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Meister
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Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:
The reason kids should be taught about these topics is so that they dont grow up confused, feeling wrong and not normal if they aren’t straight/cis.

of course everything needs to be age appropriate. You wouldn’t talk about sex with a young child (but thats just common sense)

Yes i agree, they need more talk in school and after school and meet trans in real life and ask questions.
If a kid is feeling confused and watch TIKTOK, Instagram or other social media it can go really well or really wrong. You can be a girl and love to fix the car, wearing baggy clothing and so on without being trans. A guy can love to bake and sew clothes without being gay or trans. I think that if you are confused you are easier to over think and over look things.

Its okay to be different and its okay to be trans but i think its a really thin line.
Some people knows from a young age that they are trans and some people realize that in their late 80,s.
Its a good thing that we have more information and more treatments but i don´t know if a young teen should look at trans influencers and take take their words blindly. Just because the influencer had the same feeling and thoughts as the young teen, they are still two different people.

The younger you are the easier it is to infleunce and so on. When you are 15-17 you know more and you also have more knowlede an can understand things better than an 11-12 year old.

This is just fearmongering. ”My kid will turn gay if he sees gay people on social media or hearing his teacher talk about different sexualities!!”

Yeah and then they will bring up the bible.
Jesus was talking to everyone but they only take out the parts of the bible that fits their agenda.
When children are in the kindergarten they can talk about that its natural for some kids to have two dads or two mothers.

When they are in class 2-3 they can tell and talk abut its notmal to have feelings for the same gander and its also nothing wrong to feel different and be different. And here they talk about how you make a child.

In 5 grade they should have a really serious talk about not sending photos and videos of them self's to "nice strangers" or your boyfriend/ girlfriend.

When they are in grade 6-7 they can talk about the birds and the bees.

Abigail4
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Abigail4 wrote:

Vesperon wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:
Yes i agree, they need more talk in school and after school and meet trans in real life and ask questions.
If a kid is feeling confused and watch TIKTOK, Instagram or other social media it can go really well or really wrong. You can be a girl and love to fix the car, wearing baggy clothing and so on without being trans. A guy can love to bake and sew clothes without being gay or trans. I think that if you are confused you are easier to over think and over look things.

Its okay to be different and its okay to be trans but i think its a really thin line.
Some people knows from a young age that they are trans and some people realize that in their late 80,s.
Its a good thing that we have more information and more treatments but i don´t know if a young teen should look at trans influencers and take take their words blindly. Just because the influencer had the same feeling and thoughts as the young teen, they are still two different people.

The younger you are the easier it is to infleunce and so on. When you are 15-17 you know more and you also have more knowlede an can understand things better than an 11-12 year old.

This is just fearmongering. ”My kid will turn gay if he sees gay people on social media or hearing his teacher talk about different sexualities!!”

but this is happening. many more people are trans nowadays.

Because people aren’t as afraid to come out these days which is a good thing unless you’re suggesting that more people are gay today because of the ”gay doctrine”?

Abigail4
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Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

With forces i mean they make LBTQ+ character just because they want to show how including they are.
I have seen a lot of movie and shows from the 80,s and 90,s that are having trans characters and i and gay. It feel more natural the way they was introduced. A lot of shows and movies today are "Im gay and it´s my only thing to bring here" it feels hollow. When the characters identity and gender are the most important thing and nothing else matter i wonder who the show is for. I hope you understand what i mean and what im after.

Its the presentation of the character in the shows and movies that makes it feels forces or not.
Yes its normal to be gay, trans and bi and i have nothing against them in real life. I know it sounds like i hate everyone in the LBTQ+. Its great that we are getting more LBTQ+ characters in movies and series as long it gets a more natural introduction and the person has a purpose to the story and not just being there for the including points.
If i see two girls or two boy kissing i don´t think about it, they are in love.

I also have problem with male and female relationships in movies and series, especially when the male cant take a no and starts to stalk the girl. That is not romantic, its not healthy and its not a love stalking. Its ownership stalking. The girl leave the healty boyfriend to end up with the crazy one because he is so charming. And i have a problem when the girl puts others in danger because of the guy she is love with.

How many straight charchters do you know which are either boy crazy girls or girl crazy boys? I know plenty. This isn’t a chriticism for gay/trans charachters but poorly written characters overall.

I really dislike the boy crazy trope and woman crazy trope.
How I Meet Your Mother is one show that would not work if the main character was ugly. It would be 6 harassment and he would be label as a perv.

So it’s not really about gay people in the end of the day

Abigail4
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Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:
Yes i agree, they need more talk in school and after school and meet trans in real life and ask questions.
If a kid is feeling confused and watch TIKTOK, Instagram or other social media it can go really well or really wrong. You can be a girl and love to fix the car, wearing baggy clothing and so on without being trans. A guy can love to bake and sew clothes without being gay or trans. I think that if you are confused you are easier to over think and over look things.

Its okay to be different and its okay to be trans but i think its a really thin line.
Some people knows from a young age that they are trans and some people realize that in their late 80,s.
Its a good thing that we have more information and more treatments but i don´t know if a young teen should look at trans influencers and take take their words blindly. Just because the influencer had the same feeling and thoughts as the young teen, they are still two different people.

