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Yeah ok if I was same height as u I would be overweight also, its rlly not convenient to be short cus u have to eat less and obviously I am already dying from eating too little so idk how its possible

i already eat very little so i am honestly upset about weighing around 74 kg. it's like sure it doesn't sound like a lot because people are obviously much taller than me but it is a lot for me at is definitely shows and i don't know and i've been extremely conscious about it for about a year now and it's uncomfortable and i'm constantly miserable

I assume they have tested for metabolic disorders in one of the many blood tests u have had, right

no idea, they generally take like 13 tests at once and they fail to find things so i guess i'm just lazy

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I would if I could but sadly the world doesn't work like that

Sad. My fam has a running joke where fat transplantation should be possible since i was type 10

my mother called me fat from i was 10 until i was around 16 and then she stopped and started calling my sister fat instead. from time to time she'll tell me i'm fat and have gained weight but it isn't as frequent anymore

Hmmm my mom can not call anyone fat cus shes obese - morbidly obese I assume hoenstly, but she always comments on how my sister is so skinny bla bla bla, I lose my mind, what is the point in commenting

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Sad. My fam has a running joke where fat transplantation should be possible since i was type 10

my mother called me fat from i was 10 until i was around 16 and then she stopped and started calling my sister fat instead. from time to time she'll tell me i'm fat and have gained weight but it isn't as frequent anymore

Your mother sounds shitty
I have that regular 👌🏻 around my wrist since i was a kid and fam telling me im dissappearing like it's not absolutely crushing to hear. the only one that was allowed to comment on my weight was my grandma. the rest: disqualified.

She's like everyone else really
I don't feel like people understand me at all because every time I walk with her she insists on me applying for jobs although I've made my sentiment clear and she goes like "jeg hadde håpet jeg kunne spare penger i høst jeg da" when I talk about having to study while I wait for paid phd-positions in my field to be released on the job market hoping I somehow manage to get one and it's very upsetting and I don't think she understands how much it bothers me and I tell her she isn't required to give me money I can live on my own money if it truly peeves her that much

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i already eat very little so i am honestly upset about weighing around 74 kg. it's like sure it doesn't sound like a lot because people are obviously much taller than me but it is a lot for me at is definitely shows and i don't know and i've been extremely conscious about it for about a year now and it's uncomfortable and i'm constantly miserable

I assume they have tested for metabolic disorders in one of the many blood tests u have had, right

no idea, they generally take like 13 tests at once and they fail to find things so i guess i'm just lazy

Mby ask next time ur at the doctors or smth, my metabolism was allegedly not good, but I think im going from a low metabolism to a high metabolism to a low to a high, like regularly so it might be hard to treat. If your had smth wonky with it tho and it was only low it should be possible to treat, but yeah easy to test for but I would assume they had done it already but idk

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wug wrote:

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Sad. My fam has a running joke where fat transplantation should be possible since i was type 10

my mother called me fat from i was 10 until i was around 16 and then she stopped and started calling my sister fat instead. from time to time she'll tell me i'm fat and have gained weight but it isn't as frequent anymore

Hmmm my mom can not call anyone fat cus shes obese - morbidly obese I assume hoenstly, but she always comments on how my sister is so skinny bla bla bla, I lose my mind, what is the point in commenting

My sister is definitely normal weight she isn't close to fat and it's so bitchy to say anything about it

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I assume they have tested for metabolic disorders in one of the many blood tests u have had, right

no idea, they generally take like 13 tests at once and they fail to find things so i guess i'm just lazy

Mby ask next time ur at the doctors or smth, my metabolism was allegedly not good, but I think im going from a low metabolism to a high metabolism to a low to a high, like regularly so it might be hard to treat. If your had smth wonky with it tho and it was only low it should be possible to treat, but yeah easy to test for but I would assume they had done it already but idk

No idea I kind of plan to not go to doctors regarding things anymore because they never find anything anyway so I just sound like i have munchhausen and I don't so it is what it is I'll just endure it

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my mother called me fat from i was 10 until i was around 16 and then she stopped and started calling my sister fat instead. from time to time she'll tell me i'm fat and have gained weight but it isn't as frequent anymore

Your mother sounds shitty
I have that regular 👌🏻 around my wrist since i was a kid and fam telling me im dissappearing like it's not absolutely crushing to hear. the only one that was allowed to comment on my weight was my grandma. the rest: disqualified.

