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Also imo we need to focus more against a common enemy than have those endless discussions about those very specific things and hate each other because of it. Like i would always side with someone who calls me an asshole because i don't agree with them using kitty/kittyself as pronouns if the opponent is a person who calls gay people perverts and votes for a party that is against abolishing conversion therapy.

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okay so i just opened the https://neopronouns.carrd.co/ that someone linked above and,,, im sorry but im just not processing this it's not coming through

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disintegration wrote:
Also imo we need to focus more against a common enemy than have those endless discussions about those very specific things and hate each other because of it. Like i would always side with someone who calls me an asshole because i don't agree with them using kitty/kittyself as pronouns if the opponent is a person who calls gay people perverts and votes for a party that is against abolishing conversion therapy.

yeah of course i agree w this

i think im mentally not there to discuss anything deeper than 2012 beginning soon so cant wait for that👍👍👍😁😁

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cis ppl have no right to discuss this period. when somebody announces their pronouns you are obliged to use them, dont act like youre doing them a favor or that using their pronouns is a burden to you it is your literal obligation as a decent human being

there are also trans people who don't understand / are against neopronouns tho :/

that is true n i its usually internalized transphobia

No its cus noun pronouns go against all common sense

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commander2 wrote:

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Koolaid wrote:

diarrhea wrote:
cis ppl have no right to discuss this period. when somebody announces their pronouns you are obliged to use them, dont act like youre doing them a favor or that using their pronouns is a burden to you it is your literal obligation as a decent human being

there are also trans people who don't understand / are against neopronouns tho :/

that is true n i its usually internalized transphobia

I have a hard time like understanding how th whole nounpronouns is rlly actually related to being trans or gender (bc as far as i understand even some cis ppl do use them?), like i can't rly put that in the same box as 'transgender' kinda?

like in general i feel like at this point i have a complete different definition of what gender is and what makes someone trans, compared to that group of people.
And sometimes I do honestly wonder if people aren't kinda jsut confusing themselves more, idk?

idk how 2 rlly like properly explain myself about this lol, to me gender just isn't complicated or hard to understand as a concept at leas.. unless i start looking at it as like 'oh gender is abstract nd made up nd can be anything you want it to be.' Which seems more like gender roles, like those r made up yeah.
But I always sorta considered gender related to sex, but jsut not physical, like ur appearance doesn't necessarily reflect ur gender.

Like I def feel like my experience w being trans doesnt reflect everyone else's experience but thats like the one thing where I'm just like ???????

I only really have a problem with nounpronouns and it pronouns, ze/zim n stuff I can get behind.

Idk vhbdfhvb stuff's hard to talk about because I know how annoying it is when ppl question u n don't take u srsly.

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commander2 wrote:
i cannot type today im so sorry

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Reaper wrote:
Her/him huh what's that