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cobain wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
cobain wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Don't want to go in your thread just to complain about my stuff, it's not even that serious I'm just being dramatic.

Hope you can figure out that stuff with the guy you were talking about. It sounds so emotionally confusing ngl
u are allowed tho if u wanna !!
hugs to ya again !!!!!
Oh it's just same old same old. My brain decided to tell me how real something is even though it is unhealthy and stupid while I have the option for something real and healthy but I just don't want it oof

Same to u! 
ooo tell me more about it ! if u want to ofc. u can tell me in private messages too if u feel the need to talk about it. sometimes u just have to talk it out u know. and im here for it !
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Date: 29-01-2022 21:59
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YSL wrote:
cobain wrote:
YSL wrote:
cobain wrote:
me too but its rly hard for me when im sober. i wanna do it face to face but the bitch cant see me apparently so
i like to live by the rule "if he wanted to, he would"
i know it's hard tho
yes i've heard it before but then its like... i want to an i'm not??? if u know what i mean?? 
but it's kind of whats been fucking me up with this whole friend staying over situation. what kind of reason even is that? IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD. u know. sure he might wanna be nice to his friend and not leave him alone but ?? when we can see each other like 2 times a month? idk maybe im just being a bitch about it
exactly
and he is distant and doesnt answer ur snaps?? he should put in more effort if he really wants u 
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Date: 29-01-2022 22:08
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
YSL wrote:
cobain wrote:
YSL wrote:
i like to live by the rule "if he wanted to, he would"
i know it's hard tho
yes i've heard it before but then its like... i want to an i'm not??? if u know what i mean?? 
but it's kind of whats been fucking me up with this whole friend staying over situation. what kind of reason even is that? IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD. u know. sure he might wanna be nice to his friend and not leave him alone but ?? when we can see each other like 2 times a month? idk maybe im just being a bitch about it
exactly
and he is distant and doesnt answer ur snaps?? he should put in more effort if he really wants u 
trying my hardest to go out with friends but i dont think its going well looool. i wanna show him that im out having fun. that hes just an OPTION. but yeah not going well atm. i think ill just be drunk and alone all night and then i might drunk call him. stupid as i am
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Date: 29-01-2022 22:12
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
by 11, so in roughly 35 minutes, if i haven't managed to find friends to go out with im gonna call him. sorry but thats just how it is. i feel fucking miserable rn cuz everything just goes to shit
if he doesnt answer itll be way worst but then i can cry alone all night ig
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Date: 29-01-2022 22:27
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sapovnela wrote:
i feel you so much lol. its been a hellhole with the last guy i tried to date cuz he didn't seem to put the same effort in it as i was and always had another plans when i tried to meet up w him. honestly you either get yourself out of it or let it consume you cause he sure as hell won't do anything to make it easier for you. i don't think its a great idea to play games n shit just try and tell him how you feel to get clarity but i doubt he'll understand cause he seems immature. anyways i hope it gets better for ya<3
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Date: 29-01-2022 23:20
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cobain wrote:
sapovnela wrote:
i feel you so much lol. its been a hellhole with the last guy i tried to date cuz he didn't seem to put the same effort in it as i was and always had another plans when i tried to meet up w him. honestly you either get yourself out of it or let it consume you cause he sure as hell won't do anything to make it easier for you. i don't think its a great idea to play games n shit just try and tell him how you feel to get clarity but i doubt he'll understand cause he seems immature. anyways i hope it gets better for ya<3
men rly be.................... a different breed right.........
hugs <33333
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Date: 29-01-2022 23:25
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cobain wrote:
so i ended up calling him. earlier than i said i would but i just HAD TO
at first he didn't answer but he texted me almost right after and was like "yes baby" and i was like "call me" so he called me. he asked me what was up. i told him i was a bit drunk and told him my plans had gone to hell. basically. told him i was a bit sad and he asked why. i told him bc i think so much and he asked me what i think about and i said it's about him. he asked me what so i told him. that i'm scared he doesn't like me or whatever. but ig i got some clarity. he told me to not think like that, he's had a rough couple of weeks at work (he's switched positon and he's not happy about it) and many ppl at work have asked him what's up, basically. i told him i get scared and insecure. i told him i'm scared he doesn't like me because i like him. he said he likes me. then i brought up this specific girl thats like MAKING MY HEART FUCKING RACE JUST THINKING ABOUT HER bc they're calling each other baby!!!!!!!!!!! i'm sooooososososoosos insecure about her specifically and i hate that i brouight her up but wtf. he was like "i've told you that baby in our culture doesnt have the same meaning as in sweden. she's home baby. you're swedish baby. she knows im not single" and i was like "oh so you're not single" and he was like "nah" and i was like "who's ur gf" and he was like "a secret. but she knows her name starts with s" shglk my name's sofie
so we talked for a while and he reassured me n shit and i told him i don't wanna be psycho but i think too much so shit happens. we talked about other stuff too. when we were about to hang up he told me to drink some water and go to sleep lol im not gonna do that tho im gonna wait until my bestie gets home so i can talk for a while THEN go to sleep
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Date: 29-01-2022 23:36
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cobain wrote:
so anyways if someone in a middle eastern country can confirm that "baby" has a different meaning for u then please let me know. i've understood it's more common than i thought to throw around "habibi" to like friends and family, people you care about, but i've never really heard baby like that.
whatever he said to me that if he was thinking about her then he'd be with her but he isn't so he isn't with her. time 2 stop thinking and drink some goddamn water 😜😜😜😜
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Date: 29-01-2022 23:46
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ouch wrote:
I will always advise ppl yo not call/say/text anything drastic when they r drunk/tipsy, but honestly its very relieving to be able to ask abt stuff you usually feel is too stupid to ask. Sounds like a good conversation for u at least, gives some explanation to stuff 
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Date: 29-01-2022 23:46
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
ouch wrote:
I will always advise ppl yo not call/say/text anything drastic when they r drunk/tipsy, but honestly its very relieving to be able to ask abt stuff you usually feel is too stupid to ask. Sounds like a good conversation for u at least, gives some explanation to stuff 
yes like i've been wanting to talk to him for ages about this but i've never gotten the chance. and sadly i get more courage when i'm drunk, as any other person ig, so what happened happened. right. but yes it was nice talking to him about it. he asked me the next time i was off etc idk maybe he'd want to see me then. i feel calmer so that's nice even if it's just for the moment. i bet i'm gonna rile myself up in no time again but hmm time to chill. cant be too demanding
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Date: 29-01-2022 23:51
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Peachy wrote:
cobain wrote:
Peachy wrote:
cobain wrote:
i mean yeah i can understand that, i know ur not always in the mood to talk to ppl
but knowing him idk... he's extremely social. talks to ppl constantly. he can't stand being alone etc. talks to 4309583096 other girls too, "friends" but idk bout that hhhhah
uhhh yea same 

but like, i understand it's hard not to think about it and analyze.
if something feels off u can ask once and say how u feel etc, try to talk to him about it and make him understand u need reassurance. 

but otherwise it's important to allow him to have a life outside of the relationship too (if u are in, sorry i'm assuming) 
i was planning on talking to him about all of this shit going through my head this weekend. because i thought we were gonna see each other. i only have every other weekend off so we can't rly see each other more than that. but he had to idk "babysit" a friend this weekend. dumb fucking excuse lmaoooo
because i really wanna take it f2f. i know from experience that men avoid or just prolong the whole process when u take it over text which is gonna be my downfall
we aren't in a relationship
yeah it's sum to talk about f2f. 
men( > boys) think ghosting and ignoring problems make them go away lol.
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