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thoughts on kids on leashes
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Misjel wrote:
kagura wrote:
Misjel wrote:
No but imo the child should be allowed to do stuff without being bound to the parent, however the parent ofc needs to look over the kid to make sure they aren’t getting themselves in danger

if you’re too busy for that idk…
parents are humans too. if you have to walk in crowd with your toddler for example, i honestly can't judge if you use leash. or then your other option is just walk hand in hand, or carrying your child. you can't lose your attention even for a second and that's honestly just too much to ask from anyone. some kids are more lively than others, so of course there's kids that wouldn't run away, but there's also kids who are trying actively run away from their parents every change they get 
yeah some areas are busier than others, it probably has to be looked on by individual cases but generally holding a kid's hands make more sense to me, could be cultural bias, could be functionality

i feel like if the leash is too long it's gonna block other ppl in where they walk and if it's too short it's gonna choke them or smth 
do u think the leash is around their neck?
it's a harness
Date: 17-04-2022 16:23
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misjel wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Misjel wrote:
kagura wrote:
parents are humans too. if you have to walk in crowd with your toddler for example, i honestly can't judge if you use leash. or then your other option is just walk hand in hand, or carrying your child. you can't lose your attention even for a second and that's honestly just too much to ask from anyone. some kids are more lively than others, so of course there's kids that wouldn't run away, but there's also kids who are trying actively run away from their parents every change they get 
yeah some areas are busier than others, it probably has to be looked on by individual cases but generally holding a kid's hands make more sense to me, could be cultural bias, could be functionality

i feel like if the leash is too long it's gonna block other ppl in where they walk and if it's too short it's gonna choke them or smth 
do u think the leash is around their neck?
it's a harness
oh it's by their back, that looks kinda funny
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Date: 17-04-2022 16:24
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Misjel wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Misjel wrote:
yeah some areas are busier than others, it probably has to be looked on by individual cases but generally holding a kid's hands make more sense to me, could be cultural bias, could be functionality

i feel like if the leash is too long it's gonna block other ppl in where they walk and if it's too short it's gonna choke them or smth 
do u think the leash is around their neck?
it's a harness
oh it's by their back, that looks kinda funny


it's actually kinda cute
Date: 17-04-2022 16:25 | Times changed: 1
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misjel wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Misjel wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
do u think the leash is around their neck?
it's a harness
oh it's by their back, that looks kinda funny

x
it's actually kinda cutex
true i like that monke, i changed my mind as long as someone don't use it all the time
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Date: 17-04-2022 16:26
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there's also one only for the wrist
i'm thinking the bigger harness would be good if u have more than 1 kid
Date: 17-04-2022 16:26
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hmm wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Misjel wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
do u think the leash is around their neck?
it's a harness
oh it's by their back, that looks kinda funny


it's actually kinda cute x
now i want a monkey backpack
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Date: 17-04-2022 16:32
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misjel wrote:
hmm wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Misjel wrote:
oh it's by their back, that looks kinda funny


it's actually kinda cute x
now i want a monkey backpack
shoe girl has infiltrated your mind
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Date: 17-04-2022 16:33
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Solar wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
especially on public transport, yeah, then kids def needs to be leashed down.
like 2 weeks ago this little girl would continue to walk up and down the bus and talk to the driver, press buttons and talk to the other ppl on the bus meanwhile her mom desperately tried to get her to sit down but had her hands full w a tiny baby.
the girl then had a massive tantrum and started to kick, scream at and punch her mom ... like i'm sry, but leashed
tbh that just comes with raising a child... like your child won't always be an angel, especially not in public, it's normal to not always have control over your child. if you cant handle that, don't get a child bc a leash wont stop a tantrum / kicking / punching
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Date: 17-04-2022 16:34 | Times changed: 1
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misjel wrote:
Solar wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
especially on public transport, yeah, then kids def needs to be leashed down.
like 2 weeks ago this little girl would continue to walk up and down the bus and talk to the driver, press buttons and talk to the other ppl on the bus meanwhile her mom desperately tried to get her to sit down but had her hands full w a tiny baby.
the girl then had a massive tantrum and started to kick, scream at and punch her mom ... like i'm sry, but leashed
tbh that just comes with raising a child... like your child will never always be an angel, especially not in public, it's normal to not always have control over your child. if you cant handle that, don't get a child bc a leash wont stop a tantrum / kicking / punching
they need a cage /j
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Date: 17-04-2022 16:39
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Random wrote:
My brother was so active and couldn't stay put, so he had to wear it. But only when in specific places and only at young age. Wasn't used often, but it was to protect him.
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Date: 17-04-2022 17:02
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spynation wrote:
Solar wrote:
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what is it for and why is it not bad parenting in your opinion then
"my brother used to get put on a leash due to his autism making him uncontrollable in the street"
that doens't answer my question 
not every kid on a leash has autism
not every kid with autism is uncontrollable
a leash is not for kids with autism pe rse
sorry im a bit confused because how have u interpreted me giving an example of a child who needed a leash a generalization of autism ? im autistic too and im completely different from my brother so u didnt need to mansplain but i respect the effort to be correct at every little thing it seems exhausting
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Date: 17-04-2022 19:45
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spynation wrote:
Solar wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
especially on public transport, yeah, then kids def needs to be leashed down.
like 2 weeks ago this little girl would continue to walk up and down the bus and talk to the driver, press buttons and talk to the other ppl on the bus meanwhile her mom desperately tried to get her to sit down but had her hands full w a tiny baby.
the girl then had a massive tantrum and started to kick, scream at and punch her mom ... like i'm sry, but leashed
tbh that just comes with raising a child... like your child won't always be an angel, especially not in public, it's normal to not always have control over your child. if you cant handle that, don't get a child bc a leash wont stop a tantrum / kicking / punching
spoken like someone who has zero younger siblings and/or children who need to be protected from themselves lest they literally RUN INTO THE ROAD . i never knew this was a moral debate so im highkey bewildered rn
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Date: 17-04-2022 19:49
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Koolaid wrote:
i can understand it for big crowds yea, have seen a lot of videos where smugglers will snatch children away in the blink of an eye
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Date: 17-04-2022 19:52
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Claire wrote:
some of you are truly failing to consider things like this https://www.cnn.com/2019/11/23/us/mall-of-america-boy-recovering/index.html
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Date: 17-04-2022 20:03
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spynation wrote:
Claire wrote:
some of you are truly failing to consider things like this https://www.cnn.com/2019/11/23/us/mall-of-america-boy-recovering/index.html
omg i remember that story when it first happened if im thinking abt the same event ........... mad
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