She's like everyone else really
I don't feel like people understand me at all because every time I walk with her she insists on me applying for jobs although I've made my sentiment clear and she goes like "jeg hadde håpet jeg kunne spare penger i høst jeg da" when I talk about having to study while I wait for paid phd-positions in my field to be released on the job market hoping I somehow manage to get one and it's very upsetting and I don't think she understands how much it bothers me and I tell her she isn't required to give me money I can live on my own money if it truly peeves her that much

:/ i guess u can like not accept them? Or like accept and then save some if u don't need them and then give them back later idk like here's ur savings idk

Anyways, hope they release some work positions soon!!

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Klasifikovany wrote:

ouch wrote:

Klasifikovany wrote:
my mother called me fat from i was 10 until i was around 16 and then she stopped and started calling my sister fat instead. from time to time she'll tell me i'm fat and have gained weight but it isn't as frequent anymore

Hmmm my mom can not call anyone fat cus shes obese - morbidly obese I assume hoenstly, but she always comments on how my sister is so skinny bla bla bla, I lose my mind, what is the point in commenting

My sister is definitely normal weight she isn't close to fat and it's so bitchy to say anything about it

I remember I started crying once when I was a kid cus my aunt said smth abt me having big bones (store bein, so it can be taken as big boned or fat, depends lol) and my sister having skinny bones, I think she meant that I was kraftig and my sister was skinny/small but I just took it as her calling me fat lol n then I wouldn't talk to her. But then I lost the 15kg I mentioned earlier (when I was ish 15 I think), and she said I had become skinny and then I was happy again, fat bones comment erased from my mind lmao

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wug wrote:

Eostre wrote:

Klasifikovany wrote:

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Your mother sounds shitty
I have that regular 👌🏻 around my wrist since i was a kid and fam telling me im dissappearing like it's not absolutely crushing to hear. the only one that was allowed to comment on my weight was my grandma. the rest: disqualified.

She's like everyone else really
I don't feel like people understand me at all because every time I walk with her she insists on me applying for jobs although I've made my sentiment clear and she goes like "jeg hadde håpet jeg kunne spare penger i høst jeg da" when I talk about having to study while I wait for paid phd-positions in my field to be released on the job market hoping I somehow manage to get one and it's very upsetting and I don't think she understands how much it bothers me and I tell her she isn't required to give me money I can live on my own money if it truly peeves her that much

:/ i guess u can like not accept them? Or like accept and then save some if u don't need them and then give them back later idk like here's ur savings idk

Anyways, hope they release some work positions soon!!

I can honestly not survive on her not giving me money but if it bothers her that fucking much she can just keep her money to herself

They won't, nothing will work out for me which makes the constant nagging even worse because they're completely oblivious to how much it bothers me

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Klasifikovany wrote:

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Hmmm my mom can not call anyone fat cus shes obese - morbidly obese I assume hoenstly, but she always comments on how my sister is so skinny bla bla bla, I lose my mind, what is the point in commenting

My sister is definitely normal weight she isn't close to fat and it's so bitchy to say anything about it

I remember I started crying once when I was a kid cus my aunt said smth abt me having big bones (store bein, so it can be taken as big boned or fat, depends lol) and my sister having skinny bones, I think she meant that I was kraftig and my sister was skinny/small but I just took it as her calling me fat lol n then I wouldn't talk to her. But then I lost the 15kg I mentioned earlier (when I was ish 15 I think), and she said I had become skinny and then I was happy again, fat bones comment erased from my mind lmao

I still vividly remember going to the kitchen to get a bolle when I was 15 and my mother commenting "do you really need that one" where she proceeded to yell at me when i threw it in the garbage because i had taken a bite of it : )

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Tho I have never been overweight I think, except when I was a baby probably, but I have always been "big" like wide I guess ?. Idk how to explain it, but then my sister has always been severely underweight and just a small frame, tho we are the same height now but her frame is still very small compared to mine, but I think her comment just pushed me over the edge fr cus I was tired of feeling like I was being compared to my sister by people, since she was only 2 years younger than me and we look like such big contrasts of each other body type wise

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Klasifikovany wrote:

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My sister is definitely normal weight she isn't close to fat and it's so bitchy to say anything about it

