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uhyre wrote:
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lamb wrote:
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they tried to strangle you? that's crazy
o yea
idk i was living in a group home the last time that happened so it was just. normal. i guess. didnt think much of it
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Date: 27-10-2020 20:11
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Quinzelle wrote:
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That's absolute nuts, sounds like toxic group who makes drama/lives off drama and r energy suckers.
toxic groupS actually. 

Happened with like 3 separate groups of friends. Like, completely separate. 
I had shit luck with friends and people wonder why I have social anxiety and still only have 1 best friend from back home xD. 

It's extremely nuts though. Definitely lived off drama, SO many of them and they're the worst kind of people. Like, how fucking boring of a life do you have that you have to force drama to happen?

I think the good thing is the fact you can identify that type of behaviour later on your adultlife and not tolerate or accept that. Recently had a boss like that and I quit my job, she wasnt even the boss but a welfare-scammer who made drama out of stuff that easily could be fixed by being a teamworker rather a big bully. 
True though it is difficult. I seem to keep running into people like this - like earlier this year, I had a massive to-do with someone I used to live with who also thought they saw an opportunity to manipulate me and try to get what they wanted. He ended up making my anxiety and depression severely bad again and I had to get new medication and be put back into the therapy system... 
and the accommodation providers were fucking useless. 

I'm lucky that my boyfriend is amazing and my family and the rest of my flatmates but it is difficult when I keep running into these kinds of people. I'm like some kind of shitty magnet xD

Oh that's my worst nightmare!! I worry that'll happen to me a lot too. Have you been able to find a better job?? 
Date: 27-10-2020 20:12
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I got nasty remarks about my weight at school a lot and got called fat even by some parts of my family. It has really messed me up.
Date: 27-10-2020 20:17
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I got nasty remarks about my weight at school a lot and got called fat even by some parts of my family. It has really messed me up.
My dad and grandmother told me to start dieting, at the age of 8 or 9. At the same time my dad and grandma would always give me unhealthy food, especially my dad when he needed to apologize because he had some bad temper issues.
Date: 27-10-2020 20:18
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Versailles wrote:
Quinzelle wrote:
MossPiglet wrote:
Quinzelle wrote:
toxic groupS actually. 

Happened with like 3 separate groups of friends. Like, completely separate. 
I had shit luck with friends and people wonder why I have social anxiety and still only have 1 best friend from back home xD. 

It's extremely nuts though. Definitely lived off drama, SO many of them and they're the worst kind of people. Like, how fucking boring of a life do you have that you have to force drama to happen?

I think the good thing is the fact you can identify that type of behaviour later on your adultlife and not tolerate or accept that. Recently had a boss like that and I quit my job, she wasnt even the boss but a welfare-scammer who made drama out of stuff that easily could be fixed by being a teamworker rather a big bully. 
True though it is difficult. I seem to keep running into people like this - like earlier this year, I had a massive to-do with someone I used to live with who also thought they saw an opportunity to manipulate me and try to get what they wanted. He ended up making my anxiety and depression severely bad again and I had to get new medication and be put back into the therapy system... 
and the accommodation providers were fucking useless. 

I'm lucky that my boyfriend is amazing and my family and the rest of my flatmates but it is difficult when I keep running into these kinds of people. I'm like some kind of shitty magnet xD

Oh that's my worst nightmare!! I worry that'll happen to me a lot too. Have you been able to find a better job?? 

Yeah don't let ppl run over you, it's important to make healthy boundaries. Glad you got good ppl around you tho!

