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kagura wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

kagura wrote:
yea i go there and i just don't drink? that's very simple. it's not that i don't drink at all ever, but i don't do drunk. i hate being drunk. i mostly drink alcohol free beers to get some vibes.
also i'm probably just high at those events so it's not like i'm sober, pick your poison i guess

not simple for everyone

is the problem that you feel like you can't control it? like you're gonna end up drinking if you go? or do you feel like there's social pressures?
my problem with social drinking events are that drunk people are being exhauting af when you're not drunk, but my solution to that is that i just usually leave early. it's not like i'm gonna miss anything if i leave before midnight. but idk what else to do if problems are more those other ones

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Sylvan wrote:
I don't drink at all when I'm by myself it's always with others but then it's not one beer it's 6 beers and shots and I hate it.

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Bloodflowers wrote:

kagura wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

kagura wrote:
yea i go there and i just don't drink? that's very simple. it's not that i don't drink at all ever, but i don't do drunk. i hate being drunk. i mostly drink alcohol free beers to get some vibes.
also i'm probably just high at those events so it's not like i'm sober, pick your poison i guess

not simple for everyone

is the problem that you feel like you can't control it? like you're gonna end up drinking if you go? or do you feel like there's social pressures?
my problem with social drinking events are that drunk people are being exhauting af when you're not drunk, but my solution to that is that i just usually leave early. it's not like i'm gonna miss anything if i leave before midnight. but idk what else to do if problems are more those other ones

yes, it's way too tempting

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murdurur wrote:
yes i do just not go
it's too hard to be around other people who are drinking and having a great time like there will be a point where you inevitably just go fuck it i'm joining in lol

staying home is the least miserable option imo

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Barbarella wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

kagura wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:
not simple for everyone

is the problem that you feel like you can't control it? like you're gonna end up drinking if you go? or do you feel like there's social pressures?
my problem with social drinking events are that drunk people are being exhauting af when you're not drunk, but my solution to that is that i just usually leave early. it's not like i'm gonna miss anything if i leave before midnight. but idk what else to do if problems are more those other ones

yes, it's way too tempting

Yeah you should either go with a sober-buddy, or not go at all.
Your partner should support that.

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Bloodflowers wrote:

Barbarella wrote:

Bloodflowers wrote:

kagura wrote:
is the problem that you feel like you can't control it? like you're gonna end up drinking if you go? or do you feel like there's social pressures?
my problem with social drinking events are that drunk people are being exhauting af when you're not drunk, but my solution to that is that i just usually leave early. it's not like i'm gonna miss anything if i leave before midnight. but idk what else to do if problems are more those other ones

yes, it's way too tempting

Yeah you should either go with a sober-buddy, or not go at all.
Your partner should support that.

i know they will im just worried abt missing out on all the fun non alcoholic things