I remember I started crying once when I was a kid cus my aunt said smth abt me having big bones (store bein, so it can be taken as big boned or fat, depends lol) and my sister having skinny bones, I think she meant that I was kraftig and my sister was skinny/small but I just took it as her calling me fat lol n then I wouldn't talk to her. But then I lost the 15kg I mentioned earlier (when I was ish 15 I think), and she said I had become skinny and then I was happy again, fat bones comment erased from my mind lmao

I still vividly remember going to the kitchen to get a bolle when I was 15 and my mother commenting "do you really need that one" where she proceeded to yell at me when i threw it in the garbage because i had taken a bite of it : )

I hate eating in front of ppl cus I feel like I have to eat more often or more food than them etc so I practically never eat when im with my friends, which is why I feel so shit all the time but. I think its just stuck in my head from my mom always commenting on me eating a lot, even tho I didn't eat a lot and I ate like half of what she ate, but then I started eating less and then she complained abt me eating too little, I just bruh

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wug wrote:

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Klasifikovany wrote:

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I remember I started crying once when I was a kid cus my aunt said smth abt me having big bones (store bein, so it can be taken as big boned or fat, depends lol) and my sister having skinny bones, I think she meant that I was kraftig and my sister was skinny/small but I just took it as her calling me fat lol n then I wouldn't talk to her. But then I lost the 15kg I mentioned earlier (when I was ish 15 I think), and she said I had become skinny and then I was happy again, fat bones comment erased from my mind lmao

I still vividly remember going to the kitchen to get a bolle when I was 15 and my mother commenting "do you really need that one" where she proceeded to yell at me when i threw it in the garbage because i had taken a bite of it : )

I hate eating in front of ppl cus I feel like I have to eat more often or more food than them etc so I practically never eat when im with my friends, which is why I feel so shit all the time but. I think its just stuck in my head from my mom always commenting on me eating a lot, even tho I didn't eat a lot and I ate like half of what she ate, but then I started eating less and then she complained abt me eating too little, I just bruh

People tend to comment how little I eat when I eat and it's like.. I eat the same amount all the time which further makes it shittier that I'm so overweight because I don't understand why as stated before

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Klasifikovany wrote:

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Klasifikovany wrote:
I still vividly remember going to the kitchen to get a bolle when I was 15 and my mother commenting "do you really need that one" where she proceeded to yell at me when i threw it in the garbage because i had taken a bite of it : )

I hate eating in front of ppl cus I feel like I have to eat more often or more food than them etc so I practically never eat when im with my friends, which is why I feel so shit all the time but. I think its just stuck in my head from my mom always commenting on me eating a lot, even tho I didn't eat a lot and I ate like half of what she ate, but then I started eating less and then she complained abt me eating too little, I just bruh

People tend to comment how little I eat when I eat and it's like.. I eat the same amount all the time which further makes it shittier that I'm so overweight because I don't understand why as stated before

Mby u eat too much candy or smth idk. Usually I don't think abt how much I eat now, but when I was losing weight (I guess I was practically having an eating disorder pretty much but) I was tracking what I was eating obv and it added up so fast I was like

no wonder I was at the weight I was at then. Im more surprised now that im not heavier than I am, but I think itsjust cus I eat so sporadically, that it just adds up to a normal amount alltogether even tho I eat huge amount sometimes and tiny amounts other times. I don't eat candy or snacks anymore tho rlly, which probably helps

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wug wrote:

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Klasifikovany wrote:

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I hate eating in front of ppl cus I feel like I have to eat more often or more food than them etc so I practically never eat when im with my friends, which is why I feel so shit all the time but. I think its just stuck in my head from my mom always commenting on me eating a lot, even tho I didn't eat a lot and I ate like half of what she ate, but then I started eating less and then she complained abt me eating too little, I just bruh

People tend to comment how little I eat when I eat and it's like.. I eat the same amount all the time which further makes it shittier that I'm so overweight because I don't understand why as stated before

Mby u eat too much candy or smth idk. Usually I don't think abt how much I eat now, but when I was losing weight (I guess I was practically having an eating disorder pretty much but) I was tracking what I was eating obv and it added up so fast I was like

no wonder I was at the weight I was at then. Im more surprised now that im not heavier than I am, but I think itsjust cus I eat so sporadically, that it just adds up to a normal amount alltogether even tho I eat huge amount sometimes and tiny amounts other times. I don't eat candy or snacks anymore tho rlly, which probably helps

I don't eat candy