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"but you've always seemed normal to me"
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
kalypso wrote:
my friend always tells me, when im talking about how much and how my mom is abusive, 'that is crazy how such a normal functioning person came out of that'
im just sitting there ty but also u rlly should now, im not that normal functioning, but i just know to adapt well and not let other see that side of me/not talk about it 
yeah, everyone needs to adapt themselves to some extent but it's obviously different when you're very aware of all that adapting. does it bother you that your friend thinks along those lines, like does it make you feel that you couldn't express some part of your personality? i picked up a slight vibe but might've misread between the lines 
usually didnt, maybe when it's not her, cause she is just comparing it to herself, and she is just saying that i am at least a little better functioning than her, which ig i am.. im just functioning differently than her, but recently it just started to piss me of that ppl think im so super alright, which i am not at all. but not her in particular at all, cause she's one of my very few of my friends that really want to get me to talk about it and my childhood and my mom.
anyhow i think it's rlly common that ppl dont notice at all, you have to know ppl rlly deep down 
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:41
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Claire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
wuwu wrote:
what
it's my personal journey but vp. which  part do you find confusing?
i mean someone who has never seen one of your threads before would have no idea what youre talking about here. you haven't provided ccontext.
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:44
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ouch wrote:
hutsu wrote:
ouch wrote:
hutsu wrote:
i can't tell whether you're serious or not 
Lmaoo I was serious sorry 
it's cool beans
do you consider yourself to have multiple ouchies in 1? and how'd you realise that's the case if so? sorry if it's too personal, i'm just curious 
No I don't, at least not whats considered out of the normal seperation between the "parts"
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:49
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
kalypso wrote:
my friend always tells me, when im talking about how much and how my mom is abusive, 'that is crazy how such a normal functioning person came out of that'
im just sitting there ty but also u rlly should now, im not that normal functioning, but i just know to adapt well and not let other see that side of me/not talk about it 
yeah, everyone needs to adapt themselves to some extent but it's obviously different when you're very aware of all that adapting. does it bother you that your friend thinks along those lines, like does it make you feel that you couldn't express some part of your personality? i picked up a slight vibe but might've misread between the lines 
usually didnt, maybe when it's not her, cause she is just comparing it to herself, and she is just saying that i am at least a little better functioning than her, which ig i am.. im just functioning differently than her, but recently it just started to piss me of that ppl think im so super alright, which i am not at all. but not her in particular at all, cause she's one of my very few of my friends that really want to get me to talk about it and my childhood and my mom.
anyhow i think it's rlly common that ppl dont notice at all, you have to know ppl rlly deep down 
oh right, i mean it is pretty cool that you've gotten there regardless of being abused and probably not having the best safety net etc. and it's not like she's comparing your strengths to herself to make you seem ~superior~, she was trying to pay you a compliment probably and it's cool you can differentiate that from people kinda shushing you with telling you that you're fine now, actually better than fine. everyone has their baggage and it's cool that you have someone safe to talk about yours.

and it's how things like these are supposed to manifest - they help you blend in and protect yourself. it's not something to highlight or lead peoples attention to. 
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:50
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
wuwu wrote:
what
it's my personal journey but vp. which  part do you find confusing?
i mean someone who has never seen one of your threads before would have no idea what youre talking about here. you haven't provided ccontext.
that's why i asked sad
it's not my intention to be cryptic to annoy people
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:52
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
yeah, everyone needs to adapt themselves to some extent but it's obviously different when you're very aware of all that adapting. does it bother you that your friend thinks along those lines, like does it make you feel that you couldn't express some part of your personality? i picked up a slight vibe but might've misread between the lines 
usually didnt, maybe when it's not her, cause she is just comparing it to herself, and she is just saying that i am at least a little better functioning than her, which ig i am.. im just functioning differently than her, but recently it just started to piss me of that ppl think im so super alright, which i am not at all. but not her in particular at all, cause she's one of my very few of my friends that really want to get me to talk about it and my childhood and my mom.
anyhow i think it's rlly common that ppl dont notice at all, you have to know ppl rlly deep down 
oh right, i mean it is pretty cool that you've gotten there regardless of being abused and probably not having the best safety net etc. and it's not like she's comparing your strengths to herself to make you seem ~superior~, she was trying to pay you a compliment probably and it's cool you can differentiate that from people kinda shushing you with telling you that you're fine now, actually better than fine. everyone has their baggage and it's cool that you have someone safe to talk about yours.

and it's how things like these are supposed to manifest - they help you blend in and protect yourself. it's not something to highlight or lead peoples attention to. 
indeed she was 
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:53
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
hutsu wrote:
it's my personal journey but vp. which  part do you find confusing?
i mean someone who has never seen one of your threads before would have no idea what youre talking about here. you haven't provided ccontext.
that's why i asked
it's not my intention to be cryptic to annoy people
idk i dont think i reeaaallyyyy have seen ur threads before, but to me it made sense
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:53 | Times changed: 1
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
Claire wrote:
i mean someone who has never seen one of your threads before would have no idea what youre talking about here. you haven't provided ccontext.
that's why i asked
it's not my intention to be cryptic to annoy people
idk i dont think i reeaaallyyyy have seen ur threads before, but to me it made sense
takes one to know one
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Date: 27-03-2021 01:59
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
kalypso wrote:
hutsu wrote:
that's why i asked
it's not my intention to be cryptic to annoy people
idk i dont think i reeaaallyyyy have seen ur threads before, but to me it made sense
takes one to know one
lmao ig could also be just that 
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Date: 27-03-2021 02:09
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Cant relate im like known for being a freak but like in a cute way like thats just my vibe
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Date: 27-03-2021 09:07
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