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BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
but demisexual doesn't say anything about which sex you're attracted to, just abt how you prefer to have sex (w someone you know intimately instead of a stranger)
That's what I meant
but then it's not a sexuality..
Since it's called "demisexual" (like, when someone refers themselves as demisexual..?) I thought it was correct to call it demisexuality
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:17
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Meep wrote:
Abby wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
but what about things such as demisexual? i genuinely don't think that's a real sexuality. and i feel that sentiment could be extended to some genders too.
well a lot of my lgbt friends says that I am a demisexual person?
I don't understand how it works
I don't use labels
but I just know that I can find ppl beautiful, hot
but never felt attracted to them?
I'm only attracted to someone after we formed a really deep connection?
I was like attracted to maybe 2ppl
in my whole life?
and the attraction came only AFTER we were together, and formed a connection
but idk
I won't use that label anyway
i feel like that is kind of normal? why does that have to have a name?
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Arthema wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
but what about things such as demisexual? i genuinely don't think that's a real sexuality. and i feel that sentiment could be extended to some genders too.
Demisexuality, in my opinion, is almost the norm for people, whether they are heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual
I think that there is a  difference between demisexuality and CHOOSING to only have anything with the people u know very well? but idk
I do't understand how it works
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Koolaid wrote:
Abby wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
but what about things such as demisexual? i genuinely don't think that's a real sexuality. and i feel that sentiment could be extended to some genders too.
well a lot of my lgbt friends says that I am a demisexual person?
I don't understand how it works
I don't use labels
but I just know that I can find ppl beautiful, hot
but never felt attracted to them?
I'm only attracted to someone after we formed a really deep connection?
I was like attracted to maybe 2ppl
in my whole life?
and the attraction came only AFTER we were together, and formed a connection
but idk
I won't use that label anyway
i mean a lot of ppl are like that i guess? but it's still not a separate sexuality
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imo i find those microlabels like demisexual to be so redundant and it invalidates microlabels that must be done

i mean overall i hate microlabels w a burning passion lol its so stupid
Date: 03-07-2020 18:18
Meep
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Meep wrote:
Heaven wrote:
imo i find those microlabels like demisexual to be so redundant and it invalidates microlabels that must be done

i mean overall i hate microlabels w a burning passion lol its so stupid
same, they make me more confused
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:18
BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
but what about things such as demisexual? i genuinely don't think that's a real sexuality. and i feel that sentiment could be extended to some genders too.
Demisexuality, in my opinion, is almost the norm for people, whether they are heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual
I think that there is a  difference between demisexuality and CHOOSING to only have anything with the people u know very well? but idk
I do't understand how it works
You don't really choose when it comes to feeling sexually attracted to someone, but the 99% of the time, you start to feel like that when you've been knowing that someone for a longer time
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:19
BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Heaven wrote:
imo i find those microlabels like demisexual to be so redundant and it invalidates microlabels that must be done

i mean overall i hate microlabels w a burning passion lol its so stupid
I in general don't understand neolabels
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:19
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Koolaid wrote:
Rosa wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
By gender, I mean gender roles or what females and males are supposed to behave/be. Females are supposed to be feminine and males are supposed to be masculine. 
Since I'm a masculine female, I do not go by the gender that was imposed to me
but what i don't understand is.. you can be a masculine female and still identify as female, and vice versa

i feel like all these labels just enforce gender stereotypes. you can act however you want and it doesn't mean you have to identify as another gender/sex because of it
the majority of non cis people don't id as anything other than their agab necause they don't fit into the gender roles perfectly, there are butch trans lesbians for example who are far away from fitting perfectly into female gender roles
Date: 03-07-2020 18:19
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Koolaid wrote:
Heaven wrote:
imo i find those microlabels like demisexual to be so redundant and it invalidates microlabels that must be done

i mean overall i hate microlabels w a burning passion lol its so stupid
microlabels were not meant to be used as a sexuality anyways
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:20
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Rosa wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Rosa wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
By gender, I mean gender roles or what females and males are supposed to behave/be. Females are supposed to be feminine and males are supposed to be masculine. 
Since I'm a masculine female, I do not go by the gender that was imposed to me
A lot of cis people are completely confident with "breaking" gender stereotypes without even thinking about it which is amazing and important. 
But it's something else.
I felt something similar to that, but the difference was that I also felt something more. I realised that I never was as comfortable being percieved as a woman. I later realised, that I never was a woman. It wasn't natural for me. 
By percieved as a woman, what do you mean? Like, what society expects you to act like?
My physical body, basically. I was automatically put in the girl-folder. And I often have a conventionally feminine style, something that I've recently started to abandon. 
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BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Like, love whoever you want, dress however you want, do whatever you want. You don't need labels for that, nor to explain anything to anyone
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:20
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Koolaid wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Rosa wrote:
but what i don't understand is.. you can be a masculine female and still identify as female, and vice versa

i feel like all these labels just enforce gender stereotypes. you can act however you want and it doesn't mean you have to identify as another gender/sex because of it
the majority of non cis people don't id as anything other than their agab necause they don't fit into the gender roles perfectly, there are butch trans lesbians for example who are far away from fitting perfectly into female gender roles
okay but how does not fitting into a gender role make you not that gender..??
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:21
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wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Like, love whoever you want, dress however you want, do whatever you want. You don't need labels for that, nor to explain anything to anyone

would be nice to have my pronouns and name respected tho, i think that is owed to me
Date: 03-07-2020 18:21
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Arthema wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Demisexuality, in my opinion, is almost the norm for people, whether they are heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual
I think that there is a  difference between demisexuality and CHOOSING to only have anything with the people u know very well? but idk
I do't understand how it works
You don't really choose when it comes to feeling sexually attracted to someone, but the 99% of the time, you start to feel like that when you've been knowing that someone for a longer time
doesn't attraction usually comes when you see the person? like biologically when should be attracted to ppl by some certain things that are written in our brains
most of my friends if not all just know when they see a person if they're attracted to em
don't know how it works
made me think I was asexual
but then felt attraction under some serious criteria 
but meh just do whatever u feel good with
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