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Murdurur
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scoff wrote:
Lifetrap TestYour lifetrap is:EntitlementYou are indifferent to social expectations and consider yourself above the rules. Other people should be punished when they violate social norms, but not you.You have a hard time disciplining yourself to complete routine tasks and goals. But you can always come up with excuses, no matter what you did. It was never really your fault.
You have trouble controlling your impulses. You act on your desires and feelings without regard for the consequences. When your needs are not met, you become angry and abusive. Many of the people in your life are way too willing to tolerate criticism and humiliation from you. They allow you to take advantage of them. You get your needs met at their expense.You have difficulty empathizing with others. You unfairly impinge upon their rights. Your demands become a drain on them. But to you, this does not feel painful.Your life is chaotic. Most likely there have been times where you have failed to complete the tasks necessary to make progress in your career. At some level, you know this and feel inadequate because you know you could do more. You compensate by splitting your self-image in two: Either you are perfect or you are defective; adored as an idol or rejected like a hobo. You internalize the belief that there is no middle ground. As a result, you spend a lot of time trying to cover up your bad sides on the one hand, and impressing people on the other.
no offense (i mean how do you mitigate offense from this) but that description is disgusting
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murdurur wrote:
scoff wrote:
Lifetrap TestYour lifetrap is:EntitlementYou are indifferent to social expectations and consider yourself above the rules. Other people should be punished when they violate social norms, but not you.You have a hard time disciplining yourself to complete routine tasks and goals. But you can always come up with excuses, no matter what you did. It was never really your fault.
You have trouble controlling your impulses. You act on your desires and feelings without regard for the consequences. When your needs are not met, you become angry and abusive. Many of the people in your life are way too willing to tolerate criticism and humiliation from you. They allow you to take advantage of them. You get your needs met at their expense.You have difficulty empathizing with others. You unfairly impinge upon their rights. Your demands become a drain on them. But to you, this does not feel painful.Your life is chaotic. Most likely there have been times where you have failed to complete the tasks necessary to make progress in your career. At some level, you know this and feel inadequate because you know you could do more. You compensate by splitting your self-image in two: Either you are perfect or you are defective; adored as an idol or rejected like a hobo. You internalize the belief that there is no middle ground. As a result, you spend a lot of time trying to cover up your bad sides on the one hand, and impressing people on the other.
no offense (i mean how do you mitigate offense from this) but that description is disgusting
It is. But it's also somewhat true, you know? Aside from the fact that I do have empathy, I mean, most of the time. It's hard to feel empathy for somebody going through the exact same things as you but who is being supported and all that when you're not. Otherwise, I do have empathy. 
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on the other one i got insufficient self-control lol that one's also true
LitroTrope
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I think vulnerability or failure-impairment is more accurate.. idk tho
Gardin
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Your lifetrap is:
Emotional Deprivation

At root, you have a feeling of being chronically disappointed in other people. That they will let you down. We are not speaking about a single case of disappointment. Your conclusion, as a result of past relationships, is that you cannot count on people to be there for you emotionally. It is a sad and heavy sense of knowledge.
Because you have faced so much deprivation in your life, you feel that it is frightening to make yourself vulnerable to others and ask for what you need. You may protect yourself from closeness by choosing partners who are unavailable, or someone who is physically there but mentally cold and ungiving. In this way, you perpetuate your sense of being neglected. It feels as if no matter where you turn, you encounter deprivation.
Emotional neglect is part and parcel of intimate relations for you. But, at least in part, this neglect also arises because it is dangerous for you to ask for what you truly want. You have become very invested in doing the opposite; that is, keeping yourself invulnerable in close relations to protect yourself from disappointment.
To avoid the hurt of the deprivation you have felt, you focus on how others have let you down and disappointed you. You can easily access anger about past relationships, but it is difficult for you to feel the pain.


I don't feel like that is 100% me, though. I mostly agree with the first paragraph, but the rest... meh, idk
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Gardin
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Tried another test:

Self-sacrifice --- very strong
Failure --- very strong
Approval seeking --- very strong
Social isolation --- very strong
Defectiveness --- very strong
Punitiveness --- very strong
Emotional inhabition --- very strong
Subjugation --- very strong

Pessimism --- strong
Emotional deprivation --- strong
Vulnerablity --- strong

Abuse --- medium
Insufficient self-control --- medium
Unrelenting standards --- medium
Entitlement --- medium
Dependence --- medium

Abandonment --- weak

Enmeshment --- no lifetrap
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