ArianaGrande wrote:
parenting is so hard and nobody can do it perfectly.. so long as you try your best and are self aware i suppose.. and just do what u can for their self esteem i feel like that's the basis of the human experience, if u got decent self esteem then the rest falls in place
concertsrule wrote:
yeah i think that's natural hmm wrote:
i think what really makes a parent is being able to work with those issues in whatever way necessary, sadly nobody's perfectly mentally healthy from birth
hmmmm yeah, now im wondering if me not fully understanding what my hypothetical kid is going thru would be better than knowing what they are probably going thru. im thinking the former since if my bio kid starts behaving like me when i was a kid or smth like that i think i would probably freak out and maybe push too hard to know how i could help. concertsrule wrote:
damn now i'm thinking about if i have bio kids they would probably inherit all my shitty shitty hereditary mental issues, not gonna put a kid thru that. like obvi i would be there for them but if they are like me they'd not really seek anyone out to talk about it.. sucks. yeah adopted is the way
it's possible that they'd have issues toodamn now i'm thinking about if i have bio kids they would probably inherit all my shitty shitty hereditary mental issues, not gonna put a kid thru that. like obvi i would be there for them but if they are like me they'd not really seek anyone out to talk about it.. sucks. yeah adopted is the way
i think what really makes a parent is being able to work with those issues in whatever way necessary, sadly nobody's perfectly mentally healthy from birth