The younger you are the easier it is to infleunce and so on. When you are 15-17 you know more and you also have more knowlede an can understand things better than an 11-12 year old.

This is just fearmongering. ”My kid will turn gay if he sees gay people on social media or hearing his teacher talk about different sexualities!!”

Yeah and then they will bring up the bible.
Jesus was talking to everyone but they only take out the parts of the bible that fits their agenda.
When children are in the kindergarten they can talk about that its natural for some kids to have two dads or two mothers.

When they are in class 2-3 they can tell and talk abut its notmal to have feelings for the same gander and its also nothing wrong to feel different and be different. And here they talk about how you make a child.

In 5 grade they should have a really serious talk about not sending photos and videos of them self's to "nice strangers" or your boyfriend/ girlfriend.

When they are in grade 6-7 they can talk about the birds and the bees.

The bible is misquoted all the time, it’s sad

Meister
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Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:
How many straight charchters do you know which are either boy crazy girls or girl crazy boys? I know plenty. This isn’t a chriticism for gay/trans charachters but poorly written characters overall.

I really dislike the boy crazy trope and woman crazy trope.
How I Meet Your Mother is one show that would not work if the main character was ugly. It would be 6 harassment and he would be label as a perv.

So it’s not really about gay people in the end of the day

I have an opinion on many things.

Abigail4
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Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

I really dislike the boy crazy trope and woman crazy trope.
How I Meet Your Mother is one show that would not work if the main character was ugly. It would be 6 harassment and he would be label as a perv.

So it’s not really about gay people in the end of the day

I have an opinion on many things.

Right but that would be like me saying i have a problem with black people if i was reffering to crime
obviously all races commit Crime so why call out blacks?

if i have a problem with poorly written chrarachters overall, i wouldn’t specifically call out the gay charachters

Private
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wug wrote:
lot of text here smh

Meister
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Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:
So it’s not really about gay people in the end of the day

I have an opinion on many things.

Right but that would be like me saying i have a problem with black people if i was reffering to crime
obviously all races commit Crime so why call out blacks?

if i have a problem with poorly written chrarachters overall, i wouldn’t specifically call out the gay charachters

In the USA the black are the ones that commits most of the crimes.
Yes all races commits crime and you have to look at each country to see what group are the committing most crimes. We need to look at gender, age and so on. If there is a country that has few black persons the procent will be lower.

About the issue, this person explains better than me what i mean.

I watched a ton of series and movies that had LBTQ+ characters and they felt more geniun than alot of chracers today. I dont know if it´s because they don´t know how to write a character or if they just want to please the social media. If a serie upsets a group of people they use twitter and a show can be cancelled, an actor or actress has to quit.

Abigail4
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Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:
I have an opinion on many things.

Right but that would be like me saying i have a problem with black people if i was reffering to crime
obviously all races commit Crime so why call out blacks?

if i have a problem with poorly written chrarachters overall, i wouldn’t specifically call out the gay charachters

In the USA the black are the ones that commits most of the crimes.
Yes all races commits crime and you have to look at each country to see what group are the committing most crimes. We need to look at gender, age and so on. If there is a country that has few black persons the procent will be lower.

About the issue, this person explains better than me what i mean.

I watched a ton of series and movies that had LBTQ+ characters and they felt more geniun than alot of chracers today. I dont know if it´s because they don´t know how to write a character or if they just want to please the social media. If a serie upsets a group of people they use twitter and a show can be cancelled, an actor or actress has to quit.

”The blacks” 😭

If you want to categorize people like that, according to what you just Said, why do you think blacks commit most crimes? I think we can just focus on crime overall and not bring up race.

Meister
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Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:

Meister wrote:

Abigail4 wrote:
Right but that would be like me saying i have a problem with black people if i was reffering to crime
obviously all races commit Crime so why call out blacks?

if i have a problem with poorly written chrarachters overall, i wouldn’t specifically call out the gay charachters

In the USA the black are the ones that commits most of the crimes.
Yes all races commits crime and you have to look at each country to see what group are the committing most crimes. We need to look at gender, age and so on. If there is a country that has few black persons the procent will be lower.

About the issue, this person explains better than me what i mean.

I watched a ton of series and movies that had LBTQ+ characters and they felt more geniun than alot of chracers today. I dont know if it´s because they don´t know how to write a character or if they just want to please the social media. If a serie upsets a group of people they use twitter and a show can be cancelled, an actor or actress has to quit.

”The blacks” 😭

If you want to categorize people like that, according to what you just Said, why do you think blacks commit most crimes? I think we can just focus on crime overall and not bring up race.

Im sorry, African American people are more likely to end up in jail in the USA.
There are alot of different reasons why they end up there and it´s all start when they are really young. Young boys is living with their single mother and often in poverty and in bad neighborhoods. They dont have a good male role model and starts to look up to the older guys and starts to run errands for them. No stable home or living under stress makes you act out. They dont give school a chance and wants to fit in.

They feel that no one is listening and a lot of them need therapy but they are ashamed and see it as a weakness. If they want to go they cant always afford it. Kids need to know that its not a weakness to go to therapy, they are not a failure for seeking help. The foster-system is also a big reason for people to walk the wrong path. There is often families that takes in a lot of kids and then let them take care of them selfs.

How the data and statistic looks in different country's i dont know.