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Limited wrote:
she hacked my gsm account and she spread fake rumors about me because her own reputation was like shit 
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Date: 27-08-2020 21:57
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Caramelia wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Had a best friend for 9 years
Then when we got to different schools when we were turning 16 she messaged me, calling me a bitch and telling me how I ruined her life and mental health and used her as a doormat but never truly explaining what I had done. I tried to convince her to see me face to face, but she didn't want to. She also took all my other friends with her since they all went to the same school except for me. She blocked me everywhere. For six months I tried, I sent her a message per month or so, explaining myself and trying to get answers - but she didn't want to give me any.

I truly loved her, and I admit I had REALLY bad teenage years, but I can promise y'all that I never wanted to ruin shit for her, idk what I did. It's been almost 3 years now and it still haunts me and I still love and miss her

I actually bumped on her here in VP but I doubt she knew who I was since she didn't block me.
So basically, you were a bitch, because you weren't feeling well yourself? Why wouldn't she have said something sooner instead of letting it get to her so much? I've been in a similar situation recently, where I also kept some things in, but at least I let my friend know about it before it all went to hell? She sounds incredibly immature and even if you had done something to make her feel worse or something, it still gives her absolutely no right to talk bad about you and make your mutual friends side with her. That is one of the bitchiest moves. To me, it all just sounded like an excuse to get rid of you somehow? Maybe she got jealous of you and didn't want to admit it? Jealousy can really fuck a lot of things up and I'm just assuming that's the case somehow in this since she didn't even want to talk about it. Either way, it was really fucked of her. Some friendships are just not meant to last. You might have a ton of amazing memories with her that you miss, but you'll make a trillion ton just as amazing memories with other people. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 22:04
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Caramelia wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Had a best friend for 9 years
Then when we got to different schools when we were turning 16 she messaged me, calling me a bitch and telling me how I ruined her life and mental health and used her as a doormat but never truly explaining what I had done. I tried to convince her to see me face to face, but she didn't want to. She also took all my other friends with her since they all went to the same school except for me. She blocked me everywhere. For six months I tried, I sent her a message per month or so, explaining myself and trying to get answers - but she didn't want to give me any.

I truly loved her, and I admit I had REALLY bad teenage years, but I can promise y'all that I never wanted to ruin shit for her, idk what I did. It's been almost 3 years now and it still haunts me and I still love and miss her

I actually bumped on her here in VP but I doubt she knew who I was since she didn't block me.
also I'm still in therapy because of this, it rly broke me. Like, seriously. I have nightmares every night about her and my other ex friends. It really broke something
nooooo, don't let her affect you like that. You're so much better off without them. 
When I say your situation sounds a lot like one I went through in high school, I really mean it. And you WILL get better friends and you WILL get fixed again. You WILL find happiness and trust again. It fucking hurts, but just try to look at it as an experience you've learned a lot from. Don't let some fake bitches bring you down like that. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 22:08
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Gilmore wrote:
Fayy wrote:

So basically, you were a bitch, because you weren't feeling well yourself? Why wouldn't she have said something sooner instead of letting it get to her so much? I've been in a similar situation recently, where I also kept some things in, but at least I let my friend know about it before it all went to hell? She sounds incredibly immature and even if you had done something to make her feel worse or something, it still gives her absolutely no right to talk bad about you and make your mutual friends side with her. That is one of the bitchiest moves. To me, it all just sounded like an excuse to get rid of you somehow? Maybe she got jealous of you and didn't want to admit it? Jealousy can really fuck a lot of things up and I'm just assuming that's the case somehow in this since she didn't even want to talk about it. Either way, it was really fucked of her. Some friendships are just not meant to last. You might have a ton of amazing memories with her that you miss, but you'll make a trillion ton just as amazing memories with other people. 

