concept: if i actually knew how to style irl - Forum

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Alam wrote:
That is, absolutely disgusting

yeah like why these shipping costs be insane. ppl residing in the us don't realize how lucky they are to have a shit ton of stores and sellers and such w free shipping options + no taxes

honestly id still rather live in norway than america all things considered, im not sure if i can even consider them lucky

on this thing, yeah. on everything else, sorry the u.s. i would take norway any day. i will just complain in the mean time.

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MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:
Ah yeah, like I can't find anything that fit my boob size : ) There is always something off. I feel like I've tried everything, like I do my measurements and I give it my best and things still doesn't fit. also there are so many clothes I rly like but I can't wear them bc they are made for ppl actually having boobs and I don't : ) and I'm also skinny and one should think that would help me w my no boobs issues but it doesn't at all. It's like "too tight there, too wide there and visa versa" and ye everything makes me look sorta boyish, which is not rly a look I much enjoy... so I gotta stock up on v-necks, and lace and more feminine things without making me look like a doll bc I also hate clothing aging me down since everyone genuinely already think I'm 16 (i'm 25), and it makes me feel like a kid.

same
I think what annoys me is that I have too much boob for stuff that requires little boobs and too little boob for all those clothes that require you to actually fill them out
like oddly enough cup size B seems to be the most under represented in fashion (though I'm honestly not even sure about having a b, because my boobs are bigger than everyone I know who has a b, but all my bras have a b and it is what I get when measuring???? like ... how????)
also it seems like at some point people are like: oh if you don't have this exact body shape, you should just go with stuff that's 3times oversized because no one wants to see your weird body
I usually have the opposite issue though, like my style is very mature and I know that, but I'm only now slowly getting into the actual age of how I dress? apparently it's not ok to like business attire and blouses when you're 15 and keep that style consistently... I kinda wish I could go for a more delicate look though instead of having to resolve to the broad presence one (I kinda do with summer dresses, like with this one, but it still often just feels like I'm dressing for a big event instead of casual everyday clothes)

man, I dress the opposite. I grew up doing sports and literally wore sports clothes every day, think tights and "overtrekksjakke" w running shoes, no make up and a ponytail. I'm incredibly low maintainance, but also I hate myself for it but I also don't have the skill, will or energy to prioritize it more, but also I only live once so I'm constantly torn about what to do. From nearly the entirety of february of this year, I wore matching sweatpants and a tee in a beautiful dusty blue and loved it. and in summer, which is my season, I probably have the most fashion sense because I can wear shorts and tops. However, overall I'm a black skinny jeans and a tight top kinda person or wide pants and a tee kind of person. comfy, survive the place I live in (it has to deal w doing garden work, having a bunny, walking in the forest, rain (ugh), etc.) I don't exactly opt for the most feminine stuff, and I don't think the style I want either is the most of that, but it is *more* of that, where I don't feel like I'd be aged down 10 years for not having shapes and being skinny.

I never got the sporty look since I was so not a sporty person, never have been, even during the brief 3 years that I was playing basketball
like don't get me wrong, if I could wear what I like, I would go all out and be really fashionable, but like this it's just me in jeans and a fancy shirt/blouse and then during the summer months I go the extra mile by chosing a fancy dress and call it my personal style - but it really isn't
I mean, honestly at this point I'm starting to question a bit the whole concept of gendered fashion as in dressing feminine and dressing masculine when the only things making a difference for most is just whether you have closed crotch space (like pants) and how much of your chest you show, you know?

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MasileinDE wrote:

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MasileinDE wrote:
same
I think what annoys me is that I have too much boob for stuff that requires little boobs and too little boob for all those clothes that require you to actually fill them out
like oddly enough cup size B seems to be the most under represented in fashion (though I'm honestly not even sure about having a b, because my boobs are bigger than everyone I know who has a b, but all my bras have a b and it is what I get when measuring???? like ... how????)
also it seems like at some point people are like: oh if you don't have this exact body shape, you should just go with stuff that's 3times oversized because no one wants to see your weird body
I usually have the opposite issue though, like my style is very mature and I know that, but I'm only now slowly getting into the actual age of how I dress? apparently it's not ok to like business attire and blouses when you're 15 and keep that style consistently... I kinda wish I could go for a more delicate look though instead of having to resolve to the broad presence one (I kinda do with summer dresses, like with this one, but it still often just feels like I'm dressing for a big event instead of casual everyday clothes)

man, I dress the opposite. I grew up doing sports and literally wore sports clothes every day, think tights and "overtrekksjakke" w running shoes, no make up and a ponytail. I'm incredibly low maintainance, but also I hate myself for it but I also don't have the skill, will or energy to prioritize it more, but also I only live once so I'm constantly torn about what to do. From nearly the entirety of february of this year, I wore matching sweatpants and a tee in a beautiful dusty blue and loved it. and in summer, which is my season, I probably have the most fashion sense because I can wear shorts and tops. However, overall I'm a black skinny jeans and a tight top kinda person or wide pants and a tee kind of person. comfy, survive the place I live in (it has to deal w doing garden work, having a bunny, walking in the forest, rain (ugh), etc.) I don't exactly opt for the most feminine stuff, and I don't think the style I want either is the most of that, but it is *more* of that, where I don't feel like I'd be aged down 10 years for not having shapes and being skinny.

I never got the sporty look since I was so not a sporty person, never have been, even during the brief 3 years that I was playing basketball
like don't get me wrong, if I could wear what I like, I would go all out and be really fashionable, but like this it's just me in jeans and a fancy shirt/blouse and then during the summer months I go the extra mile by chosing a fancy dress and call it my personal style - but it really isn't
I mean, honestly at this point I'm starting to question a bit the whole concept of gendered fashion as in dressing feminine and dressing masculine when the only things making a difference for most is just whether you have closed crotch space (like pants) and how much of your chest you show, you know?

i've never really given gender\fashion much thought bc it's like i'm egocentrical enough to just rly care about what I like in regard to how I dress like my brain is incredibly picky in what I find good looking but also very low care in what other ppl wear. but u probably got some points going there.