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Evey wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:
ok what to write to the guy who shows interest but i want to ditch him and not meet for a date. he just sent me a pic of him sitting on the toilet / like clothes down, u see toilet seat and legs. and the text is like "IBS life"
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo

block right now

i've lost any kind of hope for future with a normal person when the ppl i end up talking are like this sht what the actual fuck

most people are crap but there are good people too, u just have to be blunt with yourself in the beginning and stop talking when u detect red flags

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Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:
block right now

i've lost any kind of hope for future with a normal person when the ppl i end up talking are like this sht what the actual fuck

most people are crap but there are good people too, u just have to be blunt with yourself in the beginning and stop talking when u detect red flags

Yeah you're right. Like ppl should atleast understand social cues.
I miss being with my ex, this wouldn't be a problem plus he had so many positive sides. Wouldn't even need to sorry what to do this summer, we'd end up in west-norway in his cabin apartment and maybe his family etc... Upset and depressing. Soon 25 and being single feels so wrong :- (

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Evey wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:
i've lost any kind of hope for future with a normal person when the ppl i end up talking are like this sht what the actual fuck

most people are crap but there are good people too, u just have to be blunt with yourself in the beginning and stop talking when u detect red flags

Yeah you're right. Like ppl should atleast understand social cues.
I miss being with my ex, this wouldn't be a problem plus he had so many positive sides. Wouldn't even need to sorry what to do this summer, we'd end up in west-norway in his cabin apartment and maybe his family etc... Upset and depressing. Soon 25 and being single feels so wrong :- (

you're very young, would be a different story if you were 40 but still possible to "make things right". being single shouldn't be depressing, it's freeing and might be what you need to feel secure and happy by yourself. you'll always have to face some things by yourself even if you have a partner, and then it's good to know how to do that. it's sad that being single is viewed as something bad, becuase it's not. friends are the best thing in the world and i would prefer having 5 close friends than having one close partner tbh, because friends love you for your personality and your company and not for what you "do" for them, or how attractive you happen to be, and they will still love you as much whatever happens to your looks. and that's worth a lot. and also, you can make new summer plans and that's so refreshing! you should go hiking, go swimming during the evening, grill marshmellows and have fun! do things only because you want to

but i understand that you looked forward to that summer but, having to think about what you're going to do isn't bad. it means that you have all the power to create your life and that's amazing, truly

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Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:
most people are crap but there are good people too, u just have to be blunt with yourself in the beginning and stop talking when u detect red flags

Yeah you're right. Like ppl should atleast understand social cues.
I miss being with my ex, this wouldn't be a problem plus he had so many positive sides. Wouldn't even need to sorry what to do this summer, we'd end up in west-norway in his cabin apartment and maybe his family etc... Upset and depressing. Soon 25 and being single feels so wrong :- (

you're very young, would be a different story if you were 40 but still possible to "make things right". being single shouldn't be depressing, it's freeing and might be what you need to feel secure and happy by yourself. you'll always have to face some things by yourself even if you have a partner, and then it's good to know how to do that. it's sad that being single is viewed as something bad, becuase it's not. friends are the best thing in the world and i would prefer having 5 close friends than having one close partner tbh, because friends love you for your personality and your company and not for what you "do" for them, or how attractive you happen to be, and they will still love you as much whatever happens to your looks. and that's worth a lot. and also, you can make new summer plans and that's so refreshing! you should go hiking, go swimming during the evening, grill marshmellows and have fun! do things only because you want to

but i understand that you looked forward to that summer but, having to think about what you're going to do isn't bad. it means that you have all the power to create your life and that's amazing, truly

I don't think being single is bad, just it's not my thing. Some people and most of my friends enjoys this life even thoug they're mid twenties etc. I'd love to be like that, but i don't understand why i just simply don't enjoy being single. I think it's wanting sexual intimacy on a regular basis and sharing everydaylife. Get bored so fast on my own. Most of my plans that i'd love to do is very much what atleast couples would do :- ( need to find out what to do this summer on my own is very hard honestly, i don't feel freedom but stuck - which some ppl find it weird when im single.

I think oslo trip gonna be necessary, i need to find a right date when to take flight etc and book place to stay. Esp when it comes to my friends in oslo or nearby. Might find someone to go with and share apartment while staying. Having no plans this late feels weird, and i miss his family too.

