"Dating preferences are discriminatory" - Forum

Alam
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Alam wrote:

bones wrote:

Alam wrote:

bones wrote:
being attracted to trans people is a biological trait?

Of course not, I'm talking about genital attraction, it is biological. You know exactly what I meant, I don't get your need to change people's arguments so you can get mad at them.

see you're putting arguments in my mouth again so you could somehow argue my point. at no point did i mention genital attraction but you'd rather just assume and try to argue your assumption.
try again

Damn, you are bad at arguing.

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Anachronism wrote:

Alam wrote:

bones wrote:
it's always so funny to me to see people react so agressively whenever anyone even slightly mentions that they might have a problematic bias or prejudice
like "stop forcing me to date trans people!!!! im not racist im a good person!!!!11 why are you calling me a monster?????" girl stop nobody cares that much

it's good to be aware of your biases and why they might exist and none of that makes you any less moral, the only thing that does is how you act that's all im gonna say

That's the thing though, you're asserting that they are biases rather than a biological trait. Regarding being attracted to trans people, that is.

It's such a tricky thing honestly. I still think Riley went way too far in dismissing genital preferences, but I still dont see why its impossible for someone to overlook a person's genitals if they're otherwise attracted... I'm not saying you have to take dick if u dont want to either.

Idk I don't like taking the middle ground but I think attraction is a mix of biological and cultural influences. Exercise bodily autonomy, but also dig a lil deeper. I dont think digging deeper means you must force yourself to like people you're not into like some people seem to apply...

Idk... I think this shit is hard to explain.

imma pretend i don't see this lel

if i find out someone who has shown interest in me, has a dick, then yeah, i wouldn't want to date that person at all. that's not overlooking someone's genitalia, that's just inherent sexual attraction (which isn't built on gender or gender expression). i'm a lesbian, i only like pussy. if that's a genital preference, that's bs.

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remains wrote:

Alam wrote:

bones wrote:

Alam wrote:
Of course not, I'm talking about genital attraction, it is biological. You know exactly what I meant, I don't get your need to change people's arguments so you can get mad at them.

see you're putting arguments in my mouth again so you could somehow argue my point. at no point did i mention genital attraction but you'd rather just assume and try to argue your assumption.
try again

Damn, you are bad at arguing.

im not sure if we share the same concept of arguing? but we can't have a discussion about ice cream and suddenly you just go "no actually you're wrong, cake is amazing"

Anachronism
National Star

Anachronism wrote:
Something to think about... anyone find it interesting how fucking obsessed people are w/ the genitals of trans people... how much emphasis is place on that shit? Its goddamn creepy.

Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
Something to think about... anyone find it interesting how fucking obsessed people are w/ the genitals of trans people... how much emphasis is place on that shit? Its goddamn creepy.

I think its fascinating

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remains wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
Something to think about... anyone find it interesting how fucking obsessed people are w/ the genitals of trans people... how much emphasis is place on that shit? Its goddamn creepy.

once i asked a guy if he also asked cis people what's in their pants and he just doubled down on it which wouldve been hilarious if the context wasn't trans children

Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:

bones wrote:

Alam wrote:

bones wrote:
see you're putting arguments in my mouth again so you could somehow argue my point. at no point did i mention genital attraction but you'd rather just assume and try to argue your assumption.
try again

Damn, you are bad at arguing.

im not sure if we share the same concept of arguing? but we can't have a discussion about ice cream and suddenly you just go "no actually you're wrong, cake is amazing"

Yea bc ice cream is gross

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Alam wrote:
That's the thing though, you're asserting that they are biases rather than a biological trait. Regarding being attracted to trans people, that is.

It's such a tricky thing honestly. I still think Riley went way too far in dismissing genital preferences, but I still dont see why its impossible for someone to overlook a person's genitals if they're otherwise attracted... I'm not saying you have to take dick if u dont want to either.

Idk I don't like taking the middle ground but I think attraction is a mix of biological and cultural influences. Exercise bodily autonomy, but also dig a lil deeper. I dont think digging deeper means you must force yourself to like people you're not into like some people seem to apply...

