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Gothgirl
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Dani wrote:

Rot wrote:

Dani wrote:
ok i read some of it and if the kid was 8 when he was taken in by the dudes mother, and 5 years passes, hes like 12-13 and the age of concent is 12 in japan so technically its not pedophillia

Uh, did they lower it?? I thought the age of consent was 14

i think i read somewhere it was 12
so i could be wrong tho
idk
imm check it lel

ok so

The Japanese Penal Code sets a minimal age of consent of 13. However, the Children Welfare Act chapter 34 forbids any act of "fornication" (淫行) with children (here defined as anyone under 18 years of age).

so their love isnt forbidden but like, sex is

it has nothing to do with love
no abselutely not !

it's about inserting a power balance that weighs towards to abuser, so they feel powerful while gaining control over a "weaker " and more "naive" target, because they desire the power and control over another human being.

GENOS
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GENOS wrote:

creepinstall wrote:

GENOS wrote:
gUYS pedophilia is nOT OK
stop making it look like it's cute and fun!!!!! iTS NOT

litterally

should we report them? like for actually saying shit like that?

yes pls this is getting out of hand

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Star650 wrote:

Daniel wrote:

Star650 wrote:
Ugh I can't argue 😭😂 bye bye. I'll never stop loving the anime tho XP

also u said it was love so its healthy. just gonna drp this here

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So, today someone asked me (on the subject of pedophilia), “What if they love each other?” I’m guessing what they were trying to imply is that, if love is present, then it must be a healthy ship — which is wrong. You might be thinking, “What kinda mess?! Love = Healthy! Duh!”Welp, I’m here to tell you, loving each other ≠ a healthy relationship. You can love each other all you want, but sometimes love can be very desperate and dangerous. Which is unhealthy. If the kind of love you’re giving/receiving to/from someone is not stable then your relationship won’t be. If the shared love is toxic, the whole relationship is tainted. Anyway, back to my original point about pedophilia.There’s absolutelyno presence of love in relationships that practice pedophilia (especially if it’s a child/adult). None. Now, you shippers that support/ship pedophilia are probably really mad at me, which is fine. You’re emotions and opinions are invalid because you support child abuse. Who can really care about someone who does that? Not me.You need to know, that the older partner in your ship does not love the younger partner in said relationship, and the younger partner doesn’t know what romantic and sexual love is, but they think they do because they think that the older partner loves them. The reason why those kids think that they’re being genuinely loved is because only one person is “showing” it to them. That is a fact. How can you know the “love” you’re receiving is good or bad if you have no past experiences to compare? Those young children are being brainwashed into thinking their pedophiles’ lies are true. Which is very sad. Their vulnerability and innocence is being taken advantage of. They don’t know what’s going on! How do you expect them to?They’re children! If the older person loved that child, they would have never begun a relationship. It wouldn’t have been a thought. It would have nevercrossed their mind. If you love someone you want to protect them, right? I know I do. Those kids are not being protected. They’re being mentally, emotionally and physically abused. So, my answer to the original question was, “There is no love.”
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Dude. If Ren wants Haru and Haru wants Ren, and Ren never wanted a girl all those years without Haru, then it's not pedophilia but attachment with consent. It's a shounen ai so they'll never have sex and Haru will forever be punched until Ren consents. You need to chill and end this argument with me

it's no use since I don't care about the norm much less what ppl care about me. Fine, I'm gross. Don't quote me pls

bye

uuu yes it is?? its not normal for a 16 yo to be attracted to children in first place, that is fucking pedophilia. n please use their ages i have no idea of their names.

Private
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Troublemaker wrote:
just dropping this here

i don't think people who are watching those animes are actually searching for pedophilia or only watching because of that
or some of the reasons they're watching it

i think the reasons they're actually watching it is because of m/m and/or nice anime and the plot and all

but i get what you're saying, just don't think most people are actually like "PEDOPHILIA IS THE BEST" just because
they're watching it

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Daniel wrote:

Star650 wrote:

Daniel wrote:
also u said it was love so its healthy. just gonna drp this here

"