Thanks, really. Although it's been years I still feel like she was the one for me, but I agree on the immature part. 
I was always asking her if anything was wrong, always saying she could talk to me about everything etc (she was rly shy on sharing her problems since she had a lot of crap at home etc) so how the hell did I treat her badly, huh?? I still can't rly wrap my head around it. I had a temper but I always apologised and made sure we're cool. I was a fucking great friend and it destroys me that she isn't in my life anymore because I know I will never have that kind of connection with anyone ever again, fake or not

And I'll never have answers ugh
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Date: 27-08-2020 22:09
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luminescence wrote:
I could open up but I don’t wanna ruin my mood, maybe tomorrow
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Date: 27-08-2020 22:15
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Caramelia wrote:
Salem wrote:
the long story is too long
but the gist of it is that my friends p much grew up at my house like stayed over loads n we'd get totally fucked in my garage n I was always really giving despite not really having any money and they all disappeared when I was 17/18 n it just opened my eyes to what complete users they were lol. the kind of people who just take take take and then take off when you stop being as giving, made me question my worth as a person for a really long time n sent me back into my depression/anxiety/"how do I leave the house without wanting to die" spiral. only got one pal from back then left and I adore her but the rest of them like. makes me mad 2 think about but at the same time I'll always appreciate the time I had w them cos it was huge in terms of personal development for me and shit. got another friend I see like once a week-ish too but that's sorta it for me besides chatting to an old friend on fb for the past month. at the age where cos I don't have a job/I'm not in education it's rly hard to make friends and actually not feel super alone all the time soooo u know idk where I'm going with this except loneliness sucks but so do fake friends
Ughr, people like that are so draining. I'm just happy to hear that you at least got a tiny itty bitty something out of their friendship yourself. It's such a shame that they took advantage of your generousness instead of appreciating it and be thankful. Just shitty of them. 
Having one friend you see once a week is indeed so much better than being alone or having to hang out with a ton of toxic/fake friends. Maybe you will even come to enjoy your own company a lot, maybe even so much that you won't feel lonely anymore. You'll find some randomly, be it over the internet, a game, an app even maybe something as random as a supermarket. It's just all about being open for friendships. Even ones you don't expect. Even quick friendship or like a coffee or something with someone once a week can do a lot. You'll find someone who doesn't want you for your money or your time, but someone who wants to spend THEIR time with you and use their money WITH you. Best of luck!
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Date: 27-08-2020 22:40
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Caramelia wrote:
Gvaudoin wrote:
Blocked me after my suicide attempt because trying to kill yourself is selfish and "everybody has bad days sometimes"
Kinda TW for the ones who doesn't like to read about depression n stuff


bruh...
Shitty people can just really not be other than shitty. 
Where's the fucking support. It isn't just "bad days", reeeeee. What a cunt. 
Suicide might be selfish from other peoples perspective, but the person who's going through it thinks it's even more selfish to be alive. It's just a big fat bad circle. I can't believe she just said that and blocked you. 
Glad she fucked off so you can hang and meet better people. geez
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Date: 27-08-2020 22:47
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Caramelia wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
also thanking u for making this topic it rly helps seeing that ppl are not alone with this bs. 

uwu
Yeah, it's shocking to see how many have been through shit like this. I'm glad the thread is helping, heck it's even helping me right now haha. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 22:48
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Caramelia wrote:
cult wrote:
One of my worst experiences happened a few years ago on my bday. we had a tradition in our friendgroup that when someone had their bday we'd surprise them with a party, right

(let me just add we were 15-16)

the night before my party they blew the surprise when a girl said her mom only let her buy one vodka bottle for my party (instead of 2-3)  and like three people WENT OFf on her. I told them it was fine like bet it'll be so much fun anyway but they were MAD so i ended up fighting them cus they treated the girl rlly bad

