bee wrote:Kofod wrote:
Long distance? Or maybe he'll come back?
he said he would come visit. at first that made me happy. then i realized i cannot wait and wait and wait for what feels like an eternity to see him again, just to say goodbye so soon. how many times would that repeat before it breaks me completely?
it would be different if we became serious ofc.
but i will not allow him to come visit me once in a rare while for a fun time, to just get up and leave again.
if he leaves then he must leave me behind. and i plan on telling him that.
I think this is the best approach tbh. U gotta do whats best for u in the long term