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Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:

Juniper wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

Juniper wrote:
I remember the first day I realized I was ugly to myself and not at all like what I imagined and I was like wtf world I could have had any face and this is the one I got at least I’m in the time and age where this is fixable

i very badly wanted a nosejob when i was younger
i've been able to afford it for 3 years now and i can go get it whenever i want p much
but i just think it shows how much i value literally everything else i could spend money on except for changing my face

I mean
physical beauty means a lot to me guess I’m shallow idc
id do it rn but I don’t think my face is ready bc of my age

imagine all the pizza u could eat w the money of a nosejob tho

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Nesta wrote:

Cheetos wrote:
Agree

If i am in the mood to look like a queen, thats my mood
if i an in the mood to look like a jerk, thats my mood

and i dont believe that i value less or more based on my looks
U dont choose how u look like, u choose how u behave
so id prefer to judge me by my actions, not the way I was born or whether Ive gained a few pounds
And if u do so, suck my côck

this was nicely put so ye
I'll show up at school in all my sweatpants four days in a row and go home to dress up in nice clothes because I don't see school as much of a dress-up arena when you are there half the day, basically every day. I dress up for special occasions and that's about it.

Right? I mean thats self love. It would be so unnatural to give 100% everytime!
Happy to hear you're in peace with yourself.
People believe it makes sense to deny the imperfection. We should learn to be neutral to ourselves instead of rating us in good or bad, beautiful or ugly. Imo if u edit away ur mistakes and flaws, u r sending this message to someone else too. In the end we're tricking ourselves and make others feel bad by trying to either be perfect or judgemental. We are moving away from reality. People have to learn they don't need to be anything than just okay. And I believe many people are quite okay the way they're. Neither do I always find others attractive, nor does it apply to myself. Should i question myself for my entire life now? This generation is so hurt, like its insane.

Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:

Overture wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

Overture wrote:
yess exactly! I feel the same
but also when I make something creative like a blog or something for a competition, I always ask people to roast me basically bcs I want to learn!! And im not afraid of feedback, I love it

and sometimes I want people to tell me how I look but sometimes I know I look fucked up so then I dont need anyone to tell me hahahah

i hate hate when i can just tell someone is holding back what they're really thinking or like dancing around it
i should tattoo "i'm not sensitive, it's ok" or something on my forehead

ikr and I can basically read minds so don't fool me
I also see people posting pictures of themselves in fb groups and asking 'is this one nice for insta' or smth and sometimes I really really don't think it's the best picture, because of quality or just something else and there's always the same people responding with 'YES YOU SLAY' and I KNOW they mean it well but when those kind of people compliment me on something i cant take it seriously tbh

lmao this reminds me i hate when i send multiple pictures to a friend like which one works best for profile pic?
and theyre just like "they all look good" that's not what i asked

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Bloodflowers wrote:

Juniper wrote:
I remember the first day I realized I was ugly to myself and not at all like what I imagined and I was like wtf world I could have had any face and this is the one I got at least I’m in the time and age where this is fixable

i very badly wanted a nosejob when i was younger
i've been able to afford it for 3 years now and i can go get it whenever i want p much
but i just think it shows how much i value literally everything else i could spend money on except for changing my face

I believe many young people who had reduced themselves on their looks or flaws will never feel happy until they learn acceptance for themselves

i felt the same about my boobs and now I just think omg how could i even care, instead of focusing on the size, i am happy to say i like my nipples lmao

Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:

Cheetos wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

Juniper wrote:
I remember the first day I realized I was ugly to myself and not at all like what I imagined and I was like wtf world I could have had any face and this is the one I got at least I’m in the time and age where this is fixable

i very badly wanted a nosejob when i was younger
i've been able to afford it for 3 years now and i can go get it whenever i want p much
but i just think it shows how much i value literally everything else i could spend money on except for changing my face

I believe many young people who had reduced themselves on their looks or flaws will never feel happy until they learn acceptance for themselves

i felt the same about my boobs and now I just think omg how could i even care, instead of focusing on the size, i am happy to say i like my nipples lmao

omg i always wanted breasts but now im so glad i don't i love being flat

GenderTeam
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GenderTeam wrote:
Some of yall bout to be real mad at me... But it must be said 👁👄👁 Some of y’all is fat, and ugly, and unattractive... But that is okay. Just be who you are. But you got to stop blaming Twitter— Black Men— and society for all of your problems. Some of y’all gonna say what my wig fucked up, ‘cuz that’s okay, i can go buy myself a thousand dollar one right now and putthatshitrightbackon. Some of y’all gonna tell me well i am ugly as fuck, that’s okay, ‘cause a bitch live and lavish, my boyfriend’s a pro athlete, he play baseball, and i’m happy, and you not. See, what the problem is, is perspective. I’m happy and you on Twitter complaining about why you not gettin’ choked. Get your life together.