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Evey wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:
Yeah you're right. Like ppl should atleast understand social cues.
I miss being with my ex, this wouldn't be a problem plus he had so many positive sides. Wouldn't even need to sorry what to do this summer, we'd end up in west-norway in his cabin apartment and maybe his family etc... Upset and depressing. Soon 25 and being single feels so wrong :- (

you're very young, would be a different story if you were 40 but still possible to "make things right". being single shouldn't be depressing, it's freeing and might be what you need to feel secure and happy by yourself. you'll always have to face some things by yourself even if you have a partner, and then it's good to know how to do that. it's sad that being single is viewed as something bad, becuase it's not. friends are the best thing in the world and i would prefer having 5 close friends than having one close partner tbh, because friends love you for your personality and your company and not for what you "do" for them, or how attractive you happen to be, and they will still love you as much whatever happens to your looks. and that's worth a lot. and also, you can make new summer plans and that's so refreshing! you should go hiking, go swimming during the evening, grill marshmellows and have fun! do things only because you want to

but i understand that you looked forward to that summer but, having to think about what you're going to do isn't bad. it means that you have all the power to create your life and that's amazing, truly

I don't think being single is bad, just it's not my thing. Some people and most of my friends enjoys this life even thoug they're mid twenties etc. I'd love to be like that, but i don't understand why i just simply don't enjoy being single. I think it's wanting sexual intimacy on a regular basis and sharing everydaylife. Get bored so fast on my own. Most of my plans that i'd love to do is very much what atleast couples would do :- ( need to find out what to do this summer on my own is very hard honestly, i don't feel freedom but stuck - which some ppl find it weird when im single.

I think oslo trip gonna be necessary, i need to find a right date when to take flight etc and book place to stay. Esp when it comes to my friends in oslo or nearby. Might find someone to go with and share apartment while staying. Having no plans this late feels weird, and i miss his family too.

no it makes sense, it's not easy being alone but it's freeing and makes you grow. you have to work more for social interactions if you don't have very very close friends but if you put down some work it will give u a lot back i think

i don't have any plans either, except for like, hiking on my own XD or forcing some friends to hike with me. i will take my shitty ass car and park it on a lot next to a lake and sleep in it i think hahah, u just gotta take one day at a time <3 it will work out
but yes you have all the right in the world to be sad about the loss but life isn't over i promise

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Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:
you're very young, would be a different story if you were 40 but still possible to "make things right". being single shouldn't be depressing, it's freeing and might be what you need to feel secure and happy by yourself. you'll always have to face some things by yourself even if you have a partner, and then it's good to know how to do that. it's sad that being single is viewed as something bad, becuase it's not. friends are the best thing in the world and i would prefer having 5 close friends than having one close partner tbh, because friends love you for your personality and your company and not for what you "do" for them, or how attractive you happen to be, and they will still love you as much whatever happens to your looks. and that's worth a lot. and also, you can make new summer plans and that's so refreshing! you should go hiking, go swimming during the evening, grill marshmellows and have fun! do things only because you want to

but i understand that you looked forward to that summer but, having to think about what you're going to do isn't bad. it means that you have all the power to create your life and that's amazing, truly

I don't think being single is bad, just it's not my thing. Some people and most of my friends enjoys this life even thoug they're mid twenties etc. I'd love to be like that, but i don't understand why i just simply don't enjoy being single. I think it's wanting sexual intimacy on a regular basis and sharing everydaylife. Get bored so fast on my own. Most of my plans that i'd love to do is very much what atleast couples would do :- ( need to find out what to do this summer on my own is very hard honestly, i don't feel freedom but stuck - which some ppl find it weird when im single.

I think oslo trip gonna be necessary, i need to find a right date when to take flight etc and book place to stay. Esp when it comes to my friends in oslo or nearby. Might find someone to go with and share apartment while staying. Having no plans this late feels weird, and i miss his family too.

no it makes sense, it's not easy being alone but it's freeing and makes you grow. you have to work more for social interactions if you don't have very very close friends but if you put down some work it will give u a lot back i think

i don't have any plans either, except for like, hiking on my own XD or forcing some friends to hike with me. i will take my shitty ass car and park it on a lot next to a lake and sleep in it i think hahah, u just gotta take one day at a time <3 it will work out
but yes you have all the right in the world to be sad about the loss but life isn't over i promise

i could do some stuff with my friends but most moved away from hometown and won't be here - mostly chat on messenger almost everyday. And i can do stuff with my near friends who lives here, but like plan trips are a bit tricky to do - mostly just for a day or something. I'm gonna set small plans with them, but i'd really love to make bigger plans which can contain atleast a week etc. :- / as older we get, the more planning u need to have, since some are engaged, got kids, or use most of their time activism plus plus. It's not like when I was in early twenties anymore. It's so hard not having significant other who we can count on each other etc.

it's gonna be a weird time.