So, today someone asked me (on the subject of pedophilia), “What if they love each other?” I’m guessing what they were trying to imply is that, if love is present, then it must be a healthy ship — which is wrong. You might be thinking, “What kinda mess?! Love = Healthy! Duh!”Welp, I’m here to tell you, loving each other ≠ a healthy relationship. You can love each other all you want, but sometimes love can be very desperate and dangerous. Which is unhealthy. If the kind of love you’re giving/receiving to/from someone is not stable then your relationship won’t be. If the shared love is toxic, the whole relationship is tainted. Anyway, back to my original point about pedophilia.There’s absolutelyno presence of love in relationships that practice pedophilia (especially if it’s a child/adult). None. Now, you shippers that support/ship pedophilia are probably really mad at me, which is fine. You’re emotions and opinions are invalid because you support child abuse. Who can really care about someone who does that? Not me.You need to know, that the older partner in your ship does not love the younger partner in said relationship, and the younger partner doesn’t know what romantic and sexual love is, but they think they do because they think that the older partner loves them. The reason why those kids think that they’re being genuinely loved is because only one person is “showing” it to them. That is a fact. How can you know the “love” you’re receiving is good or bad if you have no past experiences to compare? Those young children are being brainwashed into thinking their pedophiles’ lies are true. Which is very sad. Their vulnerability and innocence is being taken advantage of. They don’t know what’s going on! How do you expect them to?They’re children! If the older person loved that child, they would have never begun a relationship. It wouldn’t have been a thought. It would have nevercrossed their mind. If you love someone you want to protect them, right? I know I do. Those kids are not being protected. They’re being mentally, emotionally and physically abused. So, my answer to the original question was, “There is no love.”
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Dude. If Ren wants Haru and Haru wants Ren, and Ren never wanted a girl all those years without Haru, then it's not pedophilia but attachment with consent. It's a shounen ai so they'll never have sex and Haru will forever be punched until Ren consents. You need to chill and end this argument with me

it's no use since I don't care about the norm much less what ppl care about me. Fine, I'm gross. Don't quote me pls

bye

uuu yes it is?? its not normal for a 16 yo to be attracted to children in first place, that is fucking pedophilia. n please use their ages i have no idea of their names.

and yes u are gross n think u r getting reported too or smth. dude pedophilia is not really ok in any form

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i gtg now bye

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Troublemaker wrote:
just dropping this here

i don't think people who are watching those animes are actually searching for pedophilia or only watching because of that
or some of the reasons they're watching it

i think the reasons they're actually watching it is because of m/m and/or nice anime and the plot and all

but i get what you're saying, just don't think most people are actually like "PEDOPHILIA IS THE BEST" just because
they're watching it

sure because no one gets turned on by pedophilia content. I mean there's no such thing as kiddy porn or w/e obviously

GENOS
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GENOS wrote:
okay some people get aroused by (faking) rape or pedophilia etc but you guys should understand that none of that should be accepted as something normal. some people/kids really get traumatisized by that and should not be seen as something cute and love and stuff it's disgusting

Gothgirl
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gothgirl wrote:

GENOS wrote:
okay some people get aroused by (faking) rape or pedophilia etc but you guys should understand that none of that should be accepted as something normal. some people/kids really get traumatisized by that and should not be seen as something cute and love and stuff it's disgusting

ugh all those fucking daddy/little girl dipshits

omg

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creepinstall wrote:

GENOS wrote:
okay some people get aroused by (faking) rape or pedophilia etc but you guys should understand that none of that should be accepted as something normal. some people/kids really get traumatisized by that and should not be seen as something cute and love and stuff it's disgusting

ugh all those fucking daddy/little girl dipshits

omg

as long as it's between consenting adults you should mind ur own business really (:

Gothgirl
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gothgirl wrote:

ButterflyCry wrote:

creepinstall wrote:

GENOS wrote:
okay some people get aroused by (faking) rape or pedophilia etc but you guys should understand that none of that should be accepted as something normal. some people/kids really get traumatisized by that and should not be seen as something cute and love and stuff it's disgusting

ugh all those fucking daddy/little girl dipshits

omg

as long as it's between consenting adults you should mind ur own business really (:

no i wont

Private
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Troublemaker wrote:

ButterflyCry wrote:

Troublemaker wrote:
just dropping this here

i don't think people who are watching those animes are actually searching for pedophilia or only watching because of that
or some of the reasons they're watching it

i think the reasons they're actually watching it is because of m/m and/or nice anime and the plot and all

but i get what you're saying, just don't think most people are actually like "PEDOPHILIA IS THE BEST" just because
they're watching it

sure because no one gets turned on by pedophilia content. I mean there's no such thing as kiddy porn or w/e obviously

okay i get what you're saying
but i don't think you get what i'm saying
some people aren't watching it just because of the pedophilia content. i know a lot of people who don't promote it, but still watch some of the animes.
and for the record, the laws about it isn't the same here as in japan. so people have different perspectives about it

i mean, someone who writes a manga that is about a 13 year old boy and a 18 year old boy may see it as okay
but we see it different, think about that too

Rot1
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Rot1 wrote:
Oops, missed a post.

