wuwu wrote:Klavier wrote:wuwu wrote:
blonde is just light brown, i could see this guy describing his hair as a warm dark blonde colour
people act like being blonde is this special thing when in reality its just a light brown shade. it also depends on the lighting and also on the seasons
or maybe ppl just see the difference in the color lol i don't think its a case of gatekeeping
its hard to draw a line at one specific shade and say "everything lighter than this is blonde". everyone seems to have a different opinion. if someone with light brown hair calls themselves blonde then they are blonde, i dont really understand why its such a controversial topic
yea thats not what im saying tho i agree that there isnt a definite answer but in some cases the difference is a bit more noticeable. my point is that i ppl arent gatekeeping just because they feel a certain type of way about something. its just not rly that deep