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Claire wrote:

murdurur wrote:

C4TH3DR4L wrote:

murdurur wrote:

man i really admire this attitude.
i will beat myself up over every mistake i've ever made until i die probably lol. at least it feels very righteous i guess

You did what you could out of the resources you had, the knowledge you had, the feelings you had, in those specific moments you faced

It's really easy to be etterpåklok (don't know English term) and best thing to do from now is to leave in in the past and work on the future

I know that's easier said than done ofc and you've probably heard it all before too

no i still appreciate hearing/reading it though. i have to be reminded of things like this constantly lol, it's kinda the complete opposite of my ''natural'' mindset. i can definitely apply it to situations where i have been more passive but pretty much everything i did when i had alcohol issues is just.. god no lol.

if you continue to fill your brain with positive thoughts- things like 'i did my best'- over time those thoughts become your natural reaction.

start arguing with your negative thinking.

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Kieren wrote:
no,
the past year and a half has honestly been way better than any of my past.

Most of my past caused my major depression and literally made me want to Off myself.
I would do anything to never go back and re-live it.
if I had to re-live it again i'd probably just opt for offing myself.

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Kieren wrote:

Claire wrote:

murdurur wrote:

C4TH3DR4L wrote:
You did what you could out of the resources you had, the knowledge you had, the feelings you had, in those specific moments you faced

It's really easy to be etterpåklok (don't know English term) and best thing to do from now is to leave in in the past and work on the future

I know that's easier said than done ofc and you've probably heard it all before too

no i still appreciate hearing/reading it though. i have to be reminded of things like this constantly lol, it's kinda the complete opposite of my ''natural'' mindset. i can definitely apply it to situations where i have been more passive but pretty much everything i did when i had alcohol issues is just.. god no lol.

if you continue to fill your brain with positive thoughts- things like 'i did my best'- over time those thoughts become your natural reaction.

start arguing with your negative thinking.

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GvcciGoddess wrote:
to be completely honest i wouldnt cuz all the bad shit in my past helped me grew and made me a better person. Like if i went back and stopped myself from doing certain things i wouldnt have learned anything from it and that would just have slowed down all my progress and self improvement. Its cheesy as fuck i know but like its true

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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
I don't regret anything I've done in the past.
Most of them were for the good, and even though at the time I'd think I did wrong, turned out that the things that I did were the best decisions I could have made.
There are other things that I did that were actually wrong, but *karma* already made me pay so there's no use in wanting to go back

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Arthema wrote:
No because everything lead me to this moment and I think I'm really in a good place rn

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emogirrrl123 wrote:
No, the mistakes I made shaped me into the person I am today

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i would travel back to my mom's womb and never be born