Private
Streetmusician

commander2 wrote:
I embrace th ugli
Keeps me from getting catcalled like every1 else 😎

Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:

intimate wrote:
Some of yall bout to be real mad at me... But it must be said 👁👄👁 Some of y’all is fat, and ugly, and unattractive... But that is okay. Just be who you are. But you got to stop blaming Twitter— Black Men— and society for all of your problems. Some of y’all gonna say what my wig fucked up, ‘cuz that’s okay, i can go buy myself a thousand dollar one right now and putthatshitrightbackon. Some of y’all gonna tell me well i am ugly as fuck, that’s okay, ‘cause a bitch live and lavish, my boyfriend’s a pro athlete, he play baseball, and i’m happy, and you not. See, what the problem is, is perspective. I’m happy and you on Twitter complaining about why you not gettin’ choked. Get your life together.

i have no idea if you agree or disagree w me

GenderTeam
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GenderTeam wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

intimate wrote:
Some of yall bout to be real mad at me... But it must be said 👁👄👁 Some of y’all is fat, and ugly, and unattractive... But that is okay. Just be who you are. But you got to stop blaming Twitter— Black Men— and society for all of your problems. Some of y’all gonna say what my wig fucked up, ‘cuz that’s okay, i can go buy myself a thousand dollar one right now and putthatshitrightbackon. Some of y’all gonna tell me well i am ugly as fuck, that’s okay, ‘cause a bitch live and lavish, my boyfriend’s a pro athlete, he play baseball, and i’m happy, and you not. See, what the problem is, is perspective. I’m happy and you on Twitter complaining about why you not gettin’ choked. Get your life together.

i have no idea if you agree or disagree w me

this is a twitter meme

n neither am i i hate the way i look and constantly try to enhance my appearance but i dont wish that on any1 else like just b urself beauty is subjective but i cant seem to get myself 2 believ that anybody thinks im pretty no matter what

Winterdotter
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winterdotter wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

winterdotter wrote:
after like what, 19 years of pure self hatred ive finally started to love (some parts of) myself, and its so fucking amazing

i am rebelling at 21 yo as i wish i would have done in my teens. but my teens were full of insecurity and pleasing everyone

honestly, living isolated (from friends, im not talking about covid) has been a blessing because i havent had others opinions to burden me

Juniper
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Juniper wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

Juniper wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:
i very badly wanted a nosejob when i was younger
i've been able to afford it for 3 years now and i can go get it whenever i want p much
but i just think it shows how much i value literally everything else i could spend money on except for changing my face

I mean
physical beauty means a lot to me guess I’m shallow idc
id do it rn but I don’t think my face is ready bc of my age

imagine all the pizza u could eat w the money of a nosejob tho

wouldn’t make a difference for me but... I can see what you’re getting at

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Bloodflowers wrote:

Cheetos wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:
i very badly wanted a nosejob when i was younger
i've been able to afford it for 3 years now and i can go get it whenever i want p much
but i just think it shows how much i value literally everything else i could spend money on except for changing my face

I believe many young people who had reduced themselves on their looks or flaws will never feel happy until they learn acceptance for themselves

i felt the same about my boobs and now I just think omg how could i even care, instead of focusing on the size, i am happy to say i like my nipples lmao

omg i always wanted breasts but now im so glad i don't i love being flat

i still sometimes just want breasts u know to know how it feels even tho not having to think about em when u move around and all of that is quite nice
but it's not like i would do surgery for it
like that would be insane for me in my eyes
it would probably make me feel worse about myself tbh

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Shut up conventionally attractive person, this is cultural appropriation of us real uglos