Idk... I think this shit is hard to explain.

imma pretend i don't see this lel

if i find out someone who has shown interest in me, has a dick, then yeah, i wouldn't want to date that person at all. that's not overlooking someone's genitalia, that's just inherent sexual attraction (which isn't built on gender or gender expression). i'm a lesbian, i only like pussy. if that's a genital preference, that's bs.

Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman with obvious female secondary sex characteristics, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then? Do we even know if she takes dick? Ofc not

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Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
It's such a tricky thing honestly. I still think Riley went way too far in dismissing genital preferences, but I still dont see why its impossible for someone to overlook a person's genitals if they're otherwise attracted... I'm not saying you have to take dick if u dont want to either.

Idk I don't like taking the middle ground but I think attraction is a mix of biological and cultural influences. Exercise bodily autonomy, but also dig a lil deeper. I dont think digging deeper means you must force yourself to like people you're not into like some people seem to apply...

Idk... I think this shit is hard to explain.

imma pretend i don't see this lel

if i find out someone who has shown interest in me, has a dick, then yeah, i wouldn't want to date that person at all. that's not overlooking someone's genitalia, that's just inherent sexual attraction (which isn't built on gender or gender expression). i'm a lesbian, i only like pussy. if that's a genital preference, that's bs.

Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then?

then she's bi ... also "look past a penis" ??? either you're into it or not, and lesbians aren't into dick.

Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
It's such a tricky thing honestly. I still think Riley went way too far in dismissing genital preferences, but I still dont see why its impossible for someone to overlook a person's genitals if they're otherwise attracted... I'm not saying you have to take dick if u dont want to either.

Idk I don't like taking the middle ground but I think attraction is a mix of biological and cultural influences. Exercise bodily autonomy, but also dig a lil deeper. I dont think digging deeper means you must force yourself to like people you're not into like some people seem to apply...

Idk... I think this shit is hard to explain.

imma pretend i don't see this lel

if i find out someone who has shown interest in me, has a dick, then yeah, i wouldn't want to date that person at all. that's not overlooking someone's genitalia, that's just inherent sexual attraction (which isn't built on gender or gender expression). i'm a lesbian, i only like pussy. if that's a genital preference, that's bs.

Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then?

Doesnt that make her a trans guy?

Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:
imma pretend i don't see this lel

if i find out someone who has shown interest in me, has a dick, then yeah, i wouldn't want to date that person at all. that's not overlooking someone's genitalia, that's just inherent sexual attraction (which isn't built on gender or gender expression). i'm a lesbian, i only like pussy. if that's a genital preference, that's bs.

Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then?

then she's bi ... also "look past a penis" ??? either you're into it or not, and lesbians aren't into dick.

Ok but how can you be sure she even has contact with the penis? You dont know that

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Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then?

then she's bi ... also "look past a penis" ??? either you're into it or not, and lesbians aren't into dick.

Ok but how can you be sure she even has contact with the penis? You dont know that

if you're dating an mtf, then you're not a homosexual. and i've heard so many ppl try to guilt-trip lesbians into having sex w them by saying "you don't even have to touch it" ... dude no.

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Maxwell wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then?

then she's bi ... also "look past a penis" ??? either you're into it or not, and lesbians aren't into dick.

Ok but how can you be sure she even has contact with the penis? You dont know that

I hav no idea what yall r talkin abt but I cant stop laughin at havin contact w the penis

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World Famous

remains wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

acidreflux wrote:
imma pretend i don't see this lel

if i find out someone who has shown interest in me, has a dick, then yeah, i wouldn't want to date that person at all. that's not overlooking someone's genitalia, that's just inherent sexual attraction (which isn't built on gender or gender expression). i'm a lesbian, i only like pussy. if that's a genital preference, that's bs.

Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then?

then she's bi ... also "look past a penis" ??? either you're into it or not, and lesbians aren't into dick.

*trans lesbians dating other trans lesbians immediately disintegrate*

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bones wrote:

acidreflux wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
Which is fine!

But... if a lesbian who has only had a history of dating and being with cis women dates a transwoman, and can look past a penis like... do we have a right to say shes bisexual then?

then she's bi ... also "look past a penis" ??? either you're into it or not, and lesbians aren't into dick.

*trans lesbians dating other trans lesbians immediately disintegrate*

yeah because they don't exist