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concertsrule wrote:
hmm wrote:
concertsrule wrote:
damn now i'm thinking about if i have bio kids they would probably inherit all my shitty shitty hereditary mental issues, not gonna put a kid thru that. like obvi i would be there for them but if they are like me they'd not really seek anyone out to talk about it.. sucks. yeah adopted is the way 
it's possible that they'd have issues too

i think what really makes a parent is being able to work with those issues in whatever way necessary, sadly nobody's perfectly mentally healthy from birth
hmmmm yeah, now im wondering if me not fully understanding what my hypothetical kid is going thru would be better than knowing what they are probably going thru. im thinking the former since if my bio kid starts behaving like me when i was a kid or smth like that i think i would probably freak out and maybe push too hard to know how i could help. 
yeah i think that's natural  parenting is so hard and nobody can do it perfectly.. so long as you try your best and are self aware i suppose.. and just do what u can for their self esteem i feel like that's the basis of the human experience, if u got decent self esteem then the rest falls in place
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i also think that a lot of our generations parenting styles would be very different compared to generations before. Esp being more aware of mental health and having to deal with it on our own. Future kids will hopefully have more rescources to talk about this openly with their parents/friends or have parents who have experienced it as well
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bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
bexxi wrote:
shes gonna have our vp baby and we can all be the crazy kooky aunts and uncles @kruspersille 
get to work
hey i already assigned u guys for that smh 
who is "you guys"
all of vp! i assigned u guys as aunts n uncles to my future baby earlier in the chat 
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bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I think the like wanting to adopt to avoid your own mental problems being passed fown can also be like a guilt thing like, if you’re adopting you didn’t cause the issues, not that you do just bc you have rhatbin your genetics either but I can get how it would feel that way
adopted children often have so much trauma tho so like. u still end of with a child that has issues that need to be addressed by a professional
Yes, but then it’s sorta like, you’re helping a child who was put in a rough position by someone else or smth. But like using adoption or fostering to avoid mental health issues or physical issues too tbh doesn’t make sense yes cos yeah those kids usually end up with those problems anyways *looks at my siblings*
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lain wrote:
bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
hey i already assigned u guys for that smh 
who is "you guys"
all of vp! i assigned u guys as aunts n uncles to my future baby earlier in the chat 
ohh! will you do a big vp gnder reveal pls
Concertsrule
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devilcake wrote:
I think the like wanting to adopt to avoid your own mental problems being passed fown can also be like a guilt thing like, if you’re adopting you didn’t cause the issues, not that you do just bc you have rhatbin your genetics either but I can get how it would feel that way
didnt think about it like that, it totally is. changing original answer to this thread to a solid "maybe" i would be a better uncle/ small male role model than a father me thinks. all though i'm kinda forgetting the whole thing about how i could have a husband that also takes care of the kid too bc its our kid. im very smart and good at remembering things
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bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
bexxi wrote:
who is "you guys"
all of vp! i assigned u guys as aunts n uncles to my future baby earlier in the chat 
ohh! will you do a big vp gnder reveal pls
im gonna do a vampire or werewolf reveal
Private
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Hauru wrote:
i also think that a lot of our generations parenting styles would be very different compared to generations before. Esp being more aware of mental health and having to deal with it on our own. Future kids will hopefully have more rescources to talk about this openly with their parents/friends or have parents who have experienced it as well
i get a lot of parenting style shorts on youtube and for some reason i do like watching them
and whenver i talk to my godaunt (who is 76) i realize damn, the time where we hit children into obedience at school and at home is really not that long ago 
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concertsrule wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I think the like wanting to adopt to avoid your own mental problems being passed fown can also be like a guilt thing like, if you’re adopting you didn’t cause the issues, not that you do just bc you have rhatbin your genetics either but I can get how it would feel that way
didnt think about it like that, it totally is. changing original answer to this thread to a solid "maybe" i would be a better uncle/ small male role model than a father me thinks. all though i'm kinda forgetting the whole thing about how i could have a husband that also takes care of the kid too bc its our kid. im very smart and good at remembering things
Aquire as many partners as possible to take care of tha baby

lifehack
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lain wrote:
bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
all of vp! i assigned u guys as aunts n uncles to my future baby earlier in the chat 
ohh! will you do a big vp gnder reveal pls
im gonna do a vampire or werewolf reveal
pls dont let the werewolf imprint on other children
Private
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lain wrote:
bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
all of vp! i assigned u guys as aunts n uncles to my future baby earlier in the chat 
ohh! will you do a big vp gnder reveal pls
im gonna do a vampire or werewolf reveal
Excellent
Concertsrule
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devilcake wrote:
concertsrule wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I think the like wanting to adopt to avoid your own mental problems being passed fown can also be like a guilt thing like, if you’re adopting you didn’t cause the issues, not that you do just bc you have rhatbin your genetics either but I can get how it would feel that way
didnt think about it like that, it totally is. changing original answer to this thread to a solid "maybe" i would be a better uncle/ small male role model than a father me thinks. all though i'm kinda forgetting the whole thing about how i could have a husband that also takes care of the kid too bc its our kid. im very smart and good at remembering things
Aquire as many partners as possible to take care of tha baby

lifehack
my harem
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lain wrote:
bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
all of vp! i assigned u guys as aunts n uncles to my future baby earlier in the chat 
ohh! will you do a big vp gnder reveal pls
im gonna do a vampire or werewolf reveal
cant wait!! go get knocked up
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bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
bexxi wrote:
ohh! will you do a big vp gnder reveal pls
im gonna do a vampire or werewolf reveal
cant wait!! go get knocked up
waiting one more year before we start trying! 
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I will say being a parent now seems extremely stressful just because of technology n shit like …. I would not allow screens o would have to move into the woods and homeschool 
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