Daniel wrote:
here is one too

"
As a teenager, you are growing and learning at a phenomenal pace. Month by
month you are becoming savvier, wiser, more socially equipped. That
rapid development continues into your 20s. So as a teenager, a big age
gap is a REALLY big age gap, because you are learning and changing so
much so quickly during that time.

It’s not totally about “maturity” though - it’s about power.As you get older, younger people start to look up to you. They might trust
you to know things you really don’t, because you’re older and you know
how to say stuff convincingly.

Getting older also means learning all the different ways people pressure or manipulate each other. Most of us are still learning about this stuff into our 20s - even if we’re
really smart and mature. Someone having a lot more of this knowledge
than the person they’re dating means the power in the relationship is
uneven, because the older person can pressure you in ways you can’t recognise or defend against.And I’m sure teenagers have noticed that if you get into a conflict with an adult, other people take the adult’s word over yours. Even if you’re right. Even if you need help.

So if you date an adult, that person has power over you that, even if they don’t try to use it, really does effect how the relationship works. There’s no way
to have a healthy relationship with that big a power difference, because
you can’t make choices the adult doesn’t like without worrying about
what they’ll think or do. You’ll end up in situations you’re uncomfortable with and not have the tools or social power you need to get out of them.The other piece is - adults who date teenagers are looking for something
they can’t get in their usual dating pool. For most adults, dating a
teenager wouldn’t even occur to them, because they understand how wrong
it would be. Adults have our own groups of friends, our own ways to meet
people our own age, and if an adult is flirting with kids they’re
looking for something they can’t get from someone who’s old enough to
catch on. The adults who seek out teenagers want someone they can pressure and manipulate. They’re looking for an abusive relationship, and like all abusers they’re
really sneaky about it at first - but they have the added advantage of
knowing tricks you haven’t had time to learn yet, as well as the
advantage of being listened to when you won’t be.Every smart, mature kid
feels older than their age at least some of the time. I know I did.
But being really smart and really mature doesn’t make you an adult - having had years and years of being around other people and learning
the little social things that you can’t get from books is part of it. Having the power of an adult - the freedom to come and go as you please, being listened to by the people around you - that’s the other part."

How can you read this much about something and be so plainly wrong? I like to understand what it is someone finds arousing even if I don't share their attraction. Scat disgusts me like nothing else, but I can theoretically understand why someone would find that hot. It's not true that all pedophiles seek only to manipulate easy targets. I've read that some are attracted to their hairlessness and certainly other aspects I didn't bother to remember. Post-pubertal bodies may be repulsing to some, and it's foolish to insist no one can be into something because you think it's wrong. It absolutely is wrong to act on those feelings, but it's foolish to claim all pedophiles are interested in children purely for the power trip.

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Troublemaker wrote:

ButterflyCry wrote:

Troublemaker wrote:
just dropping this here

i don't think people who are watching those animes are actually searching for pedophilia or only watching because of that
or some of the reasons they're watching it

i think the reasons they're actually watching it is because of m/m and/or nice anime and the plot and all

but i get what you're saying, just don't think most people are actually like "PEDOPHILIA IS THE BEST" just because
they're watching it

sure because no one gets turned on by pedophilia content. I mean there's no such thing as kiddy porn or w/e obviously

okay i get what you're saying
but i don't think you get what i'm saying
some people aren't watching it just because of the pedophilia content. i know a lot of people who don't promote it, but still watch some of the animes.
and for the record, the laws about it isn't the same here as in japan. so people have different perspectives about it

i mean, someone who writes a manga that is about a 13 year old boy and a 18 year old boy may see it as okay
but we see it different, think about that too

I know people might not be watching it for the fucked up relationship but honestly it's not okay to romanticize things like that.

Private
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Troublemaker wrote:

ButterflyCry wrote:

Troublemaker wrote:

ButterflyCry wrote:
sure because no one gets turned on by pedophilia content. I mean there's no such thing as kiddy porn or w/e obviously

okay i get what you're saying
but i don't think you get what i'm saying
some people aren't watching it just because of the pedophilia content. i know a lot of people who don't promote it, but still watch some of the animes.
and for the record, the laws about it isn't the same here as in japan. so people have different perspectives about it

i mean, someone who writes a manga that is about a 13 year old boy and a 18 year old boy may see it as okay
but we see it different, think about that too

I know people might not be watching it for the fucked up relationship but honestly it's not okay to romanticize things like that.

yeah, that's true.
but you didn't answer the other part i wrote.

forgot to add, i may be wrong about the ages but i do know that people around the world see it differently. have also heard that the laws are not the same as in my country, i may be wrong. i apologize if i am.