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Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
disintegration wrote:
i think cis people have a hard time understanding gender because their sex and gender match so they never had to think about why they feel like the gender they are or why not.
but thats what i find offensive because i dont have any gender by your standards
i just dont like the labels
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:06
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Pavlov wrote:
Rosa wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
but i mean obviously people who are agender percieve gender differently than me, thats kinda the problem there is kinda a cultural gap there
Where's the problem? 
that its hard to see eye to eye, like how some countries percieve handshaking women to be offensive, and then you have to live somewhere where not handshaking women is sexist
at the end of the day you should accept the other culture right, and it's kinda hard to compare culture to something like gender discussion lol
Date: 03-07-2020 18:06
BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
By gender, I mean gender roles or what females and males are supposed to behave/be. Females are supposed to be feminine and males are supposed to be masculine. 
Since I'm a masculine female, I do not go by the gender that was imposed to me
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:07
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
Ozeana wrote:

About the nonbinary spectrum twitter.com/GalacticJonah/status/1277648104427335685?s=20

Genderbread https://www.genderbread.org/

https://www.genderbread.org/explainers

my gender identity is a person, my sexual orientation is whatever i find attractive, my biological sex is female and my gender expression is whatever i find aesthetically pleasing
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:08 | Times changed: 1
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Koolaid wrote:
i dont really understand it either but whatever, i feel like a lot of these things only exist online. i've never seen someone in real life identify as demigender or somethign
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:09
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wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
disintegration wrote:
i think cis people have a hard time understanding gender because their sex and gender match so they never had to think about why they feel like the gender they are or why not.
but thats what i find offensive because i dont have any gender by your standards
i just dont like the labels

so you don't like called being a cis women for example? why does that make you uncomfortable?

i understand that you have perceived yourself as normal, something that doesn't need a label because it's the norm and just the 'abnormal' need labels to describe how they differ from the norm, but that perspective is harmful to people who exist in the margins
Date: 03-07-2020 18:09
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Arthema wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
disintegration wrote:
i think cis people have a hard time understanding gender because their sex and gender match so they never had to think about why they feel like the gender they are or why not.
but thats what i find offensive because i dont have any gender by your standards

but you do have one? it's also your choice to identify as what YOU feel like
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:10
Meep
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Meep wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
i dont really understand it either but whatever, i feel like a lot of these things only exist online. i've never seen someone in real life identify as demigender or somethign
Yees
or i know two people that are they/them, but thats it
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uhyre wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
i dont really understand it either but whatever, i feel like a lot of these things only exist online. i've never seen someone in real life identify as demigender or somethign
i know plenty they r real ppl trust me
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:10
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
but thats what i find offensive because i dont have any gender by your standards
i just dont like the labels

so you don't like called being a cis women for example? why does that make you uncomfortable?

i understand that you have perceived yourself as normal, something that doesn't need a label because it's the norm and just the 'abnormal' need labels to describe how they differ from the norm, but that perspective is harmful to people who exist in the margins
no its that i never percieved myself by my biological sex, my biological sex is the furthest thing in my mind, i just want to look acceptable for a female thats my only requirement
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Arthema wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
disintegration wrote:
i think cis people have a hard time understanding gender because their sex and gender match so they never had to think about why they feel like the gender they are or why not.
but thats what i find offensive because i dont have any gender by your standards
i just dont like the labels
you don't have to use em
I do the same
when ppl ask for my sexual orientation
I just say whatever I find attractive
and it's okay
u don't have to have a name to everything u feel
just feel it, and don't deny it
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:11
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Meep wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
i dont really understand it either but whatever, i feel like a lot of these things only exist online. i've never seen someone in real life identify as demigender or somethign
Yees
or i know two people that are they/them, but thats it
wud like to add my view on this

i think it only exists online bc they are aware ppl irl wouldn't take them seriously i think.. being trans irl is easier than being NB irl bc ppl will understand being transgender much easier

thas what i think, but correct me if i'm wrong
Date: 03-07-2020 18:11
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Koolaid wrote:
but what about things such as demisexual? i genuinely don't think that's a real sexuality. and i feel that sentiment could be extended to some genders too.
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:12
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also no one is forcing anyone to use labels, but the very very very least you could do is just respect it, or ignore their existence
Date: 03-07-2020 18:12
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