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Caramelia wrote:
kagura wrote:
idk if this counts person who lived with me for 3 years and was my best and basically only friend during that time cut me out of his life when i broke up with my ex. because he was my ex's friend first
and i'm still friend with my ex so i don't know what his problem was
but i still feel bad i miss him
wuuut that sounds odd? So you can't be friends just because you broke up with a person you both are close with? That's super childish. Like I get that he didn't want to become a part of the drama and be you guy's go-to gossiper when you want to talk about the other person. But still? Couldn't he just have put down some boundaries instead of choosing a friend over the other? 
It doesn't sound like you got off on the wrong foot, so maybe there's a chance of friendship again in the future? Also since you said you missed him? But I'm sure you'll find other people who are just as great or even greater than him. Someone who wouldn't choose between friends and just shit on the other one. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:12
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Caramelia wrote:
PRETTYRAVEGlRL wrote:
dude this gorl who i was BEST friends with in kindergarten............................ she didnt fucking invite me to her birthday party and i was like???? dude????????? 
woooow dude that's so rude of her?? wTf?!
She didn't deserve you. Bet you found some other cool kids to hang out with who had horses or shit you could ride on at their birthday parties
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:14
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Gilmore wrote:
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Had a best friend for 9 years
Then when we got to different schools when we were turning 16 she messaged me, calling me a bitch and telling me how I ruined her life and mental health and used her as a doormat but never truly explaining what I had done. I tried to convince her to see me face to face, but she didn't want to. She also took all my other friends with her since they all went to the same school except for me. She blocked me everywhere. For six months I tried, I sent her a message per month or so, explaining myself and trying to get answers - but she didn't want to give me any.

I truly loved her, and I admit I had REALLY bad teenage years, but I can promise y'all that I never wanted to ruin shit for her, idk what I did. It's been almost 3 years now and it still haunts me and I still love and miss her

I actually bumped on her here in VP but I doubt she knew who I was since she didn't block me.
also I'm still in therapy because of this, it rly broke me. Like, seriously. I have nightmares every night about her and my other ex friends. It really broke something
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:15
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Caramelia wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
On here-
We were cool until they didn't get accepted into ET, lool

Rl-
Yes, a few people who have tried for clout. We're cool now but a bitch never forgets. 
lol what, that's so petty. At least it probably brought a good laugh. That's kinda sad.

Forgive but never forget! Desperate for clout is just fucking weird, like i'm assuming you'll get it if you stand out in one way or the other enough? Who would want to follow a stale bish who only got famous because of her friends.
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:20
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Salem wrote:
the long story is too long
but the gist of it is that my friends p much grew up at my house like stayed over loads n we'd get totally fucked in my garage n I was always really giving despite not really having any money and they all disappeared when I was 17/18 n it just opened my eyes to what complete users they were lol. the kind of people who just take take take and then take off when you stop being as giving, made me question my worth as a person for a really long time n sent me back into my depression/anxiety/"how do I leave the house without wanting to die" spiral. only got one pal from back then left and I adore her but the rest of them like. makes me mad 2 think about but at the same time I'll always appreciate the time I had w them cos it was huge in terms of personal development for me and shit. got another friend I see like once a week-ish too but that's sorta it for me besides chatting to an old friend on fb for the past month. at the age where cos I don't have a job/I'm not in education it's rly hard to make friends and actually not feel super alone all the time soooo u know idk where I'm going with this except loneliness sucks but so do fake friends
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:20
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Caramelia wrote:
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I've been friends with her since 2nd grade, but another girl joined our group in 4th grade. 
I started showing pretty big signs of depression around 7th grade, and she would always make fun of it, and she even called me a "wrist violinist" multiple times (i never harmed my self tho, don't know where that came from). 
I always tried to be there when either of them had a problem, but everytime i had something with my family she would always dismis it.

