kagura wrote: depends what way but being with different kind of people (honestly idk what i would be if one of my bestfriends weren't black), reading, social media, weed, just being in nature
kagura wrote: oh one thing is understanding and accepting that i might be wrong about anything i used to have that "i need to be right" attitude, but one day i just drop it and i was like damn i know a shit about anything i need to listen what others have to say
lean wrote: in what way? like empathetic? my mother probably which is ironic because she's never shown me empathy in her life but very good at showing me how to be empathetic to others.
uhm idk in general i think just realizing if i'm not i'll just be bitter. however i've become a lot less forgiving and am more firm with boundaries so in that way people can see me as kind of a b word i think but that's what you get when you're a woman who doesn't let people walk all over you.