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Evey wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:

I don't think being single is bad, just it's not my thing. Some people and most of my friends enjoys this life even thoug they're mid twenties etc. I'd love to be like that, but i don't understand why i just simply don't enjoy being single. I think it's wanting sexual intimacy on a regular basis and sharing everydaylife. Get bored so fast on my own. Most of my plans that i'd love to do is very much what atleast couples would do :- ( need to find out what to do this summer on my own is very hard honestly, i don't feel freedom but stuck - which some ppl find it weird when im single.

I think oslo trip gonna be necessary, i need to find a right date when to take flight etc and book place to stay. Esp when it comes to my friends in oslo or nearby. Might find someone to go with and share apartment while staying. Having no plans this late feels weird, and i miss his family too.

no it makes sense, it's not easy being alone but it's freeing and makes you grow. you have to work more for social interactions if you don't have very very close friends but if you put down some work it will give u a lot back i think

i don't have any plans either, except for like, hiking on my own XD or forcing some friends to hike with me. i will take my shitty ass car and park it on a lot next to a lake and sleep in it i think hahah, u just gotta take one day at a time <3 it will work out
but yes you have all the right in the world to be sad about the loss but life isn't over i promise

i could do some stuff with my friends but most moved away from hometown and won't be here - mostly chat on messenger almost everyday. And i can do stuff with my near friends who lives here, but like plan trips are a bit tricky to do - mostly just for a day or something. I'm gonna set small plans with them, but i'd really love to make bigger plans which can contain atleast a week etc. :- / as older we get, the more planning u need to have, since some are engaged, got kids, or use most of their time activism plus plus. It's not like when I was in early twenties anymore. It's so hard not having significant other who we can count on each other etc.

it's gonna be a weird time.

i don't think it's that hard but it's very different. you'll get used to it soon enough, and maybe find some new friends who are single aswell. as soon as covid has chilled down maybe u could take some class or something where u can meet new people!

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Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:

Versailles wrote:

Saintal wrote:
no it makes sense, it's not easy being alone but it's freeing and makes you grow. you have to work more for social interactions if you don't have very very close friends but if you put down some work it will give u a lot back i think

i don't have any plans either, except for like, hiking on my own XD or forcing some friends to hike with me. i will take my shitty ass car and park it on a lot next to a lake and sleep in it i think hahah, u just gotta take one day at a time <3 it will work out
but yes you have all the right in the world to be sad about the loss but life isn't over i promise

i could do some stuff with my friends but most moved away from hometown and won't be here - mostly chat on messenger almost everyday. And i can do stuff with my near friends who lives here, but like plan trips are a bit tricky to do - mostly just for a day or something. I'm gonna set small plans with them, but i'd really love to make bigger plans which can contain atleast a week etc. :- / as older we get, the more planning u need to have, since some are engaged, got kids, or use most of their time activism plus plus. It's not like when I was in early twenties anymore. It's so hard not having significant other who we can count on each other etc.

it's gonna be a weird time.

i don't think it's that hard but it's very different. you'll get used to it soon enough, and maybe find some new friends who are single aswell. as soon as covid has chilled down maybe u could take some class or something where u can meet new people!

yeah i think i will take a class or two, but it's so long till it happens. :/
Esp when time goes by so slow. Id do so much alone or with few friends if covid wasnt a fact. So much opportunities are on pause for a while now in this city.

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Pixel wrote:

Versailles wrote:

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Tusenfryd if they ever open again, was fun last year even w the restrictions, tho longer queues tho

never been there. if going to oslo or sum might go there. How's situation in oslo btw? my guess it's def much worse than here so i'm ambivalent to go there.

been thinking about ålesund... maybe

Ålesund seems lovely, I want to go there as well

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Versailles wrote:

Pixel wrote:

Versailles wrote:

ouch wrote:
Tusenfryd if they ever open again, was fun last year even w the restrictions, tho longer queues tho

never been there. if going to oslo or sum might go there. How's situation in oslo btw? my guess it's def much worse than here so i'm ambivalent to go there.

been thinking about ålesund... maybe

Ålesund seems lovely, I want to go there as well

it's very beautiful there it seems and every time i hear a tourist tell where they liked the most to stay in norway it's there. Only prob don't know anybody there