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Versailles wrote:
Aarada wrote:
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I mean, it's hard to get over someone you really like and can't imagine to be without. It's still extremely bad idea if you want to stay friends. You'll still have some hope, and maybe one day he gets a new girlfriend and it will hurt you, a lot.
The quicker you accept it won't be you & him it'll get better, just hang on and talk with friends or family about the issues and stay busy. 
He's kind of giving me false hope because he keeps trying to contact me even though I've ghosted him and not treated him ideally. But honestly, as bad as this may sound I'd prefer if he got a new girlfriend and we just remained as friends. If that's the alternative to having him gone from my life forever I think that's the less hurtful option. And I'm already feeling pretty hurt. 
It's a bit disrespectful if he ended having a girlfriend from his side and still in touch with ex who insist to be somehow in his life - would make sense with staying in touch if you both had a child together but other than that nope. Anyhow, it's bad idea to have him in your life you need to give time to move on and yes it will take time and dont give in to talking to him again.

Having friendship and chatting or talking with ex is bad idea, there's so many amazing people to be friends with or develop relationship with. Love yourself. 
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Date: 19-01-2021 20:06
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Gilmore wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aarada wrote:
Versailles wrote:
I mean, it's hard to get over someone you really like and can't imagine to be without. It's still extremely bad idea if you want to stay friends. You'll still have some hope, and maybe one day he gets a new girlfriend and it will hurt you, a lot.
The quicker you accept it won't be you & him it'll get better, just hang on and talk with friends or family about the issues and stay busy. 
He's kind of giving me false hope because he keeps trying to contact me even though I've ghosted him and not treated him ideally. But honestly, as bad as this may sound I'd prefer if he got a new girlfriend and we just remained as friends. If that's the alternative to having him gone from my life forever I think that's the less hurtful option. And I'm already feeling pretty hurt. 
It's a bit disrespectful if he ended having a girlfriend from his side and still in touch with ex who insist to be somehow in his life - would make sense with staying in touch if you both had a child together but other than that nope. Anyhow, it's bad idea to have him in your life you need to give time to move on and yes it will take time and dont give in to talking to him again.

Having friendship and chatting or talking with ex is bad idea, there's so many amazing people to be friends with or develop relationship with. Love yourself. 
It's not this easy to some people though, not until you've succeeded at it anyway. 
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Date: 19-01-2021 20:08
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va1entine wrote:
Aarada wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Well if I was in your shoes, I'd probably try and get him back. I get that you would rather be his friend than his nothing-at-all, but girl, don't hurt yourself like that. That shit's awful. 

Does he want to stay friends? Any feelings left, have you asked?

Also, are you sure you want this guy or is it the idea of him? Be brutally honest. Sometimes we can't recognize what is in front of us because we are too close to the big picture. Take a step back and think about what you actually want. Maybe it's him, maybe it's something you just thought he was.
My logical part of my brain = you're being delusional and you're only in love with the idea of him
My feelings = ah, I don't like the sound of that

But in all seriousness, I feel so connected to him in a spiritual level. I feel like we're meant to be together. I feel like I could go my entire life without him and never care for or love anybody else as much as I do with him. Maybe it's stupid. Maybe it doesn't make any sense. But my feelings are stupid and making my life miserable.
youre sure you wont consider therapy? ive felt this way about people and its literally why im seeing a psychologist in a few months...
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Date: 19-01-2021 20:13
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Versailles wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Versailles wrote:
Aarada wrote:
He's kind of giving me false hope because he keeps trying to contact me even though I've ghosted him and not treated him ideally. But honestly, as bad as this may sound I'd prefer if he got a new girlfriend and we just remained as friends. If that's the alternative to having him gone from my life forever I think that's the less hurtful option. And I'm already feeling pretty hurt. 
It's a bit disrespectful if he ended having a girlfriend from his side and still in touch with ex who insist to be somehow in his life - would make sense with staying in touch if you both had a child together but other than that nope. Anyhow, it's bad idea to have him in your life you need to give time to move on and yes it will take time and dont give in to talking to him again.

Having friendship and chatting or talking with ex is bad idea, there's so many amazing people to be friends with or develop relationship with. Love yourself. 
It's not this easy to some people though, not until you've succeeded at it anyway. 
Yeah it's not easy. I'd be heartbroken and wanting to be part of life with bf if he broke up, but for the best still i'd block and have 0 contact rule and get help from friends and fam. It's okay to grieve, be sad, and feel like going nuts by all means, but one should not chat or stay in touch in the healing process. :/
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Date: 19-01-2021 20:29
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