Iotus wrote:
Iotus wrote:
but regardless her dad is involved i was wrong and i said hes just as entitled to criticism as at the present moment in time they are both carers of her. this has absolutely nothing to do with sexism because if i was under the impression it was just her dad, uncle, ect who was her sole carerer id say the exact same thing
Claire wrote:
because just because the dad was a shithead and neglects their child and fucks off doesnt mean the mum suddenly gets a one off on being a bad parent because the dad didnt even want to be one at all? its not on her the dad left but its on her to protect and look after her child? specially because the dad will be out of the picture being to busy being a piece of shit to even acknowledge what his child is doing because he doesnt care! hes a parent in the biological sense but calling him an actual dad would be silly. the mum is sadly going to have to make up for that. my mum is a single mum, if my mum knew her child was a minor dating adults and let it happen thats on her! whats so hard to comprehend?Iotus wrote:
my instinct was to blame the only parent i thought looked after her...
why wouldnt u blame the parent that isnt looking after her lmfaomy instinct was to blame the only parent i thought looked after her...