Arthema wrote:devilcake wrote:
Its such an overlapping identity some people are just gonna pick one because they like the word for reasons that dont really make sense tbh
imo it doesnt make sense to have like strong preferences based on gender attraction If ur pan, but could still have preferences based on past experiences ig
I see,
I never knew what to label myself as especially after overcoming trauma n such
but it is good to know that, I think I agree with this view n opinion
I do know that my preferences are not gender-based at least but I do not think I'd be using a label? maybe pan fits more but I'm comfy just doing what I did before
thank u for the insight
Nw, like at the end of the day its a bit whatever what exactly what label means, by text book definitions im bisexual but i dont rly claim it atm cos it just dun feel right