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devilcake wrote:
Evey wrote:
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the cool uncle sounds better than parent but i still feel like it would have to be a Decent kid, and idk how many are that . like, 5 %?
Mmm I actually trust that my brother will do a decent job turning them into an acceptable kid, a lot of it’s just based on parenting I feel like

and if they’re awful I will simply not baby sit, n I’ll be weird distant uncle
sounds like a good approach

i feel like parenting is a big part of it but some kids are just vicious
and some end up shy and not that annoying
like russian roulette
Yeah I think my parents were probably not doing the best thing all of the time n they just got lucky getting me n my brother who were very chill, then we have my aunt who’s an amazing day care teacher but got my hell gremlin cousins

but it’s also a lot about how the parents deal with getting whatever personality the kid ended up having, like if the parent understands how to help the annoying kid the kids gonna be less annoying shshshsh
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wug wrote:
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ur point of view is refreshing
to be fair i probably have a legit child phobia because i get chills when i hear or see kids i'm like oof horrifying i need to escape 
i'm like that with 95% of kids, and 99,9% of teenagers
all my life i've been scared of teenagers, even when i was one, they're the most dangerous thing in the world 
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devilcake wrote:
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the dangers of having heterosexual friends it's like oh no they could have accidents and keep them and terrorise you with their mistakes and it's like lol i don't care what your offspring is doing i'm not going to pretend like i care about theatre i don't i hate everything 
Luckily my hetero friend in a relationship has always been kid hater so I’m hoping it stays that way
i think my hetero friends or .. friends who occasionally or prefer to date members of the opposite sex are generally positive towards having kids but it's like.. : |
i don't think i could drop my best friend if she got a kid like we've been friends since we were 7 it would be unreasonable but i hope she won't become one of those awful people who are like look at baby photo 
If uve ben friends for that long she’ll probably understand if you set boundaries with the kid stuff tbh

or who knows some parents seem to lose all grip on reality rip
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Evey wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Evey wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Mmm I actually trust that my brother will do a decent job turning them into an acceptable kid, a lot of it’s just based on parenting I feel like

and if they’re awful I will simply not baby sit, n I’ll be weird distant uncle
sounds like a good approach

i feel like parenting is a big part of it but some kids are just vicious
and some end up shy and not that annoying
like russian roulette
Yeah I think my parents were probably not doing the best thing all of the time n they just got lucky getting me n my brother who were very chill, then we have my aunt who’s an amazing day care teacher but got my hell gremlin cousins

but it’s also a lot about how the parents deal with getting whatever personality the kid ended up having, like if the parent understands how to help the annoying kid the kids gonna be less annoying shshshsh
pahahaha yeah good points

i just feel like the possibility of getting a baby with colic alone is reason enough to never ever go through with it
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Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
to be fair i probably have a legit child phobia because i get chills when i hear or see kids i'm like oof horrifying i need to escape 
i'm like that with 95% of kids, and 99,9% of teenagers
all my life i've been scared of teenagers, even when i was one, they're the most dangerous thing in the world 
they make me wanna hit them or run away no in between
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devilcake wrote:
Evey wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Evey wrote:
sounds like a good approach

i feel like parenting is a big part of it but some kids are just vicious
and some end up shy and not that annoying
like russian roulette
Yeah I think my parents were probably not doing the best thing all of the time n they just got lucky getting me n my brother who were very chill, then we have my aunt who’s an amazing day care teacher but got my hell gremlin cousins

but it’s also a lot about how the parents deal with getting whatever personality the kid ended up having, like if the parent understands how to help the annoying kid the kids gonna be less annoying shshshsh
pahahaha yeah good points

i just feel like the possibility of getting a baby with colic alone is reason enough to never ever go through with it
I feel like the possibility of getting a baby full stop is reason enough to never go through with it
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wug wrote:
devilcake wrote:
wug wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Luckily my hetero friend in a relationship has always been kid hater so I’m hoping it stays that way
i think my hetero friends or .. friends who occasionally or prefer to date members of the opposite sex are generally positive towards having kids but it's like.. : |
i don't think i could drop my best friend if she got a kid like we've been friends since we were 7 it would be unreasonable but i hope she won't become one of those awful people who are like look at baby photo 
If uve ben friends for that long she’ll probably understand if you set boundaries with the kid stuff tbh