I don't worry about it, I stayed professional and know my rights when it comes to workplaces - they didnt give me 30 min break even tho I worked more than 6 hours. Didnt give me proper training when I got in. Made me work for free for few hours because it wasn't enough time and too little ppl. The boss were awful and bullied me the second day according to my contract and made me cry, it was that time I realized fk that. She harassed me even after I quit and wanted to report to the police because I made small mistakes due to lack of training in my workplace. Absolutely unprofessional and inappropiate. 
Im currently looking for new job, it's hard during coronatime.
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Date: 27-10-2020 20:20
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Lelop wrote:
I few of the boys from the grade (or 2?) above me would bully me throughout 1 and 2 grade. My childhood memories are in general really foggy, but i remember being alone with them outside in the schoolyard, and them throwing a rock at my face.

One of them started harrassing me again in like 4-8 grade, where he would go around and tell people from his and my grade that i was his girlfriend in a really mocking manner, even though i never knew him beside what had happened in 1 and 2 grade. I told him to stop repeatedly, but he kept going. He would also take time to find me in the breaks and make fun of me and also tried multiple times to hold me - i have never been more uncomfortable in my life.
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Date: 27-10-2020 20:25
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Lelop wrote:
Also, i once told this story in another thread, but my (at the time) best friend, would mock me for have a low mental health and and i was also kinda "emo" at the time, and she would always joked about me cutting to other people (even though i never did) even going as far as calling me a wrist-violinist. Now she is "alt" and has self-diagnosed depression and anxiety :)
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Date: 27-10-2020 20:28
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scoff wrote:
Pretty sure I was the bully. Nothing I'm proud of, naturally. I really was an asshole kid.
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Date: 27-10-2020 20:36
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Koolaid wrote:
was bullied for a year in primary school, really the basic stuff. was a very insecure and socially-inept kid. kind of an asshole at times. what can i say
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Date: 27-10-2020 20:41
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Aske wrote:
idk there are a lot of things both me and a friend of mine experienced together that she considers bullying but the thought hadn't even crossed my mind. didn't affect me at all, if the other kids were mean i was like lol ok well aren't u a dumb one.
idk i sort of,, turned off my feelings very early to deal with stuff at home so. i was probably kind of an insensitive asshole, i totally blamed my friend for getting called all sorts of mean stuff, i was like u know they would stop if u stopped chasing after them but since u don't imma assume u enjoy it or what ? and if ppl cried i would be like have u got no self respect, even if they broke bones i'd be like lol yall are pathetic. i have.. reconsidered some stuff since uhm. 
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Date: 27-10-2020 20:55
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Arthema wrote:
Was bullied only in middle school for 5 years, and it cost me one of my best friends at that time
I was bullied for not being Jewish, Anorexic and a hairy girl that looked like a boy despite being a girl...
"Messi with earrings" is what they called me for some reason.

I was bullied verbally, physically, got a lot of bruises all over, got my hair cut after I managed to grow it longer because my parents decided to make my hair SUPER short, and the kids in the middle school thought I wasn't "worthy" of long hair so they chopped it.

my love for animals also was weird to them as I got beat up for trying to save a baby bird that fell from its nest, sadly it didn't survive.

The worst that I had to endure is being strangled once, got stabbed in my thigh, and I got locked in my classroom for a night, then I started fighting back and it just made a switch in my brain to flip and it made me such a violent and not trusting child and idk.

looking back I don't mind anything now because I'm much stronger and better than that version but I lost a friend of mine to those bullies and sometimes I wish I could see him face one more time to tell him that I'm sorry I wasn't there a bit more but I can't.

I'm happy that I picked a high school away from my city and those people because even if they stopped with it idk how I'd be able to deal with them in high school, and also because the high school I went to was really... amazing.
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Date: 27-10-2020 21:00
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Arthema wrote:
damn I never talked about it fully with details,
I feel weird but feels good man
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Date: 27-10-2020 21:00
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commander2 wrote:
When i was a bully when i eas 8 we threw a bag w dog shit in some1s mailbox
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Date: 27-10-2020 21:01
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miu wrote:
ive been bullied a lot but i cant remember anything cuz i genuinely couldnt care less abt what people thot of me
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Date: 27-10-2020 21:02
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