liliabuck wrote:
Hi! I'm an lg, so just thought I should share my thoughts on the subject.
1) The girls who are into ddlg have failed father figures. I certainly have not, and most of my friends in a relationship like this haven't either. Everyone thinks that we're out trying to find a new dad because our last one left us or abused us, which is completely false. Although there may be a few lg's like that, most are not.
2) You have sex like a child and daddy. Okay, so, I can't speak for every ddlg couple on this one, but me and my daddy do NOT. I made the request that I would only like to have sex when I'm not in little space, and he agreed. There might be couples who do have sex in little mode, but I can say that I personally have not and will not.
3) Your daddy's a pedophile. Well, we've talked about this, and maybe he's just a big fat liar, but he has said that he would never EVER try to engage in a sexual/romantic relationship with a minor, and none of his friends are either. Most daddys' want to look after you, and care for you while you're in little space. Just because they find childlike behavior cute, it does not mean that it is a major turn or he finds it attractive in a five year old. If your daddy is like that, it is definitely a sign that you should get out of the relationship, but healthy ddlg relationships are always between a consenting woman and her daddy.