or who knows some parents seem to lose all grip on reality rip
i think we know each other very well so i don't think she's going to be a cunt about it, and obviously i wouldn't be either. i'd be like :          ) haha yes 
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Evey wrote:
devilcake wrote:
wug wrote:
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Luckily my hetero friend in a relationship has always been kid hater so I’m hoping it stays that way
i think my hetero friends or .. friends who occasionally or prefer to date members of the opposite sex are generally positive towards having kids but it's like.. : |
i don't think i could drop my best friend if she got a kid like we've been friends since we were 7 it would be unreasonable but i hope she won't become one of those awful people who are like look at baby photo 
If uve ben friends for that long she’ll probably understand if you set boundaries with the kid stuff tbh

or who knows some parents seem to lose all grip on reality rip
i think parents are just fucking crazy tbh
like the "go above and beyond" mentality where they can't see reality clearly at ALL when it concerns their kid
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Imagine wanting to throw all your free time and money away just to have a child I don’t get it
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Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
devilcake wrote:
wug wrote:
i think my hetero friends or .. friends who occasionally or prefer to date members of the opposite sex are generally positive towards having kids but it's like.. : |
i don't think i could drop my best friend if she got a kid like we've been friends since we were 7 it would be unreasonable but i hope she won't become one of those awful people who are like look at baby photo 
If uve ben friends for that long she’ll probably understand if you set boundaries with the kid stuff tbh

or who knows some parents seem to lose all grip on reality rip
i think we know each other very well so i don't think she's going to be a cunt about it, and obviously i wouldn't be either. i'd be like :          ) haha yes 
i don't think i know of any friend that is actually like No i won't have kids

so this might be a big issue for me in 10 years
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wug wrote:
Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
Evey wrote:
i'm like that with 95% of kids, and 99,9% of teenagers
all my life i've been scared of teenagers, even when i was one, they're the most dangerous thing in the world 
they make me wanna hit them or run away no in between
i tense up and i think they can tell, but only if they're in groups. on tuesday some teen at the store asked if i could pay and he could vippse (like .. swish????) for it and i was like sure whatever 
he even gave me his phone so i could write my number and the amount and all so that's fine
but if they had been more than 1?? awful, horrifying, a crime 
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Imagine wanting to throw all your free time and money away just to have a child I don’t get it
and thinking that you're obviously doing what's Right and everybody else are Missing out for sure like
make it make sense
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Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
all my life i've been scared of teenagers, even when i was one, they're the most dangerous thing in the world 
they make me wanna hit them or run away no in between
i tense up and i think they can tell, but only if they're in groups. on tuesday some teen at the store asked if i could pay and he could vippse (like .. swish????) for it and i was like sure whatever 
he even gave me his phone so i could write my number and the amount and all so that's fine
but if they had been more than 1?? awful, horrifying, a crime 
i get super surprised when i meet actually nice teenagers and kids
like damn where did u come from even .
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Date: 09-12-2022 23:25
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wug wrote:
Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
devilcake wrote:
If uve ben friends for that long she’ll probably understand if you set boundaries with the kid stuff tbh

or who knows some parents seem to lose all grip on reality rip
i think we know each other very well so i don't think she's going to be a cunt about it, and obviously i wouldn't be either. i'd be like :          ) haha yes 
i don't think i know of any friend that is actually like No i won't have kids

so this might be a big issue for me in 10 years
i think my gay/lesbian friends are very uninterested in having kids, although one of them was almost changing her mind when she was in a relationship with someone who wanted kids 
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Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
Evey wrote:
wug wrote:
i think we know each other very well so i don't think she's going to be a cunt about it, and obviously i wouldn't be either. i'd be like :          ) haha yes 
i don't think i know of any friend that is actually like No i won't have kids

so this might be a big issue for me in 10 years
i think my gay/lesbian friends are very uninterested in having kids, although one of them was almost changing her mind when she was in a relationship with someone who wanted kids 
why does getting into a relationship make you fucking insane
aAAAAAA
i hate hormones
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Date: 09-12-2022 23:26
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