Now she's uwu depressed and has blocked me and the other girl from her story on instagram
We don't really talk anymore, but me and the other girl are still really close (she's an angel)

Stg her and my family is the reason i have trust/abandonment issues
Wrist violinist? Seriously? Why would she joke about something so serious? Even if you didn't it's still making fun of your depression? Who does that? I get why people joke about their own depression n stuff, but it's too far to joke about another person's hardships. Definitely for the better that she blocked you. We can at least bless her for that. Not so much more. lol
I'm really happy to hear that you're good friends with the other girl though. You can probably both agree on how crazy the other girl was and stand together and talk about it. It's always nice to know that you're not the person who was in the wrong and getting that confirmed through others. 
Family is even more complicated than friends, but either way, if none of them treats you right, they ain't good enough for you. Blood runs thicker than water, but rivers run deeper. There will always be a family out there who is ready to accept and care about you more than your own blood. Imo, a lot of cultures has a weird view of family.  
 
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:37
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Caramelia wrote:
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i am the fake friend lol
At least you admit it, that's always something? Can't be THAT fake then? lol
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:39
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meilin wrote:
Blocked me after my suicide attempt because trying to kill yourself is selfish and "everybody has bad days sometimes"
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:45
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Gilmore wrote:
Gvaudoin wrote:
Blocked me after my suicide attempt because trying to kill yourself is selfish and "everybody has bad days sometimes"
wtf boo I'm so sorry. u deserve so much better. fuck them. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:47
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Caramelia wrote:
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Had this one friend I thought was really sweet and cute. Turns out she shared everything I ever told her to others and made fun of me and others behind mine and the others back. Her compliments were fake, her super positive way of being was fake and 90% of what she ever said was fake or not true. The one thing that made her into this was one argument or misunderstanding, depending how you'd see it. Didn't matter how much I apologized, she said she expected better from me. That I simply wasn't good enough apparently. Now when I know everything about her, I gotta say the same thing. I didn't expect this. I had my suspicions. But I never thought someone could be that pure evil. Can't believe I cared when she told me she might have covid. Can't believe I cared about her not getting home during lockdown. Can't believe I was so blind. Bet she is laughing about that as well, how blindly you can believe someone, or at least how I could.  
Aw, I'm so sorry to hear that. It's always scary how different some people can be when their mask falls off or when they suddenly don't need something from you anymore. It's like that loving facade was just to get something they really wanted. Heck, it could even be that they're too scared to actually show their true self, but that is no reason for them to suddenly treat anyone wrongly. I hope you find some better friends that you feel like you can trust. Trust can sometimes be earned too quickly when people want you to trust them. Which is why I personally don't really trust anyone I haven't known for years. I always try to keep a curious mind and figure out things myself. Find out information n stuff with my own self, instead of getting help from others. I know saying that you shouldn't trust is bad, but sometimes things can get very twisted very fast and believing one word over the other can really quickly turn something nice super bad. Kinda sidetracked there, but yeah, I'm really sorry to hear that. You sound like a person who has other good friends though, which makes me happy. At least you know someone is real. 
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Caramelia wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Why the trigger warning though 
Someone was talking about being triggered by the subject, but I think I misunderstood what they meant. So now the TW is just hanging
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:48
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meilin wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
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Blocked me after my suicide attempt because trying to kill yourself is selfish and "everybody has bad days sometimes"
wtf boo I'm so sorry. u deserve so much better. fuck them. 
ahhh I'm fine now, this was two years ago. But yes. Fuuuuuck them 😘
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Caramelia wrote:
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i am the fake friend lol
Lol same ig
Again, at least you admit it! Imo I don't think a bad friend would be able to admit it. Maybe you guys just have some issues you need to solve too, which can make you feel like a shitty friend for a while. Communication is always key
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:50
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Gilmore wrote:
also thanking u for making this topic it rly helps seeing that ppl are not alone with this bs. 

uwu
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:54
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cult wrote:
One of my worst experiences happened a few years ago on my bday. we had a tradition in our friendgroup that when someone had their bday we'd surprise them with a party, right

(let me just add we were 15-16)

the night before my party they blew the surprise when a girl said her mom only let her buy one vodka bottle for my party (instead of 2-3)  and like three people WENT OFf on her. I told them it was fine like bet it'll be so much fun anyway but they were MAD so i ended up fighting them cus they treated the girl rlly bad

next day they still celebrate my bday. Without me lol. They sent me pics of the cake, balloons and them hanging out having fun. Even the girl i defended came lol
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