next day they still celebrate my bday. Without me lol. They sent me pics of the cake, balloons and them hanging out having fun. Even the girl i defended came lol
lol wat, yo it's vodka? How fucking important can two missing bottles be? jajaja Shallow bishes
Kudos to you for standing up for your friend though, I respect that so much. That's how it should be. The fact that she then also decides to party without you is just ?????? Where's the gratitude? Like I know she doesn't owe you because she didn't ask you to defend her, but still?? How can she not be thankful? I think I would cry if my friend stood up for me in a situation like that. They're really missing out on an amazing friend, but Ig some people would rather have booze than real people around them. Sad 
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Date: 27-08-2020 23:07
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Caramelia wrote:
Limited wrote:
she hacked my gsm account and she spread fake rumors about me because her own reputation was like shit 
Oh, that's a big fucking yikes. Did she at least get a lot of shit for it? 
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Date: 27-08-2020 23:07
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Caramelia wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Fayy wrote:

So basically, you were a bitch, because you weren't feeling well yourself? Why wouldn't she have said something sooner instead of letting it get to her so much? I've been in a similar situation recently, where I also kept some things in, but at least I let my friend know about it before it all went to hell? She sounds incredibly immature and even if you had done something to make her feel worse or something, it still gives her absolutely no right to talk bad about you and make your mutual friends side with her. That is one of the bitchiest moves. To me, it all just sounded like an excuse to get rid of you somehow? Maybe she got jealous of you and didn't want to admit it? Jealousy can really fuck a lot of things up and I'm just assuming that's the case somehow in this since she didn't even want to talk about it. Either way, it was really fucked of her. Some friendships are just not meant to last. You might have a ton of amazing memories with her that you miss, but you'll make a trillion ton just as amazing memories with other people. 

Thanks, really. Although it's been years I still feel like she was the one for me, but I agree on the immature part. 
I was always asking her if anything was wrong, always saying she could talk to me about everything etc (she was rly shy on sharing her problems since she had a lot of crap at home etc) so how the hell did I treat her badly, huh?? I still can't rly wrap my head around it. I had a temper but I always apologised and made sure we're cool. I was a fucking great friend and it destroys me that she isn't in my life anymore because I know I will never have that kind of connection with anyone ever again, fake or not

And I'll never have answers ugh
Yeah, the worst part is probably not getting answers. You'll never know if you actually did something that triggered her, if it was just a lot of small situations that built up over time or if it was actually in fact because she's just the shittiest person. 

I know my best friend's old best friend and her had an extremely close friendship and one day after someone close in the family died her best friend didn't want to have anything to do with her anymore, so she just cut all contact and basically ghosted her for months if not years. She then met me, and (I would like to think) our friendship is even more amazing than her old one. Or so she has said multiple times. So yeah, my lil story here is just to tell you that even if you don't believe it and feel like you'll never meet anyone as amazing, I can almost guarantee that you will. I know that saying "there's plenty of fish in the sea" is kinda corny and cringe, but we're soon 8 billion people. Apparently a couple of them is your doppelgängers, so what are the chances that you won't find someone who's more amazing than her? Prolly a lot less likely than the doppelgänger part. lmao
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Date: 27-08-2020 23:19
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Caramelia wrote:
luminescence wrote:
I could open up but I don’t wanna ruin my mood, maybe tomorrow
Yeah, would be a shame if you're in a good mood. The forum will be open forever, but I'm quitting again tomorrow night, so if I don't reply that's probably the reason. Feel free to share with others though. It feels amazing to just get it out. 
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Date: 27-08-2020 23:21
Bug
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Bug wrote:
Lol I dont even have friends
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Date: 27-08-2020 23:22
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Bug wrote:
Or well this one time this "friend" i had at school said blue hair would suit me, then i dyed it blue... and I ended up looking like a blowu p doll
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Date: 27-08-2020 23:23
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Caramelia wrote:
Sod wrote:
Or well this one time this "friend" i had at school said blue hair would suit me, then i dyed it blue... and I ended up looking like a blowu p doll
lol, oh no
Maybe they just had a really shitty taste? lmao
Thank you for reminding me never to colour my hair in an unnatural colour. I would prolly look like a blowup doll as well jajajaj
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Date: 27-08-2020 23:26
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