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ouch wrote:
kalypso wrote:
ouch wrote:
kalypso wrote:
I dont know it's probably bc of my pan mindset this 
Yeah, I wouldn't like someone if they suddenly changed their genitals/whole appearance like idk, its just not for me 
that is also fair, but i still think is up to the person whatever they wanna call them, if that is being str8 too 
Yeah I just think its strange like, kinda diminishing to the trans person cus by calling urself straight u make it sound like u only like the opposite sex, n by that notion the person ur dating is still kind of their birth sex , u get
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wuwu wrote:
labels suck ass and i don’t see how it would change anything about the person
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kalypso wrote:
ouch wrote:
kalypso wrote:
ouch wrote:
Don't think so, which is why detransitioners often struggle cus they are still stuck in a body they don't want or doesn't fit them 
okay, then i see the problem, but i think yes to hormone blockers before 18 then 
Yeah, tho I think its easier for the body to go male-female-male than woman-male n then woman again 
have no idea about that tho, but mby yes 
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Six wrote:
i'm not a soup can, don't label me!
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kalypso wrote:
Six wrote:
i'm not a soup can, don't label me!
lmao six
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junogunpop wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
is it still considered straight if u date people who dont consider themself the opposite gender of u

non-binary person weighing in! i'm afab, and my boyfriend is actually straight haha

i have a tendency to date straight men, which would get complicated because even though they knew i was non-binary, i felt they still looked at me as female.

that definitely changed when i met my current boyfriend. he says he's straight, he likes women, while he fully acknowledges my identity in our relationship, and outside of it, too. i can't speak for him, but what i do know is he loves me in all aspects, and for that to be true he'd have to be flexible in his orientation to some extent. 
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Vintergatan wrote:
Vintergatan wrote:
i would, as long as they don't physically change
after thinking more abt this, i change my answer to no
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You people seem to care so much about whether a person is trans or not and what it means for your own sexuality but are still uninformed as hell, how did this happen lol.
Date: 25-02-2021 13:17
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Babybel wrote:
well my bf is some place in the middel of female and male, but he only uses he/him pronounces
i still love him with all my heart
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hungover wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
would a lesbian still date someone if they came out as a man

Some would, some wouldn't.
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Melody wrote:
junogunpop wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
is it still considered straight if u date people who dont consider themself the opposite gender of u

non-binary person weighing in! i'm afab, and my boyfriend is actually straight haha

i have a tendency to date straight men, which would get complicated because even though they knew i was non-binary, i felt they still looked at me as female.

that definitely changed when i met my current boyfriend. he says he's straight, he likes women, while he fully acknowledges my identity in our relationship, and outside of it, too. i can't speak for him, but what i do know is he loves me in all aspects, and for that to be true he'd have to be flexible in his orientation to some extent. 

so glad u feel u can trust ur bf! fellow afab enby here
bein' enby kinda sucks ngl, i'm bi, yet feel like either cis straight peeps or cis gay peeps couldn't love me for who i am, 'cause ultimately, people think about bodies n like,, ugh, shit's too complicated
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Date: 25-02-2021 13:47
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Samfie wrote:
This question is obvi not ment for me, cause I can in no way, shape or form identify as hetero lmao

But to answer your question; I think it is mostly a matter of respect? You know, you know that person -you love that person, hopefully for who they are as. a. person.. So, yes?

And a little something not relatable at all for the heteros:
♥ My FIRST boyfriend identify as a girl, and I honestly think he'd probably transition to a girl/woman at some point with enough love and support (I love him, but we're currently not together because I ran away a few years ago due to me being too young).
♥ My SECOND boyfriend is hetero -and it was unbearable -he was so condescending towards lgbtq+ (not saying everyone is like that tho).. [he is also a sociopath tho]
♥ The boy I'm SEEING NOW identify as a male (he's told me himself), but I get the feeling he also might identify as a girl at least to some degree. We fangirl over dresses together, and talk about fashion breaking gender roles, we're planning on going out together while crossdressing and so on.. His TikTok bio has the transgender symbol, but I don't know what that's supposed to mean tbh.. Idk if he's formerly been a girl, or if he wants to be a girl -oh well, I guess he'll tell me soon enough, when he is ready and feels comfortable

POINT IS -wouldn't it be so much better if one could just love someone solely because of their personality, soul, ideologies, opinions etc?

I see a pattern here myself, as I apparently tend to be drawn towards more feminine men I guess (and I'm pretty feminine myself lmao). My friends always jokes about it, like why wouldn't I just be together with a girl then -and honestly I wouldn't mind but I just so happened to meet those wonderful guys (not counting my second boyfriend -and I'd rather forget he ever existed)!
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Samfie wrote:
Six wrote:
i'm not a soup can, don't label me!
♥
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Versailles wrote:
I'd be uncomfortable if my 35 y/o bf would question/change his gender after these years he lived and in relationship with me. I'd be open minded to call my bf by they/them... but  if there's major personality/style and cosmetic surgery would be a dealbreaker for me in relationship, but i'd support any decisions which makes him happy. 
In longterm commited relationship it's important for me that I know & secure who my partner is. I don't deal with big changes very well - but if it's like they/them usage without further changes in behaviour/looks/interest it's np.
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Vintergatan wrote:
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You people seem to care so much about whether a person is trans or not and what it means for your own sexuality but are still uninformed as hell, how did this happen lol.
there's nothing wrong with having preferences, you can't force attraction if it's not there
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