Alam wrote:
That's the thing though, being trans is not fun, nothing about it is, except maybe choosing your own name? But you can do that anyway, so no. It's pretty shit but if transitioning is what will make you happier in your own skin, I don't know, might be worth it.
beemo wrote:
going by they/them or as nonbinary etc does give me relief from like the discomfort from being seen as a woman. but then i just feel like a dumb snowflake like i'm just making stuff up
but also anxiety because of what my life would be, i mean what the fuck, i don't Want to be nb. nobody in my life would accept that and everything would go to shit like
Well that's just oof ouch internalised transphobia. I get it, I feel that way too, I probably wouldn't mind being referred to as they had I not felt this way. going by they/them or as nonbinary etc does give me relief from like the discomfort from being seen as a woman. but then i just feel like a dumb snowflake like i'm just making stuff up
but also anxiety because of what my life would be, i mean what the fuck, i don't Want to be nb. nobody in my life would accept that and everything would go to shit like
That's the thing though, being trans is not fun, nothing about it is, except maybe choosing your own name? But you can do that anyway, so no. It's pretty shit but if transitioning is what will make you happier in your own skin, I don't know, might be worth it.