I’m even remotely sexually attracted to my own gender.... does this make sense? 😂
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:36
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Aarada wrote:
disintegration wrote:
the further this thread goes, the more it sounds like internalized homophobia/biphobia.

But if saying you are straight but still being attracted to women makes you most comfortable, who can stop you? The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Can it be internalized homophobia/biphobia though, because the way I feel about my own sexuality, I would never think about anybody elses. 
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:36
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Claire wrote:
RareRevolution wrote:
I’m straight and I don’t fantasize about it 🤔
ive thought about what my life would look like if I was, but I haven’t had any sexual fantasies towards my own gender 
like i've like... attempted to fantasize about sleeping with women but tbh its like gross lmao 
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:36
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Aarada wrote:
RareRevolution wrote:
I will say tho I find my own gender(female) to be incredibly beautiful and fascinating, but not in a way where I’m even remotely sexually attracted to my own gender.... does this make sense? 😂
Yeah that makes sense! I think that's pretty normal actually. 
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:37
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Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
RareRevolution wrote:
I’m straight and I don’t fantasize about it 🤔
ive thought about what my life would look like if I was, but I haven’t had any sexual fantasies towards my own gender 
like i've like... attempted to fantasize about sleeping with women but tbh its like gross lmao 
like at best its just uninteresting but also its gross
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:37
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Bimbo wrote:
Aarada wrote:
disintegration wrote:
the further this thread goes, the more it sounds like internalized homophobia/biphobia.

But if saying you are straight but still being attracted to women makes you most comfortable, who can stop you? The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Can it be internalized homophobia/biphobia though, because the way I feel about my own sexuality, I would never think about anybody elses. 

You don' hate bisexuality, you hate the possibility of being bisexual
Internalised biphobia and biphobia are different
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:37
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Aarada wrote:
Thanks guys for sharing. It's interesting (even though it doesn't make me feel any more confident LMAO)
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:37
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Aarada wrote:
disintegration wrote:
the further this thread goes, the more it sounds like internalized homophobia/biphobia.

But if saying you are straight but still being attracted to women makes you most comfortable, who can stop you? The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Can it be internalized homophobia/biphobia though, because the way I feel about my own sexuality, I would never think about anybody elses. 

That's super common, because you see others through a more rational lens than you see yourself, like you know that there is nothing wrong with it objectively, but the way you grow up will always influence you on a more emotional, less rational level. I still feel ashamed when I'm in a church lol
Date: 21-03-2021 19:38
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Claire wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Aarada wrote:
disintegration wrote:
the further this thread goes, the more it sounds like internalized homophobia/biphobia.

But if saying you are straight but still being attracted to women makes you most comfortable, who can stop you? The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Can it be internalized homophobia/biphobia though, because the way I feel about my own sexuality, I would never think about anybody elses. 

That's super common, because you see others through a more rational lens than you see yourself, like you know that there is nothing wrong with it objectively, but the way you grow up will always influence you on a more emotional, less rational level. I still feel ashamed when I'm in a church lol
ok but just being NEAR a catholic church makes me feel shame for literally just existing
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:39
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Aarada wrote:
Vanity wrote:
Aarada wrote:
disintegration wrote:
the further this thread goes, the more it sounds like internalized homophobia/biphobia.

But if saying you are straight but still being attracted to women makes you most comfortable, who can stop you? The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Can it be internalized homophobia/biphobia though, because the way I feel about my own sexuality, I would never think about anybody elses. 

You don' hate bisexuality, you hate the possibility of being bisexual
Internalised biphobia and biphobia are different
That does sound.. accurate. When I think about it.. But I don't HATE the idea, I just don't see myself as a "gay person". It would be super weird to be like "well I'm actually attracted to both genders" 
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:40
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Aarada wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Aarada wrote:
disintegration wrote:
the further this thread goes, the more it sounds like internalized homophobia/biphobia.

But if saying you are straight but still being attracted to women makes you most comfortable, who can stop you? The most important thing is to feel comfortable with yourself.
Can it be internalized homophobia/biphobia though, because the way I feel about my own sexuality, I would never think about anybody elses. 

That's super common, because you see others through a more rational lens than you see yourself, like you know that there is nothing wrong with it objectively, but the way you grow up will always influence you on a more emotional, less rational level. I still feel ashamed when I'm in a church lol
Maybe 
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Date: 21-03-2021 19:41
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