MasileinDE wrote:onlyfans wrote:MasileinDE wrote:
yeah, there's just this awkward "ew" moment you get in hindsight, that might have been preceeded with a bad taste in the beginning (if by then you were already old enough to get what might have been going on)
like, I remember that I kinda liked the show Braceface in the beginning when it aired in Germany, but then it started to get weird and somehow sexual in a way that didn't convey "hey, teenager girl trying to figure out her life", but more of the "look, she's a blonde teen and we know you want to see her freak out over getting boobs, because it means bra scenes" so I stopped watching it. but that sentiment only got clear to me when I rewatched it a few years ago to figure out why I stopped liking this show from like a week to the next. (I think Braceface was Nickelodeon as well?)
omg love braceface. its a canadian cartoon tht wasnt nickelodeon but definitely couldve been. i havent watched it since i was a kid so i never noticed those things but i 100% believe it. its just weird to think that a lot of the people that are working so hard to get into these industries is because they have these very unmentionable desires and they could do some real harm because of it. really really troubling.
i am reminded now of one guy who got onto the powerpuff girls remake and he made a character that was essentially himself in the show as a kid and then made his own character start dating blossom in the show? like he was basically writing fanfiction of himself dating one of the main little girls? so gross
exactly
I also feel like it's a very dangerous path to trudge, because you want to make something that's appropriate for children / teens, that they feel they can rely to and you want to be on their level and not make it feel weird to them, because they have a different view and feeling about things. like, let's be real, awakening sexuality is a very tough subject that just begs you to invite pedos in to write the plot (for instance the power puff girl thing, or other creeps) and live out fantasies and even if not, it is so difficult to handle it.
like when I first saw Big Mouth on Netflix, I was very put off by it being really not suitable for kids because of the language. But the more I watched it, the more I had the feeling that the sentiment and the story behind it all actually would benefit a lot of children and that it's just the world and the jokes around the "message" of the show that truly make it adult themed. I never got creepy pedo vibes from that show (frankly, I don't know what to make of the shame wizard and his nazi dildo collection, because I feel like it might just be a visualisation of people having to feel ashamed of fetishising nazis - which, you know, they def should - and then in the same breath make him this pityful creature you kinda are compassionate towards?) like if I'm being real, there's a few things I have mixed feelings about when it comes to the show, but funnily enough, it's purely on a political level and sometimes personal emotional, but never on the "sexual level" the show kinda opens itself up to. I'm still a bit on the fence about the show, but I feel like season one is something you could show kids aged 16 and up to give them insight on some more intense subjects about puberty that might not be adressed in sex ed, because there it's an adult teacher and it oftentimes feels weird and too sterile for truly personal questions. (well look me raving about big mouth now

this whole thing truly is a very difficult subject and the worst part is having to find the right words and vocabulary - for the portrayal as well as the discussion around it)
you perfectly stated the way i feel about it too. really eloquently summed it all up. yeah, that very delicate line of teaching kids about sexuality without sexualizing them is one that should be handled with the utmost care. i think, rightfully, people are scared about touching it for that reason of not being able to find the right way to do it. its just a precarious situation that tends to attract the wrong people, but vetting for that kind of behaviour can be so hard. such is life i suppose